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Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by slap1(m): 8:45am On Sep 07, 2014
UjSizzle: Cool story bro grin
I swear.
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by Nobody: 8:48am On Sep 07, 2014
OP, you dump such girls very fast.

As for me... If I test u with small money and u Bleep up. I go waka.
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by EmmyDe25(m): 8:51am On Sep 07, 2014
Bro stop acting up this lover boy script like a certain Michael Chad Murray..... these hoes are never loyal.Move on.
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by Vikthor(m): 8:58am On Sep 07, 2014
.....Guy...quit right now or else...u will go down 6 feet before u ......
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by Bkrubzy(m): 9:04am On Sep 07, 2014
Bro. I'm sorry to tell you this but the truth is you just wasted four years of your life with an olosho.
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by AriDsexy(f): 9:08am On Sep 07, 2014
[quote author=Tallesty1]I'll always thank God for the type of heart he gave me. A heart that doesn't take poo from anybody even if I love the person more than myself. A heart that listens to my brain and a heart that always ask my brain for advice.

Oga op. Brake-ups make us strong. So let her go. Leave the girl and move on because you seriously need to, if you don't build yourself now and move then be ready to be used a third time. Her ex had dumped her before and may dump her again. She is very sure that you love her and will come back to you for a quick healing if that happens.

Learn your lesson and stop loving too much, stop showing too much love, stop confessing your love like a drunk. Stop being too nice to women, they don't need it. Never you on any condition cry over a girl. No gf is worth your tears. Be a toughy. [/quote
"Stop being too nice to women" huh?You seriously think they don't need it?
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by jahbiz: 9:12am On Sep 07, 2014
U r too weak and u really need something to keep u busy, that's when u will become a real man that can win this game of love. But I could spot some inconsistencies in ur write up so it looks more like a story to m than reality
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by doctorofgirls(m): 9:14am On Sep 07, 2014
Too damn long to read
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by Idowuogbo(f): 9:32am On Sep 07, 2014
mcocolok: " WETIN SELF, I NO FIT SNAP PICTURES WITH SOMEBODY AGAIN,I TELL YOU SAY MY EX DEY STAY MY AREA..I DEY WAKA I COME SEE AM ,HE SAY MAKE I SNAP WITH AM SO I COME SNAP WITH AM"
Roftlmaaaaaaaaaáoooooooo!

This biatch no gbadun you again ooo..... Bros, dump this hefer and move the f' on.
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by whizqueen(f): 9:36am On Sep 07, 2014
Personally i feel that for her to have come out openly to tell you all those bullshit she has done is cos she appreciates you. Proably she jes realized hw much u love n care for her and has nw decided to love you back.
My advice for u is to still be with her since she is giving u her love back now n jes av it at the back of you mind dat anytin gud or bad may happen. You reali love dis gal dont b quick to end the beautiful relationship, since u sed you av forgiven her. All da best
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by xtrix: 9:54am On Sep 07, 2014
i don't really comment, i just scroll and laff but on this i would have to do

was in a similar situation like the OP some months back until i realised it was all just money money, money. Join money to get iPhone 5s, buy ipad, buy tv, buy fridge, take me out for shopping, lets go to dubai, buy airtime erryweek and al i got was heartaches and signs of cheating, ur own crying na small, imagine your cousins telling you that their friend was making out wiv ur girl(den she dint know they were my cousins) and she was moaning hard & they went upstairs n stayed at the door side to hear them, imagine them saying dat 2 u every day, hw would u feel to make matters worse i got an accident while driving and thinking few months back bout her....to b truthful she knows ua weak and u can't do without her and she sees it so easy to manipulate u.. exactly my own case,i quit cuz i dint want to die young nd funny enough after 2 month i found someone who shares the same passion nd future goals with me and currently she spends on me and never demands anything....So man please back out dats if it not too late... Lesson learnt LOVE her but always keep her thinking if u do, use 70% on ur babe and 30% on other girls,i'm nt saying you should cheat but to keep you on the safe side...and find something productive to do with ur time, remember ua man and now is the best time to struggle to give ur children luxury

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Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by 100Cents: 9:59am On Sep 07, 2014
I have been with this kind of lady who is never through with her Ex and cannot control her intimate desires.

This calibre of ladies are the sexiest and very beautiful like models.

But right now, she is a single mother not from my hand. We broke up quietly..

Your lady will soon get frustrated with her wicked lifestyle.. Maybe at age 25 or 26, she starts begging you for marriage..

The worst is that she will.also.be tempting you to become promiscuous as she is not emotionally available for you.
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by chux76(m): 10:05am On Sep 07, 2014
mcocolok: Please i really need your Help Nairalanders.....

Tanx and One Love....


Move the F*CK ON DUDE!!
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by Sixix: 10:11am On Sep 07, 2014
whizqueen: Personally i feel that for her to have come out openly to tell you all those bullshit she has done is cos she appreciates you. Proably she jes realized hw much u love n care for her and has nw decided to love you back.
My advice for u is to still be with her since she is giving u her love back now n jes av it at the back of you mind dat anytin gud or bad may happen. You reali love dis gal dont b quick to end the beautiful relationship, since u sed you av forgiven her. All da best

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Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by Davidbanky(m): 10:15am On Sep 07, 2014
Kachisbarbie: Aiii, just smoke some weed and think about it grin

Ok, now I have taken out my time to read the situation here, I can see she keeps taking you back and forth, I think you deserve better sweetie. That girl doesn't love you, even if she claims she does -then she has a weird definition of love. I suggest you move on, do things that makes you happy...hangout...watch movies...anything.

It's ok for you to love her so,but it's awesome when she loves you back.
#ItsWell#


And if weed no work abeg take gum, I have seen some guyz at ojuelegba bridge take it well, it's cool .... It might help
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by Idowuogbo(f): 10:16am On Sep 07, 2014
Sixix:

undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Lolz...I was about to quote her with the same smileys.
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by Zammydagreat(m): 10:20am On Sep 07, 2014
So u are inlove with "Legend of the sleeper"

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Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by Oltabaks(m): 10:23am On Sep 07, 2014
You really want my advice?Okay,here goes:Call her up in the middle of the night,or better still,arrange a meeting,tell her you been reminiscing on what you've had going over the years and you have three words for her. Go F**K Yourself.Then leave....Case solved.
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by delishpot: 10:24am On Sep 07, 2014
My guy drop that biatch and move on to berra one(s) she aint worth a second more of ya time.
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by gerald2(m): 10:29am On Sep 07, 2014
I understand your frustration. You have to know this, BOYS chase after girls, real MEN chase after money, while ladies chase REAL men. I can't remember the last time a lady said NO to ME. I believe you are still young and you are not financially buoyant as the girl wish for. So my advise for you is simple, forget about her and chase your dream. Money answers all things, when money talks bullshit works. The girl does not love you at all, so you have to love money so that ladies will love you. Stop crying boy...

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Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by Sixix: 10:30am On Sep 07, 2014
Idowuogbo:
Lolz...I was about to quote her with the same smileys.

She prolly has done something like that before and in her cown ase, she blamed the guy for not holding still for the sake of love tongue
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by Ishilove: 10:31am On Sep 07, 2014
1miccza:

Come madam respond to your bb messages jare... Question for Orunmila ko question for Amadioha ni.. Look at her big black azz......
You need Jesus
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by Idowuogbo(f): 10:31am On Sep 07, 2014
Sixix:

She prolly has done something like that before and in her cown ase, she blamed the guy for not holding still for the sake of love tongue
Exactly! Promiscuous b!(7#€$. angry
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by Nobody: 10:32am On Sep 07, 2014
Slept with a Reverend father? shocked shocked shocked

Hmmm...OK then.

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Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by Sixix: 10:35am On Sep 07, 2014
gerald2: I understand your frustration. You have to know this, BOYS chase after girls, real MEN chase after money, while ladies chase REAL men. I can't remember the last time a lady said NO to ME. I believe you are still young and you are not financially buoyant as the girl wish for. So my advise for you is simple, forget about her and chase your dream. Money answers all things, when money talks bullshit works. The girl does not love you at all, so you have to love money so that ladies will love you. Stop crying boy...

Biggest lie of the 21st century. I knew someone like you who because of his money, position and educational achievements expected me to say yes without thinking twice. He told me at this stage in his life he can get any woman he want, he received the biggest shock of his life when I gave him a piece of my mind.

There are women like me out there who are not keen on money and it has nothing do with our financial state
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by KingTom(m): 10:39am On Sep 07, 2014
gerald2: I understand your frustration. You have to know this, BOYS chase after girls, real MEN chase after money, while ladies chase REAL men. I can't remember the last time a lady said NO to ME. I believe you are still young and you are not financially buoyant as the girl wish for. So my advise for you is simple, forget about her and chase your dream. Money answers all things, when money talks bullshit works. The girl does not love you at all, so you have to love money so that ladies will love you. Stop crying boy...
I second this motion grin grin grin
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by Nobody: 10:40am On Sep 07, 2014
Dis is what happens wen sum1 over loves,there's no need to ask nairalanders on wat to do,jst think and make ur decision on ur own...cos 4rm ur post i see dat u are madly in love wif ha,even wen she cheats on u..wtf...if u marry dat 1 ehn,jst make sure u don't av a security guard or driver,cos itz possible she falls in love wif them.
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by Sixix: 10:40am On Sep 07, 2014
Idowuogbo:
Exactly! Promiscuous b!(7#€$. angry

grin
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by elmagnifico411(m): 10:41am On Sep 07, 2014
mcocolok: Please i really need your Help Nairalanders.....


I have been with this Girl like FOUR years... The first three Months of our relationship was sweet and cool until i noticed changes in her attitude.. The Tape worm(EX) crept in. I have been there for this girl.. Loved her and cherished her... I took pains for her just because i truly LOVE her...I took her to see my people so she could understand i truly want the best for us...

I met her when she was really struggling to gain admission into the University and we worked out the MATHS together just to see her through...Immediately she gain the admission, she changed.. She tells me its OVER at every little problem we had and all i do is CRY because i really do LOVE her and cherish HER so much... I give her everything she needs and i spend time thinking on how to make her HAPPY ALWAYS just because i cared about her....

The real problem began when she traveled Home after her first year. On a cool evening two weeks after she got home, she uploaded pictures on her Facebook between she and her EX...I called her and she never picked up the call.. I left her messages so she could explain to me what happened and she never replied. I tried calling that Night and she never picked up until 1am and her reply was " WETIN SELF, I NO FIT SNAP PICTURES WITH SOMEBODY AGAIN,I TELL YOU SAY MY EX DEY STAY MY AREA..I DEY WAKA I COME SEE AM ,HE SAY MAKE I SNAP WITH AM SO I COME SNAP WITH AM" I was heartbroken by the response but i had to be strong.. She later called and told me she was no Longer interested in the RELATIONSHIP and that she LOVES her EX... I tried explaining to her that i was there for her and i love her so much and i really want 2 be with her. I explained 2 her that i so much love her and this can KILL me so soon and she insisted i should stop calling her... I was furious all through the night...Then she later called me crying. I asked why she was crying and she said she had hurt me so much and i was too good to her. She said she never deserved me and that she had things 2 tell me... She later Opened up that she lied about her EX and that she slept with HIM.. I was Heartbroken again and wept. She said she never intended to do it and she felt guilty about everything.. I said i still Love you and still don't care about the Mistake you made and we can move on and i will still LOVE u.. She later said she slept with her REV father. I was speechless on hearing that and asked how she got involved with him. I also asked if she slept with HIM when we started dating or before and she said after we started dating and she slept with him three times.....My reply was "I was there to make you happy,gave you the best sex,showed you LOVE and cared for you all through for good 3 years and all you had 2 do is sleep with your EX on seeing him once and also sleep with your REV father" I love her so much and just couldn't stand 2 see her cry so i forgave her...

I made her strong and also forget about the silly shit with the HOLY MAN OF GOD....She called me two months after the whole drama and said she had something 2 tell me,she said "I still Love my EX and i want to back 2 him" I was MAD again and said why don't you want 2 leave your EX and let it be? Why do you always make me wanna cry... I later TOLD her i am no longer interested in the relationship and want i wish her luck with MR EX...I hanged up and switched off. She left me messages on Facebook saying she was sorry and wanted 2 see if i still LOVE her...I forgave her and we still Moved on. Now we have been together for four years. I had a chilled bottle of RED wine last night and decided to think about all she had done and also made up my MIND to call it QUIT. I LOVE HER SO MUCH that i was ready to die for her but she doesn't even appreciate everything .

I really need your help nairalanders if this is gonna be the right thing 2 do.. I need your advice before i take actions....

Tanx and One Love....
bros, dis na yeye talk. D part wey dey vex me pass na dat 'cry' wey dey cry repeatedly. U dey lie jor! So males still booku wey be mumu?! Even my teenage bro no fit mess up like u. E show u no know wetin love be d way u dey shout am. Berra go turn priest make u do quaality things with your time. Seun abeg, how dis tory take enter front page?
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by Canme4u(m): 10:42am On Sep 07, 2014
Kachisbarbie:
Loll...you done see me dey smoke am before I just gave a suggestion ni...
Is weed for ugly people?

o gal, U dey follow people on NL oooooo!!!!

But em, hm, em....why M u followed tyms 40 of F u that u followed??
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by 1miccza: 10:43am On Sep 07, 2014
Ishilove:
You need Jesus

I have him already talk another one... Get your mind out of the gutter!!!!!!!!!!!!Respond jare!!!!!
Re: I Am Confused Because I Truly Love Her............... by Nobody: 10:49am On Sep 07, 2014
Super story

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