alutacontinua: As a real african man that I am, I believe women should do their job in the kitchen and let me do mine in the bedroom

nah yr sista i pity.

last time i checked diers somtin called housemaid.

Alexsmith20: last time i checked diers somtin called housemaid.

okay sir.

Alexsmith20: nah yr sista i pity.

I don't have one

Alexsmith20: last time i checked diers somtin called housemaid.

and you believe the maid will do all Check again!!

dam007: and you believe the maid will do all Check again!!

what d essence of d maid if would't do all...TBP

alutacontinua:

I don't have one

yr wife go hear am.

Godmystrength: @crackhaus-okay. But would it be too much to expect that hubby arranges for dinner when wife is running late say he has been home by 6pm and wife won't be home till 9pm?

Nope, it's not too much.

crackhaus:
Nope, it's not too much.

Good. Thank you. But you know there are some men who won't take that at all. It is not even open for consideration.......

For such kind of men what do you say about them?

Godmystrength: Good. Thank you. But you know there are some men who won't take that at all. It is not even open for consideration.......

For such kind of men what do you say about them?

Live and let live.

The man is clearly not considerate and it's unfortunate for a woman in this situation, but antagonizing her man by complaining and insisting on a change will most likely cause more problems...very few men if any at all want to be told what to do regarding such matters.

whatsmyname: What do you mean by "...its demeaning?" What is demeaning in you doing your own share of the chores? What's wrong with some people! Is she your house maid? She is your partner, your soul mate, your friend. Do you tell your friend or partner to go do all the work while your sit your lousy black a.r.s.e somewhere only for the reward to show and you stick your tongue out like a dehydrated dog wanting a piece of the goody? I bet you will not. For your info, my wife and I share house chores. So, look no further; c'est fini.

True talk sir, my hussy even prefer doing d house cleaning, cos he believes, he will clean it more to his own taste, and even assist wit d washing sumtyms! Not like some greedy men, dat has turned their wife into a house mate, siting and crossing their legs, forming oga 4 notin.

Alexsmith20: last time i checked diers somtin called housemaid.

Wat abt those dat doesn't av a housemaid? Cos am really sure, not everybody have a housemaid! Just take a litle step of it, and see wat ur wife will say to u, dat is, if only u are married o

crackhaus:
Live and let live.

The man is clearly not considerate and it's unfortunate for a woman in this situation, but antagonizing her man by complaining and insisting on a change will most likely cause more problems...very few men if any at all want to be told what to do regarding such matters.

Okay then.

crackhaus:
Going to the farm, birthing babies, and doing all the household work plus cooking is how you want to be treated?

No na, dat's not wat we meant o, as in, assisting ur lovely wife, once in a while, not gal friends o, cos u hardly see dem complaining, dey dnt even mind, bathing and feeding u, just 4 dem to get ur attention, and convince u to make dem ur house wife lol

whatsmyname: What do you mean by "...its demeaning?" What is demeaning in you doing your own share of the chores? What's wrong with some people! Is she your house maid? She is your partner, your soul mate, your friend. Do you tell your friend or partner to go do all the work while your sit your lousy black a.r.s.e somewhere only for the reward to show and you stick your tongue out like a dehydrated dog wanting a piece of the goody? I bet you will not. For your info, my wife and I share house chores. So, look no further; c'est fini.

chineke!

No one would win this debate.....Different strokes for different folks
I'd see a man who deems it fit to do chores if he can as concerned.....I mean kini big deal??
I enjoy such benefits of having a man who doesn't see it as a big deal to cook while I gist and cracks jokes with him in the kitchen.....Ain't taking it for guaranteed and he enjoys doing it for me.

dam007:
Funny how men view things these days... I'm of the opinion that some things aren't supposed to be ignored regardless of the influence of our colleagues... Helping one's spouse with some house chores isn't mandatory but I feel men frown at it because it looks #demeaning to them as the man of the house.. Here's my view as regards this.. I help my partner with some of "our house chores" when its clear that she's too tired to or for Some reasons unable to do it all.. To me, I do it not because I should, nor because I'm mandated to but because its our house.. Ps I'd love more opinions happy nairalanders!...

My dear there is nothing wrong with helping someone you claim to love, its called been human. If there is something wrong with a man helping with household chores then there is something wrong with a woman helping out in paying the bills.

Nigerian men : If you want a housewife who will be 100% domesticated go for it. If you want a superwoman who will be a career woman, help pay bills and still be 100% domesticated then you are on a long thing!

whatsmyname:
What do you mean by "...its demeaning?" What is demeaning in you doing your own share of the chores? What's wrong with some people! Is she your house maid? She is your partner, your soul mate, your friend. Do you tell your friend or partner to go do all the work while your sit your lousy black a.r.s.e somewhere only for the reward to show and you stick your tongue out like a dehydrated dog wanting a piece of the goody? I bet you will not. For your info, my wife and I share house chores. So, look no further; c'est fini.

. Correct

alutacontinua:
As a real african man that I am, I believe women should do their job in the kitchen and let me do mine in the bedroom

. African man kor,African man ni, nah person like you,after ur wife don tire from doing all the house chores go wan climb her for bed,instead of make she rest,mtchewwwww

missojugo:


My dear there is nothing wrong with helping someone you claim to love, its called been human. If there is something wrong with a man helping with household chores then there is something wrong with a woman helping out in paying the bills.

Nigerian men : If you want a housewife who will be 100% domesticated go for it. If you want a superwoman who will be a career woman, help pay bills and still be 100% domesticated then you are on a long thing!

I agree with you.. Does it really apply in a standard Nigerian society? I help my fiance with chores sometimes. Out of willingness. I'm just saying, should it be a must to do for men? Since paying the bills isn't a must for women.

alutacontinua:
As a real african man that I am, I believe women should do their job in the kitchen and let me do mine in the bedroom

Correct man.

dam007:
Funny how men view things these days... I'm of the opinion that some things aren't supposed to be ignored regardless of the influence of our colleagues... Helping one's spouse with some house chores isn't mandatory but I feel men frown at it because it looks #demeaning to them as the man of the house.. Here's my view as regards this.. I help my partner with some of "our house chores" when its clear that she's too tired to or for Some reasons unable to do it all.. To me, I do it not because I should, nor because I'm mandated to but because its our house.. Ps I'd love more opinions happy nairalanders!...

You are not 'helping' your wife with chores. You are simply cleaning your house sir. Its not just her house, its also your house.

ireneidiva:

You are not 'helping' your wife with chores. You are simply cleaning your house sir. Its not just her house, its also your house.

that's my opinion irene, its just that applicability in our nigerian homes is in contrast!

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Regardless where the partner is from, ko kan mi jo!

wss i there when they were dating, se mo mo adehun tan se ni?

Even if una date because of me, I no send!

because of me is different from i was involved!

itstpia8:
Regardless where the partner is from, ko kan mi jo!

wss i there when they were dating, se mo mo adehun tan se ni?

Even if una date because of me, I no send!

because of me is different from i was involved!

What are u saying?