poiZon: to me its not cheating.
:how will u call this cheating when it's a relationship that definitely will lead to no way?
if the girl is under courtship or is bethroted to the guy then i will say she is cheating but under this boyfriend- girlfriend status, she is just just fine. and also what if the new GUY IS THE MAIN MAN DESIGN TO BE HER MR RIGHT IN FUTURE?
Say person feeds u, pay ur school fees, dey give u all what not no mean say na him go marry u, maybe GOD send him ur way to be a primary hlper till the SECONDARY GET package. /gUYS TAKE note!

LordRahl001: no one is claiming! But pls reverse d role and c d gals reactn! The issue is if he wants d new guy, then call it off wit d boyfriend so he can move on wot his life!!! Do u knw if the boyfriend is even in d same shoes wit another lady but cut it off coz of his gf And imagine he finds out that what he avoided coz of the gf is what d gf is actually doing!!! Put urself in his shoes!! And if she is really that innocent, y didn't she inform her boyfriend abt it

LordRahl001: no one is claiming! But pls reverse d role and c d gals reactn! The issue is if he wants d new guy, then call it off wit d boyfriend so he can move on wot his life!!! Do u knw if the boyfriend is even in d same shoes wit another lady but cut it off coz of his gf And imagine he finds out that what he avoided coz of the gf is what d gf is actually doing!!! Put urself in his shoes!! And if she is really that innocent, y didn't she inform her boyfriend abt it

Toks2008:

More often the guy may not really digg her. As he chats with you he does samewith other ladies.

Honestly some ladies are fools and i mean a big time DUMB ASS.

Please tell me,what siught of a man will continue to show interest in a lady who is engaged or married but a wayward bastard from the pitts of hell who has no regard for the santity of marriage andofcourse such a man will never value his own marriage.

I have a principle that makes me diatant myself from any lady who tells me she is married,engaged or in a comitted relationship. I dstance myself from you no matter how i feel towards you and i have met ladies who have been seperated from their hubby yet i still believe seperation to me is not divorce.

So honestly most ladies are so dumb and clueless that they will be in a committed relationship and just mess it up because they are infatuated to one low life who is probably just interested in screwn them and dumping them to move on to the next looosed dumb ass.

Arcasie:
My friend's point exactly!! she knows she inlove with her boyfriend but she is the type who does not believe in cutting off good friendship just because he's of the opposite sex and would still hv this connection if he were a lady ...she just is the type who does not do shallow friendship, and she admits she loves the guy but like how she loves her brothers and could never date him evn if she wad paid to

thats y im confused if she is justified to have a guy frnd like that or its only her boyfriend she can have a connection with??

finditng:


This is really poison...primary keeper kwo, tetiary package ni....may God make u a primary bed-warmer too till d secondary wive shows up...mtschewww

she just enjoys how interesting, witty, and understanding the guy is when they talk or chat and she tells him everything that she is going through. Its gotten so bad he's the 1st person she thinks of calling when she wakes up and her boyfriend doesn't even know about him

poiZon:






iGNORE button wey are ju?

finditng:


Lol...u'll find it when you find ur brain .....or better still when we develop a vaccine for ur poisonous ideology

ndcide: For me,it's foolishness for anyone to clam ownership of the other person when they are not yet married.

Who says the present guy is the right person for her.

finditng:

By their posts , ye shall knw them....a relationship isn't marriage but I bet you, every relationship has its down period...if at. Every down period, you unto the next, you'll roam around all your youth...andd if you are ever lucky enough to get married before d down period of a relationship, when the period comes, you'll do just the same. I pray God guides me nt tto settle with this type..have some dignity and value...when you say you are here, let them meet you there and when not, say...mtschewwww

finditng:

Well, yeah ryt......I guess we should all just really have side chicks and guys.....dt way no-one owes no-one any exclusivenss....@ d end we al just fooling ourselves....let's throw it all open and let's seeif any would ever trust any nt to mention marry

1one:
The male friend too is at fault.. There's no reason why a guy should be overly close to a girl that has a boyfriend.

voodoo85:
i think its much more than physical cheating. sex may not mean anything but when u r sharing your soul with smbd thats the worst

Dcaliphate:
i know every relationship has its down period.. but did the op say they were in such period? your type will see white and call it grey... dont derail yourself please, no one needs your type either.

Arcasie: A friend told me about a situation she is going through and that got me thinking about this emotional cheating thing.

she has a boyfriend but shares a deep connection with another guy. their relationship is not sexual or anything but she just enjoys how interesting, witty, and understanding the guy is when they talk or chat and she tells him everything that she is going through. Its gotten so bad he's the 1st person she thinks of calling when she wakes up and her boyfriend doesn't even know about him. I tell her to keep her distance from the guy cuz she may get involved and she says its just a really great friendship and nothing more because she is not attracted sexually.

is she still cheating if she is not sleeping with the guy?

Chigold101: humn...am in a big shit...if this true... Many of my friends if not all share their secrets with me and come for advise rather than go to thier boy friends... I dont even crush on most of them but some of them i do crush. However, i know i cannever get down with any of my female friend...

voodoo85:

and u would want that your gf would share more with her male friend than u?

Chigold101: it is not cos i want them to tell me, however it is cos of my position & office. Many people both boys & girls consider me as their life coach. I dont even have a girlfriend, not even looking for one. I am dutyfully & happily married & it is my duty to create a condusive environment whereby my wife will see me as her comfort & everything. If she sees another man that way then it is my failure.

voodoo85:
great said

Chigold101: thanks...(winks)

voodoo85:

i agree, that if u cheat or go outside relationship its only my fault, same as if i cheat on my husband- he doesn't satisfy me in somewhere. unless partner is pathological cheater