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Re: Wife Nags And Demands Protection From Her In-law by Nobody: 2:30pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
He married her because she is a virgin abi? He should be content with that and blank his mind from all the negatives |
Re: Wife Nags And Demands Protection From Her In-law by naijathings(m): 2:34pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
what advice can you give to a deaf person? you guys warned him against it in the start.. now it is up to him to taste from the bitter cup of experience so he can tell others how it tastes just as he is already tell you guys. i feel real sorry for that n!gga.. i just dey laugh like say na comedy as i sit and imagine what manner of HELL his life must be like and mehhhhn Lord knows i dont wanna be in those shoes. |
Re: Wife Nags And Demands Protection From Her In-law by bukatyne(f): 3:01pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
KMTee: A colleague got married 6 months ago to his woman who he had, roughly 4 years relationship with before proceeded to the alter. but after he resumed from honeymoon break and was asked how he is enjoying his new status..he cofided in few of us and complained bitterly about his wife's characters, of which some of us had warned him against this lady b4 he married her but he said she would change, marriage changes women. The wife sounds like a self-righteous person. What she is saying might be right but the issue is how she passes her messages across. I get a feel that they did marriage counseling (hence the constant hammering on protection from family) but they did not really get the principles especially wifey. It is like a man yelling 'my wife must submit' without understanding the fundamentals. The hubby seems not to be on same page with wifey especially spiritually. Do they go to the same church? Dear OP, I will appreciate answers to my questions Thanks |
Re: Wife Nags And Demands Protection From Her In-law by KMTee(f): 6:03pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
bukatyne: the hubby is a devoted christian, faithful to his wife even before they married they both attend the same church they did marriage counselling together. other questions had been answered in previous posts |
Re: Wife Nags And Demands Protection From Her In-law by KMTee(f): 6:06pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
1stCitizen: He married her because she is a virgin abi? He should be content with that and blank his mind from all the negatives yes, he deflowered her on their wedding night, it was battle btw the both of them due to pain she experienced, she bought books on how to enjoy marital intercourse and den gave timetable on how it ought to be done according to the book. FYI, the guy is no virgin |
Re: Wife Nags And Demands Protection From Her In-law by bukatyne(f): 7:20pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
KMTee: I am just seeing this. I think the wifey is troublesome from this post The weekend is not too much for a BIL to visit and I do not understand the protection she is screaming about since her in-laws neither live with her nor visit her regularly What time does the wife get back home from work (since you say they hardly stay at home) |
Re: Wife Nags And Demands Protection From Her In-law by bukatyne(f): 7:30pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
KMTee: I think the husband is selfish and impatient. He should have tried to ease her into it (long pre-intimacy for that day & do the do maybe next day). If her first experience is bad, she is not going to be excited about making love to hubby and it is hubby that can correct that Since he knew the reason she bought the book (she buying the books shows she wants their sex.ual life to work out and is willing to learn), it is his duty to teach her it is fun gradually and forget what is in the book. If you are close enough to the hubby, tell him he has to unlearn all he has learnt with previous women he bedded and learn what makes his wife tick. He should see himself as a vir.gin and be willing to explore with wifey. It might take time but they will get there. The onus is on him because he is experienced in this field. Who knows, when wifey becomes satisfied in the bedroom, conversing with her will be easier and reduce her frustration P.S.: I though the reason ladies screamed for experienced guys is because they have the 'experience' and can do the do |
Re: Wife Nags And Demands Protection From Her In-law by bukatyne(f): 7:31pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
KMTee: I think the husband is selfish and impatient. He should have tried to ease her into it (long pre-intimacy for that day & do the do maybe next day). If her first experience is bad, she is not going to be excited about making love to hubby and it is hubby that can correct that Since he knew the reason she bought the book (she buying the books shows she wants their sex.ual life to work out and is willing to learn), it is his duty to teach her it is fun gradually and forget what is in the book. If you are close enough to the hubby, tell him he has to unlearn all he has learnt with previous women he bedded and learn what makes his wife tick. He should see himself as a vir.gin and be willing to explore with wifey till they come to the same level. It might take time but they will get there. The onus is on him because he is experienced in this field. Who knows, when wifey becomes satisfied in the bedroom, conversing with her will be easier and reduce her frustration P.S.: I though the reason ladies screamed for experienced guys is because they have the 'experience' and can do the do |
Re: Wife Nags And Demands Protection From Her In-law by Kanwulia: 11:05pm On Sep 24, 2014 |
Typical AFRICAN marriage! Troubled from THE GET GO! |
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