smokescreen4: nah I don't think she did but if she hates cheating as much as I do then she might have ......

blueberryp: Na wa for una o, r u guys trying to say any man that dies was killed by the wife just because she isn't wearing black, starving and carrying a gloomy face? This is the 21st century for crying out loud, people die, we have to move on. People grieve differently pls. Will mourning and torturing urself bring the dead person back, or will it take him to heaven?

BABE3:
Olodo

bennyrazz: there is more to this matter @op, are you sure your friend did not poison her husband due to his cheating nature?

pickabeau1:

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kreamidiva:


You said she's your friend but you are not very close. How are you sure of the things she can or cannot do

I'm not sha saying that she killed him o but hmmm....some months after the death of her husband and the lady is glowing? Well,leaves a lot to be imagined.

I am of the opinion though that the death of a spouse shouldn't be the end of the world for anyone but at least mourn the person first. It doesn't mean the person would look tacky or dirty but MOURN ur dead spouse.

I was watching a programme "Superdad" or so. The man was at his lowest ebb in life and his wife left him with 4 kids and ran off with another guy. After several years, the woman died. The man said he broke down and wept. He said he didn't believe her death could affect him the way it did despite what she did to him but he mourned her for months.

beeevan:



People view infidelity differently and it influences their reaction. To me, it's a mortal sin, i can't forgive nor forget it , to some, its forgive able and doesn't erode the Love. This man fell into the category of those that can forgive it and move on. He forgave and probably still loves the woman.

aisha2: The case presented here is not a woman who killed her husband but one or some who may not really mourn or feel the loss of their husbands because they didn't have a good marriage let us not loose track of that in all the excitement.
Murder is a crime but not mourning is not a crime. It is morally frowned at but no one can be charged for that. Even the examples I gave which seem to make you upset did not say any of the wives murdered them, the said they didn't feel the loss really because they didn't feel the love that should exist between spouses.
Just want to be clear before one is accused tomorrow if justifying murdering spouses. The topic is not about women who kill their husbands but about women who don't mourn their husbands who die from natural. Causes.hmm

smokescreen4: will do some digging about the illness that claimed his life, she didn't kill the husband no one around her have suggested that .

beeevan: What is there to mourn about a cheating husband? The only reason I won't kill him myself is because I might be caught and I can't risk a jail term for some douche bag or worst still, my conscience might not contain it. There isn't much difference between a murderer and a cheating spouse. A cheating spouse is a potential killer as far as am concerned. If you are tired of a relationship, walk out than cheat or better still let your partner know about it and walk out. if you are caught, you can't control what happens afterwards .


People can say what they like about your friend, she won't be looking so ravishing if she killed the cheat, she would have made an effort at pretense if she was the killer. Death has delivered many troubled women, death is nature, it happens to us all, you can't beat up a woman for not somersaulting for a dead spouse that would have re married instanta if tables where turned.


So because she is not hitting her head on the wall for a man that left no good memory of what they shared, she killed him? people sef.

pickabeau1:

It may seem natural on face value but people have been known to cause death by inaction or neglect
Withhold drugs, wrong drug dosage, not call 911 etc

aisha2:

This is not about women who kill their spouses still. That they don't mourn doesn't equate to murder. Murder is proved beyond reasonable doubt and not just because she didn't seem sad for loosing a husband she doesn't love

pickabeau1:

You are free to spin it anyhow you like it
I am saying killing a spouse does not have be an action
Even inaction can kill a spouse

aisha2:

Spin ke? That is a separate topic on its own
This one is clear. We can start a new topic on women who kill them plenty for 171

aisha2: The case presented here is not a woman who killed her husband but one or some who may not really mourn or feel the loss of their husbands because they didn't have a good marriage let us not loose track of that in all the excitement.
Murder is a crime but not mourning is not a crime. It is morally frowned at but no one can be charged for that. Even the examples I gave which seem to make you upset did not say any of the wives murdered them, the said they didn't feel the loss really because they didn't feel the love that should exist between spouses.

Just want to be clear before one is accused tomorrow if justifying murdering spouses. The topic is not about women who kill their husbands but about women who don't mourn their husbands who die from natural. Causes.hmm

effisyman: Ladies, u shd realise men are reading these.
You are ignorantly creating hatred and giving wrong advise to wives.

We can make these world a better place if we dwell on more positive things.

BABE3:

Olodo

majekdom2: Nashville ..... is ur surname onashile?

Nashville:

Naaah, surname is Tennessee.