When you first start dating a girl or getting to
know her, don’t hang on the phone talking
with her for hours at a time. If you do, you’ll
be indirectly communicating to her that you
have nothing else better to do. That you’re
boring, sedentary, and don’t have much of a
life.
Yes, you may enjoy the conversations with her
and getting to know her better. And she may
seem to enjoy them as well. But you’ll be
doing much more damage to your budding
relationship than good. Subconsciously, she’ll
be classifying you as a NO-LIFER.
Remember, this girl is looking for someone
who will make her life more interesting. It’s
better to be perceived as someone who is
busy, who does things, who has an interesting
and exciting life. Ten minutes on the phone
may be okay. Twenty is really pushing it.
And remember, when she calls and asks you
what you’re doing... never say "nothing".
Always be doing something interesting, or just
getting back from doing something interesting,
or getting ready to go do something
interesting "in a few minutes".
Don’t worry, you’ll have plenty of time to talk
with her later on, about anything you want, for
as long as you want... if you play your cards
right early on.
So remember: peak her curiosity about you,
make a date to see her, then hang up the
phone.

Hmmm...a lot of truths herein!