safarigirl: that's not subservient. That I can do with ease, I get along with most people

01emek: Omhen short guys don they bash the OP o... But never to worry, i have tips on how to become tall trust me its works.. At least at all, at all na winch..

... 1. Eat bean alot, that don't stop you from eating other food. honestly it works like magic..( talking from experience. My best föod actually)

2. Stay away from food that makes you fat. ( the fatter you are, the shortter you become! )

3. Constant execises to keep you fit ( the fitter you are, the taller you becomes! Not joking)

4. Go out more with tall guys ( am not saying you should isolate the short guy oo). As rediculous as it sound, its works some magic..

5. Stay away from alcoho..

chei, make i go hide o, my short babe they come

chibwike: Is anyone frustrating you..talk to me.

mimien: Babe u are so on point. Please tell them, marriage isn't a competition. Ladies should take time to study their spouse to be, fall in love and pray fervently before saying i do. What will it profit u to rush into marriage and rush out. Itz better to be single and happy than be married and miserable. If u must get married choose wisely and don't forget to place God first.

mimien: Babe u are so on point. Please tell them, marriage isn't a competition. Ladies should take time to study their spouse to be, fall in love and pray fervently before saying i do. What will it profit u to rush into marriage and rush out. Itz better to be single and happy than be married and miserable. If u must get married choose wisely and don't forget to place God first.

Mondisweets: u no well

ferdimako:
Those are what women call it now. Who is talking about, not having a say on decisions, cooking only and having 6 kids? I wash my clothes and cook for myself or eat out.

safarigirl: it may, it may not. I've encountered too many disappointments to give a shiiit anymore.

I'm not looking for a man, I have my thoughts of an ideal man, and if I don't find him...well. But I won't look for anything, you only find something when you stop looking

01emek: i know they joke oo , my babe short and very very aggressive.. When ever she saw me with a tall girl, she would start acting funny

bayulll01:
lol no wonder ur hearth has battered fuccked both back and front as a result of looking for tall guys lol sorry ur suffering just continue lol

01emek: i know they joke oo , my babe short and very very aggressive.. When ever she[i] saw me with a tall girl,[/i] she would start acting funny

50calibre: I'm familiar with the OP Safarigirl, she has a runny mouth like a tap, as well as a knack for talking nonsense.

Telling Nigerian women not to settle for less is akin to telling a beggar not to settle for less looolz.

Nigerian women are already less, they occupy the bottom of the barrel therefore asking them to set impossibly high standards for themselves is asking them to condemn themselves to a life of singlehood and lonliness.

Don't be delusional, Nigerian women score low in everything, their attitude sucks, physically they're less appealing with disgusting fake weaves, they've got nothing upstairs except different techniques on how leech off a man.

I consider Nigerian women a liability rather than an asset, & so do many guys. Therefore my advise to Nigerian women; if you're lucky to have any man come for you, just on him quicker than you could blink because you will not get anything better.

I don't see myself spending more than a day trying to woo a Nigerian chic, in fact after the first 5 mins, I determine if she's worth anymore of my time.

safarigirl: Being born into a society such as the Nigerian one connites certain things for a female.

From the day you can tell your right from your left, you're basically taught to be subservient to men. You're told that your place is in the kitchen and your brothers' place is in front of the television. Most of all, you're told that your only purpose in this world, is to fulfill the desires of some dude, serve him and bear his children. You are not to aspire for anything more and failure to live up to these expectations means failure as a person.

Well, this thread was inspired by a certain thread that was on FP today:

https://www.nairaland.com/1911041/why-nigerian-girls-should-not

Now, the stupidity of this thread is baffling. Basically, it's some lady telling females to settle for less. Telling us that we do not deserve the best and we shouldn't make any efforts to aspire for such because that would be foolhardy.

I honestly sympathise with her that she was unable to get the man of her desires, and eventually chose to settle for Plan B, who in fact was not what she desired, but as they say, when the desirable is not available, the available becomes desirable.

Time and again on Nairaland you find numerous chauvinists telling women basically that they have no opinion, telling us that we ought to dance skelewu because one of these rare species called 'men' looked upon us with pity and decided to marry us. And for those poor souls like Rita Dominic, Linda Ikeji and Genevieve Nnaji who are yet to be honored witha wedding ring? They should keep praying the rosary and hope they don't die 'marriageless'

Marriage is the be all and end all of a woman, therefore, she must settle for a raggamuffin if she hasn't found a gentleman at the ripe 'OLD' age of 27. Once you're through with University, your next bus stop should be a man's house.

Many women have ended up in loveless, frustrating marriages after settling for less, because all your friends got married after University doesn't mean you must marry at that time. Don't be the one whose story ends with 'Had I Known'

Feel free to live a little, keep your head on your shoulders, walk with your chin up, if you want your man to be as tall as Lebron James, don't settle for Tom Cruise, if you want him to be as charming as Antonio Banderas, don't settle for Al Pacino, if you want him to be as fit as CR7, don't settle for Mr. Ibu. If you must settle for less, let it be reasonable, don't go from a Lebron to a Kevin Hart because you're 'getting old and all your mates are married" no be who marry first dey happy pass.

Even the bible says "ask and it shall be given unto you" so if you tell God "I will manage..." He will bless you with a 'manageable' man.

God bless you as you settle with the best

100Cents:

A virgin means, her hymen is still intact. She is still a girl with the usual girl brain.

Now having dated a virgin once upon a time, she asked for recharge card one day after we met. I took it for a mistake. I sent it the exact denomination she demanded.

Dear, the demand continued throughout our 6 month relationship. It came to a point of comparing my financial status with hers. "Imagine how rich you are and I am suffering". Meanwhile I know this is blackmail but I am no fool, I will still enter my car and go and drop money with her. Money was my least problem then.

This lady was always visiting my house like 3 times a week that I got tired of her frequent visits. Mind you, the last thing on my mind was to sleep with her, and since she always felt very free with me, I would have succeeded.

After 6months, I mentioned marriage, she started her games, " send me money so I can come and see you ". You dey hear this one ?

I stopped calling her. 2 weeks later, she employed the services of her parents whom I have never met to beg me to come back to her. Her mother invited me first then her father, I bluntly refused.

Now tell me, was that lady actually looking for a husband

50calibre: I'm familiar with the OP Safarigirl, she has a runny mouth like a tap, as well as a knack for talking nonsense.

Telling Nigerian women not to settle for less is akin to telling a beggar not to settle for less looolz.

Nigerian women are already less, they occupy the bottom of the barrel therefore asking them to set impossibly high standards for themselves is asking them to condemn themselves to a life of singlehood and lonliness.

Don't be delusional, Nigerian women score low in everything, their attitude sucks, physically they're less appealing with disgusting fake weaves, they've got nothing upstairs except different techniques on how leech off a man.

I consider Nigerian women a liability rather than an asset, & so do many guys. Therefore my advise to Nigerian women; if you're lucky to have any man come for you, just on him quicker than you could blink because you will not get anything better.

I don't see myself spending more than a day trying to woo a Nigerian chic, in fact after the first 5 mins, I determine if she's worth anymore of my time.

Mondisweets: There is something i havent been able to understand about the some guys on NL you act like an assss by being being rude and insulting women but you expect the ladies here to maintain composure and still treat you with respect?
Im sorry if u act like an assss you will deserve to be treated like one and if u act like a respectable person you will be treated accordingly.

Mondisweets: There is something i havent been able to understand about the some guys on NL you act like an assss by being being rude and insulting women but you expect the ladies here to maintain composure and still treat you with respect?
Im sorry if u act like an assss you will deserve to be treated like one and if u act like a respectable person you will be treated accordingly.

cococandy: You never disappoint.
Die-hard woman hater.

I hope none of your female relatives is a Nigerian woman. Or has a Nigerian origin.

Okonkwo feeling funky

ferdimako:
What about if the tall guys don't want her? Is height the only attribute she wants? U have ur list...the other person has his. Do u know if u can meet up with his? Mak una begin dey pay una papa rent for overstaying. I love western world on this!

safarigirl: once again, you don't know me. Sm these are just baseless assumptions. I'm sure it kills you to know that there are women who don't give a shiit about you

Mondisweets: u no well

Mondisweets: biko what will you be doing with those tall ladies, tell me

safarigirl: like I said, it depends on the woman. I live in a family where the rule is 50-50. My dad washes his things himself, both parents provide for the kids. I guess that's why my views vary from what's ideal here sometimes

ferdimako:
He said the truth even if he has. Most men don't talk, just to keep their laying rights.

safarigirl: lol... No one is frustrating me, I just like to be realistic. Funny enough I always tell people that I won't get married cuz I don't think anyone will want to marry me. So whenever these NL eediots mock me, I just laugh cuz I don't expect any less.

cococandy: You never disappoint.
Die-hard woman hater.

I hope none of your female relatives is a Nigerian woman. Or has a Nigerian origin.

Okonkwo feeling funky

cococandy: He said the truth about what? His and your female family members?

And Nigerian guys are what?
Perfect?
Pls don't quote me with such low IQ response next time.
Thank you

PS I wasn't talking to you.

chibwike: why wont anyone want to marry you.