Guys have only one emotional need - the need to service their humongous egos. That's all.

Seun:

Guys have only one emotional need - the need to service their humongous egos. That's all.

Which I heard you have a lot of.

~Sauron~:

Stroke a man's ego. . . .Make him think he's in control even when he's not.
Thatz the best way to keep him on a leash i guess.

Seun:

Guys have only one emotional need - the need to service their humongous egos. That's all.

How can a woman know if she is over doing it?

Sistawoman

Its not difficult for an intelligent woman to judge that if she is with her man for some time.

chaloo:

Sistawoman

Its not difficult for an intelligent woman to judge that if she is with her man for some time.

So why dont you just answer the question and help the unintelligent women out?

Firstly, I didnt point my comments at you. Please dont take me wrong.

Secondly, I am not a woman. Its for any woman to find that out because all men are not the same.

chaloo:

Firstly, I didnt point my comments at you. Please don't take me wrong.

When you said sistawoman, that is me. I was not jumping at you just asking you to explain yourself further for those who are reading and not sure what you are saying.

Secondly, I am not a woman. Its for any woman to find that out because all men are not the same.

I dont women to answer this question, the question is ment for guys to tell us how yall feel on this matter so that we dont have to guess or speculate on what is going on with you.

Just use yourself as an example. How would you show to your woman that she is over doing it?

MUMU datz wat u are.

playah P:

MUMU datz what u are.

Who me?

My dear, ignore playa. This is a serious subject. What applies to me does not apply to any other man. I, personally, dont expect too much attention from anyone and dont like someone giving me too much attention. I like my privacy sometime. I would disappear and do something I want to do.

@ poster
The best input I can offer, is to get closer to your hubby
You should be able to sense when he's unhappy or needs to be alone etc.
It's also very important that you really feel body, soul and spirit about the song and dance you give to him
It makes no sense to pour out empty /false praises on a man when you don't really mean it.
It's very humilating if he senses it and could make him turn cold towards you.
I am sorry to say, most women prefer acting the role instead of living the role.
Acting the role no matter how small is being dishonest and can culminate to distrust in a relationship