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Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by Joniboi(m): 6:27am On Sep 30, 2014 |
01emek: She know that i love food alot and she wanted to use it and bribe me. When the food came,i humbly devour it, and she was like ''Baby i want to tell you some thing'', she started '' baby the first time i saw you, i know am gonna face a stiff competition and am.....You are not ok at all. |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by Sunkyphil(m): 6:31am On Sep 30, 2014 |
sauceny: Lies is what i see everywhere!i tink say na only me notice am o,some dey xpert in dat aspect |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by condralbede(m): 6:31am On Sep 30, 2014 |
01emek: She know that i love food alot and she wanted to use it and bribe me. When the food came,i humbly devour it, and she was like ''Baby i want to tell you some thing'', she started '' baby the first time i saw you, i know am gonna face a stiff competition and am.....Lolz.... you still devour the second girl food in front of herFinish up this movie plz 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by 1one: 6:33am On Sep 30, 2014 |
As cool as it sounds to the ear... really, a girl wooing a guy is just gross!!! I've not gone through all the posts yet, but from the pages I've read, such relationships don't just last.. It doesn't because it goes against the natural order of things... "Imagine a fish eating chicken meat.. The girl-guy dynamic was not designed to operate that way. I've never been wooed by a girl and it has nothing to do with being ugly, on a good day I'd pass for 6.5/10 in looks.. which is a pass mark on a verrrrrrry good day, I dey even enter 7.5 sef What I'm saying is most times it just puts the guy in an awkward position and makes him to give in just because of courtesy or because the girl is pretty... all guys that have accepted wooing proposals from girls all had this common denominator-"she was foooooiiiine". Later on they might discover the girl has more character flaws than they can handle and this leads to stress in the relationship. If the guy in this situation chooses to stay in the relationship, he stays mostly due to the fact that he pities her and remembers that she was the one who wooed him. The flip side to this is that it also creates an atmosphere where the guy doesn't want to do any tangible work to feed the relationship under the guise that well after all babe, you were the one that asked me out so I don't have to stress myself doing anything that makes you or us happy, the work is on you. This is 2014, as a girl in one other thread said and yes by that definition, a lot of things have changed, bordering lines have become blurred, women are more brazen, driven, the society has seemingly become more liberal and accomodating to notions like this - A girl wooing a guy. However, I think when it comes particularly to relationships, lets just keep it traditional... It works better that way... Give the guy "green light".. blind him with it.. Let it be so bright that even if Nepa takes light he won't notice.. That's the best you can do to a guy you're interested in as a lady... Start from dropping subtle hints and clues, if he still remains clueless, then increase the tone, if he doesn't still get it, then leave him be. Never Never Ever walk up to a guy and ask him out. 9 Likes |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by chibwike(m): 6:34am On Sep 30, 2014 |
eww, so this thread later made FP...eyaa..where are my peeps, najaboiy,tosyne2much,Mizmycoli,valmunich,Tallesty,yungchop,cooljoe,karschisbarbie,Neldrizzy, and the rest. We did it. Yeah, we made FP, thank y,all for making it happen. God bless u. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by chibwike(m): 6:38am On Sep 30, 2014 |
philantoxx: thank gudness dis made front page..yeah, bro..neva expected it |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by chibwike(m): 6:39am On Sep 30, 2014 |
phantonce: Like 7 To 10 times including my neigbor's cousinit has oh, oya come and tell |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by philantoxx(m): 6:40am On Sep 30, 2014 |
chibwike: yeah, bro..neva expected itcheers bro..anybody who says 2day ain't great is sick. |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by chibwike(m): 6:43am On Sep 30, 2014 |
philantoxx:Lol, abi, thanks once again jare |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by Bitojoe(m): 6:46am On Sep 30, 2014 |
This lady spoke out by telling me that am doing holy holy and that am not getting her signs which she's giving me.she said feelings can kill.she finally said that she love me weda i will like her statement or not. |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by philantoxx(m): 6:47am On Sep 30, 2014 |
chibwike: Lol, abi, thanks once again jare*offers hands* |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by Nobody: 6:51am On Sep 30, 2014 |
chibwike: ok, lemme set the ball rolling. I was in church one day, and there was this girl dat was just staring at me, any time i look at her, our eyes wud meet. I was like ahn ahn, wetin happen, why dis girl dey look me lyk dis, though i was happy sha, coz the girl was very beautiful. I decided to concentrate on the preachings and forget about the girl. But to my greatest suprise at the end of the service, the girl sister came to me and said her sis wants to see me. I was like oww ok,and i followed her immediately. U must be a liarer, u dated 4sometime and lost contact, why didn't u collect her mobile numba, do u want to tell me u av neva been 2her house while dating..... chai chai chai see lie o..... dearis God o.... |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by luckmike(m): 6:55am On Sep 30, 2014 |
Everyday things even yesterday again, they always have ways of saying it.
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Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by Infomizer(m): 7:03am On Sep 30, 2014 |
2ce. 1. Through a friend. She told my friend to tell me that she liked me. He didn't. Myself and my friend were walking together one eve and she called at him and asked "how far" and he replied "he knows". Outta curiosity, I later asked him what they were running and he told me. Well, we saw each other briefly, but I had to end it. She wasn't my kinda lady. 2. I was asking one babe (who really likes my company) when I'll meet her boyfriend and she was like "Nah, you can't meet him". I asked why and she jokingly went on about how myself and d guy were not on the same level in terms of looks, status and everything. She ended up saying well, I'm d lucky guy sha and when I asked for an explanation, she began d wooing proper...But I had a gf then and she knew, cause they schooled in the same area. Enough greenlight tho'... |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by Nobody: 7:04am On Sep 30, 2014 |
[color=#990000][/color]ℓoℓ you guys And Your comments are Jez So Funny |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by Clemzy16(m): 7:09am On Sep 30, 2014 |
Yeah, I've had girls woo me in the past. Guess what, I played along and gets dumped afterwards. S'hit happens!! |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by Nobody: 7:10am On Sep 30, 2014 |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by Clemzy16(m): 7:11am On Sep 30, 2014 |
Listen up guys!! The wrong girls will always come to you. You have to search for the right one yourself. 4 Likes |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by tosyne2much(m): 7:11am On Sep 30, 2014 |
chibwike: eww, so this thread later made FP...eyaa..where are my peeps, najaboiy,tosyne2much,Mizmycoli,valmunich,Tallesty,yungchop,cooljoe,karschisbarbie,Neldrizzy, and the rest. We did it. Yeah, we made FP, thank y,all for making it happen. God bless u.yeah I love it when I saw it on FP too |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by Sholly53: 7:15am On Sep 30, 2014 |
Yes sha.. Simple case.. She be mami-water |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by ShakurM(m): 7:16am On Sep 30, 2014 |
chibwike: where are doz handsome dudes, naijaboiy, Tallesty, Neldrizzy, cooljoe, valmunich and d rest dat re here. I knw a girl must have wooed you in one way or the other, come share jare, though i'd soon share mine..lets have fun. Lol*suspicious* Gay? |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by tosyne2much(m): 7:18am On Sep 30, 2014 |
Tallesty1: I 4 be d 4st to comment if I wanted to.may you live long my broda 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by Nobody: 7:21am On Sep 30, 2014 |
what's this thing doing on the home page? So a girl wooed me and I'll come to NL and share the exprience? Joke of the day... *unfollows thread* |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by Nobody: 7:22am On Sep 30, 2014 |
Lol, funny topic. But this is kiss and tell and its not good, pls avoid it. From the things I have been experiencing, I really respect ladies for being able to control themselves and make a decision to date one guy cos its not easy when u have numerous guys coming to ask u out as a lady; especially d pretty ones. But I don't know if its the way guys are wired or sth- when a guy get numerous ladies showing interest in him directly or indirectly, it makes him get confused, scared and nervous, especially if u are....and matured. My experience on this is becoming numerous, and its kinda scary cos u don't even know what they are after- looks, your little change, blasphemy/blackmail, planned mission or just to test your level of morality. To exposed/spoilt teenage boys, its fun to have girls chasing after them n wooing them- I had enough of it back then as a teenager, but to an adult guy or man who has approached marital age n has some qualities most ladies desire in a hubby, its always scary n makes u become suspicious of ladies in general! The best thing that can happen to any guy or what most mature guys pray for is to get a YES from at least 95% of ladies they chase/woo/toast and not being chased by women. Pls ladies, don't woo a guy directly, instead find his interest and give him enough glaring green light to bait him n lure him into doing the direct wooing. If u just came across him in a situation u guys won't meet again, make your green light glaring via- a hi, charming smile (all men melt @the smile of a strange pretty woman towards them), etc. If he fails to respond, sorry, move on he isn't into u or he's shy n can't handle the attention. Pls n pls don't woo any mature guy directly cos it will most likely not end well. Give him glaring green lights but pls when he follows ur green light and makes the move, don't go forming hard-to-get cos most mature guys will be pissed off n may end up disliking u forever! Flow with him when he makes move after your green lighting but don't form hard-to-get and make things difficult for him, my little advice. But then, guys pls avoid kiss and tell, its a ridiculous act to do!! Stop bragging about ladies that wooed u or those u had affairs with, it speaks ill of u as a guy and makes u loose charm/respect, pls desist from any form of kiss-and-tell. 6 Likes |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by 01emek(m): 7:22am On Sep 30, 2014 |
Joniboi: You are not ok at all. |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by Nobody: 7:24am On Sep 30, 2014 |
Nobleval: what's this thing doing on the home page? So a girl wooed me and I'll come to NL and share the exprience? Joke of the day... *unfollows thread*its really a ridiculous act! Only teenage boys and school boys will do that, and its very bad! 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by Beennkumar(m): 7:25am On Sep 30, 2014 |
dechandel:I'm sorry too. I'm good and you? I'm about to make breakfast for us. |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by chibwike(m): 7:25am On Sep 30, 2014 |
ShakurM: *suspicious* Gay?Bro its too early for that, good morning |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by chibwike(m): 7:27am On Sep 30, 2014 |
Nobleval: what's this thing doing on the home page? So a girl wooed me and I'll come to NL and share the exprience? Joke of the day... *unfollows thread*Bar bye 1 Like |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by vega84(m): 7:28am On Sep 30, 2014 |
Yes it has happend a couple of times .I was glad and felt good abt it ! I respect those bold gals till 2morw! #vegayarns# |
Re: Guys, Has A Girl Ever Wooed You, Share Your Experiences by YourCrush: 7:32am On Sep 30, 2014 |
chibwike: ok, lemme set the ball rolling. I was in church one day, and there was this girl dat was just staring at me, any time i look at her, our eyes wud meet. I was like ahn ahn, wetin happen, why dis girl dey look me lyk dis, though i was happy sha, coz the girl was very beautiful. I decided to concentrate on the preachings and forget about the girl. But to my greatest suprise at the end of the service, the girl sister came to me and said her sis wants to see me. I was like oww ok,and i followed her immediately.Did u check ur HIV status after then? Just asking |
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