Several women/ladies (married & unmarried) at this time are going through several traumatic, abusive relationships yet choose to remain. I equally know a few who wont take this sh.........t. Am sure some even wont hesitate to 'forget' scissors in the stomach of any man that tries that with them. Some men are sufferring similar faith, but the ratio of the women tends to out weigh that of the men. Even some of these ladies go to the extent of confronting other ladies to stay off this same woman 'panel beater' of a man.

I used to have this couple (not married) as a neighbor when i was single. This couple battle....I mean, BATTLE. I could visibly feel the fibration of their fight on the wall in my room. You dare not intervene, that would be your undoing, they will both pounce on you.. The next day, you will see the lady all dressed up heading for work with a black eye only to re-enact similar or worse 'war scenario' in just some few days ahead.

Ladies, what's the driving force?

Women are generally more emotional than men. The bottom line in any meaningful relationships is for everybody involved to see his or her physicians of varying skills regularly.

Op,your topic is myopic,why use "ladies",when men too are also in an abusive relationship.

"He would change" mentality at it peak.....Love is blind

Yomieluv: Op,your topic is myopic,why use "ladies",when men too are also in an abusive relationship.

Many people don't believe it

Yomieluv: Op,your topic is myopic,why use "ladies",when men too are also in an abusive relationship.

If you read it again, you will realize i talked about men going through similar situations ( I even know of one), but compared to that of the ladies, the ratio is higher, probably because theirs are most time reported and seems believable to say a woman is abused than a man, but it does happen, men too are also abused in a relationship.

Tallesty1: Many people don't believe it

abuse doesn't mean physical assault only,it could be psychological,eg a nagging wife..

Abuse is abuse,either physical,psychological,or emotional..

I got your point.

simplyOJ:
If you read it again, you will realize i talked about men going through similar situations ( I even know of one), but compared to that of the ladies, the ratio is higher, probably because theirs are most time reported and seems believable to say a woman is abused than a man, but it does happen, men too are also abused in a relationship.

so true,but women too abuse men psychologically,and emotionally. Where can we classify a nagging woman?

I will rather walk away than stay in abusive relationship/marriage that may lead to untimely death.
My signature says it all

Apart from financial benefits, a lady would stay in an abusive relationship simply because she is mentally unstable.

Yomieluv: so true,but women too abuse men psychologically,and emotionally. Where can we classify a nagging woman?

Abuse in marriages could go either way. It's just that, most time the man engages physical strength while the woman engages her mouth. But seriously, that mouth own dey pain die. You will told what you dont want to hear and if you take it to heart, you will loose your self worth and if you happen to be a man without self control, the dentison of the woman will be on the floor or she ends up with a black eye.

If she is the type that nags, find out what makes her nag (there has to be something she is not comfortable with), and if you make affort as a man to adjust and the nagging continue, then know that is her hobby, that one na to hand am over to God or (OYO)

simplyOJ:
Abuse in marriages could go either way. It's just that, most time the man engages physical strength while the woman engages her mouth. But seriously, that mouth own dey pain die. You will told what you dont want to hear and if you take it to heart, you will loose your self worth and if you happen to be a man without self control, the dentison of the woman will be on the floor or she ends up with a black eye.

If she is the type that nags, find out what makes her nag (there has to be something she is not comfortable with), and if you make affort as a man to adjust and the nagging continue, then know that is her hobby, that one na to hand am over to God or (OYO)

so true.

Because some women enjoy violence. That's their own way of feeling loved that is what explains the fact that they will have bruises all over their body from over panel beating and when they get to work and their fellow colleagues asks them why all this plaster on your body they will lie on okada and say it's okada accident. Them plenty.





Next bad news.afterall no more good news on nl again

Some are born losers, throw rugs to be beaten when dirty .

Because they are the neck, the neck is nothing without the head. Where dem wan go?

Kikikikikiii!
Nairaland sef

Chillisauce, i just dey vex o.
Today i wanted to upload one fine soup i made, d ediot no gree
Imagine.

Husbands are scarce na! You can't blame the women. If she leaves the abusive marriage,another woman will come and stay in the marriage so its better for her to stay, for better for worse.

moca: Kikikikikiii!
Nairaland sef

Chillisauce, i just dey vex o.
Today i wanted to upload one fine soup i made, d ediot no gree
Imagine.

Fine soup? Eh, pls unload abeg. Meanwhile I'm a vegetarian now.

But I still get meat for freezer wey I suppose chop. How I wan do am

Kai u just took it from my mouth.

Op they are the neck. Then man is the head.how can you think when you move away from your head where your brain is?

Chillisauce: Because they are the neck, the neck is nothing without the head. Where dem wan go?

Fedex the meat come my side.

Chillisauce:

Fine soup? Eh, pls unload abeg. Meanwhile I'm a vegetarian now.

But I still get meat for freezer wey I suppose chop. How I wan do am

Some women enjoy violent relationships and wont feel good if the relationship is non-violent, weird isnt it?

Sophyrocks: Apart from financial benefits, a lady would stay in an abusive relationship simply because she is mentally unstable.

well said

Chilli, its afang. My first attempt and ol boi, it was superb!

I wish i can go all vegan. But now im 50.50.
Staying healthy is the bam.
Na so everybody dey look me for house cos i barned lots of things.

Cococandy, easy o on d meat o, let what happened to me not happen to u
I hv learnt d hard way and dont wanna repeat the mistake again .

@op, sorry for derailing o.
Women and food matter dey God hand

"What will people say?"mentality.

She is gaining what u can't see without a telescope and microscope

I don't know why o

May be we should ask Tiwa Savage...

Any man that physically abuse a lady is a coward. Women can be annoying but if one cannot bear it, simply take a walk. I have been in a relationship before where the lady begged me to beat her instead of allowing her to quarrel alone without a reply from me. She said it makes her feel like a bad and mad person, shouting and daring me without a reply.


OP, some ladies are abusive too...

Are you asking me?

Talking abt friendzone, wen a lady is trapped, mehn na till death do dem part.
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In oda NEWS

Marriage is for better for worse na.

Have you forgotten?

cococandy: Kai u just took it from my mouth.

Op they are the neck. Then man is the head.how can you think when you move away from your head where your brain is?

*falls off toilet seat*

Story for the gods