Is it right for a healthy MIL to stay with her son and his family for over two years when her husband is home alone.

Are you asking a question or you are makiing an observation... Cos I can't see anything you need advice for..

lollygee:
Is it right for a healthy MIL to stay with her son and his family for over two years when her husband is home alone.

[s]OP what are you insinuating, that ur MIL is having an amorous relationship with her son, ur husband. There is nothing wrong with a mother staying alone with her child, I mean she carried him for 9 months, took care of him till you came into the picture. If you are not comfortable with having your MIL around due to your insecurity, or you feel she is too controlling, talk to your husband, but don't make any unfounded allegations if you do not have a concrete proof.[/s]

@Markone.I dont have issues with my MIL staying with me.She is a nice person and we have a cordial relationship but am only feeling for my FIL,who has been home alone for over two years,doing the house chores and cooking all by himself despite his old age,though i make soups and send to him every weekend.I have spoken to my hubby severally on this and what he told me was maybe we get a maid for him while my MIL stays with us,which i dont see it as a right thing to do.I just wanted to be sure am not d one getting it all wrong.

My dear u r nt wrong, maybe dare is smtin dey r nt telln u. Why would anyone abandon her home for her sons? Abeg call ur hubby to order, its his fada we r talkn abt here.

lollygee:
@Markone.I dont have issues with my MIL staying with me.She is a nice person and we have a cordial relationship but am only feeling for my [b]FIL,who has been home alone for over two years,[/b]doing the house chores and cooking all by himself despite his old age,though i make soups and send to him every weekend.I have spoken to my hubby severally on this and what he told me was maybe we get a maid for him while my MIL stays with us,which i dont see it as a right thing to do.I just wanted to be sure am not d one getting it all wrong.

That is quite odd, to say the least. Your MIL Leaving her husband for more than two years, without assistance, even with an assistance, and at an old age, is indeed wrong. Well since you have discussed with your husband, I believe you have talked to your people, and they must have advised you on how to go about things. There is a limit to what you can do and take to avoid being the victim. Be patient, continue playing your part, don't stress yourself too much, life is too short. I believe with time, all will be sorted out. Take care.

Sorry, about my initial post, it was a mistake on my part.

MARKone:


OP what are you insinuating, that ur MIL is having an amorous relationship with her son, ur husband. There is nothing wrong with a mother staying alone with her child, I mean she carried him for 9 months, took care of him till you came into the picture. If you are not comfortable with having your MIL around due to your insecurity, or you feel she is too controlling, talk to your husband, but don't make any unfounded allegations if you do not have a concrete proof.

Go back and read again.

You got it wrong.

lollygee:
Is it right for a healthy MIL to stay with her son and his family for over two years when her husband is home alone.

Your statement/question posed is too scanty and bereft of any information for anyone to take you seriously.

What are the circumstances that promoted her staying with you lot for two years despite having her own husband at home?

mployer:


Go back and read again.

You got it wrong.

Yes, just realised it. Thank you.

@EfemenaXY,there was no circumstances that i know of.She came in when i had my second baby to perform her omugwo duties and d baby is over two years now and even started school since last year.