Greatchance:
She is a fool by using your stupidity as a criteria to set your matrimonial home ablaze. Meanwhile she is telling the truth, there is nothing you can do. U open the door for the calamity

mmmmm stupidity indeed y wnt she use it as a criteria wen he cheat with eyes nd mind

seriously I don't c what dis man is still waiting for. y will someone I bought from her parent, someone DAT stays under my roof, someone am feeding now cheat back because I once cheated in d past . even aftr reconciliation I don't really knw wat she wuld look like to me.
for me na to beat go meet dos.idiots because even if I cheat. am still d man of d house. so u are still staying under d same roof since then till she kill u

I won't condone a cheating wife.
If my wife cheats on me & i eventually find out, I'm gonna Divorce her immediately.
There're many ladies out there looking for husbands

gabazin080:
seriously I don't c what dis man is still waiting for. y will someone I bought from her parent,

Someone you what...?

I guess this is a nollyhood movie titled "Mr and Mrs". Maybe she said that to scare u.

If sincerely your story is real, hmmm....

The very first thing I would do if I were to be in ur shoe which I don't pray for are;
1) Take the children for DNA Test.
2) file for divorce for the betterment of both of us.

Besides u sound more like a Casanova to me. u've not resolve one issue u ar already jumping into another. This is evidence in your advertisement for another woman. May be u love taking women for granted probably because of ur affluence or handsomeness. If u continue like like this, u may likely die b4 ur time. The truth sometimes cud b bita.

egbedore:
My wife just told me now that she has a boyfriend that sleeps with her and that there is nothing ℓ̊ am going to do.

ℓ̊ had earlier suspected she is sleeping with her doctor and one of the parent in her sch. She confirmed to me tonight that she os cheating cos cheating is fun!

What do ℓ̊ do

Now before Ɣøû comment,let me give Ɣøû a little background to our issues. ℓ̊ was involved with other ladies at some point in our marriage,of which she knew and ℓ̊ confessed to her. ℓ̊ don't do that anymore but she said she want to cheat so that ℓ̊ can feel what it feels to be cheated upon. Now she is sleeping around and tell it to my face that she is cheating and will continue without hiding it and there is nothing ℓ̊ can do!

Nlanders what do ℓ̊ do?

Flexing man.

This is serious >:

if u don't have a kid...Lord ee..since ur have repented leave her o jare to cheat well...to you feeding and most time sleeping away....body must tell her...give her no attention act not to care shez gonna get tire.....567th to comment yipeeeeee

gabazin080:
seriously I don't c what dis man is still waiting for. y will someone I bought from her parent, someone DAT stays under my roof, someone am feeding now cheat back because I once cheated in d past . even aftr reconciliation I don't really knw wat she wuld look like to me.
for me na to beat go meet dos.idiots because even if I cheat. am still d man of d house. so u are still staying under d same roof since then till she kill u

U never see anythg continue deceiving urself with that men has d right to cheat syndrome.

egbedore:
My wife just told me now that she has a boyfriend that sleeps with her and that there is nothing ℓ̊ am going to do.

ℓ̊ had earlier suspected she is sleeping with her doctor and one of the parent in her sch. She confirmed to me tonight that she os cheating cos cheating is fun!

What do ℓ̊ do

Now before Ɣøû comment,let me give Ɣøû a little background to our issues. ℓ̊ was involved with other ladies at some point in our marriage,of which she knew and ℓ̊ confessed to her. ℓ̊ don't do that anymore but she said she want to cheat so that ℓ̊ can feel what it feels to be cheated upon. Now she is sleeping around and tell it to my face that she is cheating and will continue without hiding it and there is nothing ℓ̊ can do!

Nlanders what do ℓ̊ do?

This marriage is, of course, over. You can decide to stay, or leave, but none would matter.

Your wife cheats and flaunts it? That is 100% divorce offence. She might be lying and not actually cheating, saying those things just to make you feel bad. That itself is a separation offence.

Either send her out of your house immediately or simply write your will, dig your grave, set money aside for your funeral and wait for her to kill you.

In fact I can't advice this fellow, any woman who cheats on her husband and challenge her husband to dare do anything about it can easily kill the man.

And op remember to take the children for paternity test.
Cheating and flaunting it does not start in a day. She could have been in the game long ago and simply graduated recently in boldness.

Op pls who is the breadwinner in this family?
It goes a long way to opening up things in your claim.

MRbrownJAY:


bro, the only reason you are writing the above is because you are DESPERATE for toto, NOT because you are truly sorry for what you did or understand that it was wrong. i mean look at what you posted only yesterday on NL:



and yet you expect your wife to be sorry for your cheating self?! we all know what type of "friend" you are looking for.....

Man!
Are you an inspector?

#Thread should be closed please! !!

This op make I hear word any little conflict in ur house u run come to nl to disturb our peace afterall u are yoruba and MAGUN is not that expensive!

[quote
author=egbedore post=27092533]

ℓ̊ don't want to cheat anymore. ℓ̊ don't want to live that kind of life
anymore. ℓ̊ have already being denied sex since June so ℓ̊ don't want to
be adulterous anymore[/quote]

i have one advice for you bro

divorce

that you cheat don't give her the right to do the same

divorce her before she kill you

desire7:


You really want to help him ruin his union.........NO, you won't cut off your hhead because u gat ache.

@op sit ur wife down wen d kids are not around close doors n windows to avoid making a movie 4 neighbors (nt wen there is no power o) talk 2 her , make her understand that you feel her pain now and honestly promise her you will neva cheat on her again blah blah blah........
If dat conversation goes well u will both weep ,hold each other then sleep off .

Forget say u be man(do your best) make peace reign 4 ur house cos u no think dat 1 b4 u start d trouble!

Just like that...an adage says ``a stain of defecate on the plate of soup can never be forgotten even if the plate has been thoroughly washed`` this marriage is shattered!!!!!

egbedore:
Any female single medical psychologist here? Or a lawyer. ℓ̊ need to talk to one. If there is any,just quote me here and send your contact so we can talk. ℓ̊ am running nut

I am not a female psychologist or a lawyer. I am a minister of God and I might be able to help you. I have sent you a PM which you can reply or reach me on _____ (edited for security reasons).

I trust God to heal your home.

my brother when a woman is pained in her heart it is worse than when she is pained in her body. u hurt Ur wife unimaginably.. how dare u cheat on her?? do you know the implications of your action??

you need to go to Ur wife kneel down and beg for forgiveness. u also need to go for counselling, the both of u. don't ever cheat on her again. y did u get married in the first place?? hmm I've said my own

[quote
author=synergycom19 post=27113950]Most of the comments here are full of
amateurism.married men should be the only ones to coments on critical
issues of marriage. Look the WIFE has no has no rigth to give herself
to any man other than her husband. Because he paid her Dowry,
Biblically, she is not equal with the husband (it's only the western law
that made the woman equal and even more privileged than the man)and
that's why there marriages don't last. The woman is guilty of Immorality
and you should not hesitate to Divorce her. Because
1, your life is in danger
2, she most likely not be able to stop the acts
3, you may father a bastard
4,you will always remember that betrayal
5, you can't trust her again
6 you can't love and give her the desired care[/quote]

seconded

I don't have to read all comment before I know wht to say, but honestly u made mistake of telling her ur secrete deals see not all woman can bear wht u just told her some will pretend as if its ok within them bur on the contrary that is for ur own part
For your wife even though u said wht u posted here to her,dat didn't give her d right to do wht she did simply because I will resolve to say she too want to do such before u report ursef and she quickly use ur advantage cos if nt dt she should get annoyed "normal thing 4 to do" bur nt to d xtent of sleeping around
Well this is my advice,beg her make her see sense in wht she did and both of u should reconcile and let the old things pass away.BUT if she refuses brother LET HER GO

I personally think trying again is the way to go,as your wife might me using that to test you to see if you are sincere with your words and really want to save your marriage.
For all you care, she might not have really slept with anyone else but just trying to gauge your response to see what you'd do if she served u in your own coin. But even if she did, it was just out of hurt and I'd advise you two make amends, dust off your dirty linen, and make your marriage work.
9 years of marriage is no joke, and for those beautiful lol ones you have, your marriage is worth saving. Forgive yourselves first then forgive each other. Life is sweeter when we dwell together in love and peace.
If your wife is a sane lady, she'll come around when you come back begging. You know the codes u used to woo her initially, try some of those

EfemenaXY:
This thread isn't real jare.

What full blooded male - a Naija brother for that matter - would take this on the chin with such a sheepish attitude?

@OP is just seeking some fun entertainment this Sunday Evening.

Thanks ojare

EfemenaXY:
This thread isn't real jare.

What full blooded male - a Naija brother for that matter - would take this on the chin with such a sheepish attitude?

@OP is just seeking some fun entertainment this Sunday Evening.

Bros, like say u dey my mind. Dis isnt a real story at-all! E jst dey even annoy me sef. Too sheepish!
Mtccheewww.....

Pple hav jst been wastin dia precious advices on dis scam OP guy in vain.

You are a repentant man,God will see u both through,forgive yourseves,get closer to God,take her to a nice weekend getaway,renew your love for each other,all will be well I assure you,forget abt all d murky past,she will yield to your renwed love,both of u suit each other,dont do anything drastic,gd luck....www.anglovel.com

You just hv to handle this situation with maturity. Be a man , try all u can to win her love back. Take her out , make her happy. As early as possible in d morning kneel down tell it to herface honey iam sorry forget the past n let us build home for our children. Definitely she is using past to hunt u. Cheers

EfemenaXY:
This thread isn't real jare.

What full blooded male - a Naija brother for that matter - would take this on the chin with such a sheepish attitude?

@OP is just seeking some fun entertainment this Sunday Evening.

exactly my point. U count on my mistake to show ur true color? Who is suppose to be incharge here?
Let me not even suspect my wife self. Even if i am doing it, is that a ticket for her to do same?
Make una no try man's divine authority oh... Gone are those days when men cud tolerate.
Una never see something. God punish satan..

lat55:


U are clearly not ready to change your ways. Why female single? It takes the grace of God n strong willpower for a woman to maintain any sanity living with a man like u.
Go repent and try all you can to win ur wife back and earn her trust.

I am a psychologist, n b4 readin halfway thru dis story, I knew it was a made-up story simply formulated to attract d attention of d good citizens of dis forum.

Pls, my advice.. dont even take dis guy seriously. He is neva married, n nothin like wat he mentioned, ever happend. So, dont border trouble ursef.

Do hav a blessed wk ahead.

To cheat on a man is a big crime and to speak it to his face and dare him is another serious offense. My bro please act fast before you hit the fan!
Be a man here please!!!
Though you started it and you should have known that your wife is not a forgiving type!. See below nice advise!.

MizMyColi:
Your marriage sir, reeks of different, but one purposeful shade of abuse........Revenge.
I take it you've blamed yourself enough, I won't add to it.

You two need to take some time apart.
Abi you wan die prematurely?

While at it, a sober reflection and a high resolve to do all it takes to make your marriage work should be your focus.
Where all that fails, please take a walk, whatever it takes.

I doubt you two'll ever be the same again.

Your woman?

Well, I've never really been in her shoes, so I better keep mute.

I can say two things for sure.
- A wise woman builds her home. She is proactive, not reactive.
- Now that she has decided to embark on her own journey of revenge, please remind her to dig 2 graves, 4 maybe.

Never confess to cheating if you are married unless you want your marriage to be ruined. Never keep a girlfriend if you must cheat but random girls dey okay.

May almighty GOD safe your marriage.
I feel your pain and similar thing had happened to me but I do not cheat on mine own.

Both of you need deliverance serious one outside that the future is empty.

I like this man advise!!.

Shams218:
I guess this is a nollyhood movie titled "Mr and Mrs". Maybe she said that to scare u.

If sincerely your story is real, hmmm....

The very first thing I would do if I were to be in ur shoe which I don't pray for are;
1) Take the children for DNA Test.
2) file for divorce for the betterment of both of us.

Besides u sound more like a Casanova to me. u've not resolve one issue u ar already jumping into another. This is evidence in your advertisement for another woman. May be u love taking women for granted probably because of ur affluence or handsomeness. If u continue like like this, u may likely die b4 ur time. The truth sometimes cud b bita.