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Best Sites For Online Dating by Nobody: 9:29pm On Oct 13, 2014 |
Today I'm going to show you the best sites to use (and I've done a lot of research on this) + the biggest mistake people make regarding their online profile. Then in the next bunch of emails I'm going to give tips on how to work the whole online dating thing. (how to make your profile, how to approach etc). So, first thing's first, here are the best sites that I recommend. Also, all of them are Free to sign up so if you didn't do it yet, do it now so you have an account by the time I send the next email. Also, LARGE sites are better than new small ones simply because there's more women on them. End of discussion. Match - the biggest and best site when it comes to online dating. Good for quick lays and good for relationships. Because it's the biggest in the industry it obviously has the most women so you're more likely to hook up here than anywhere else. (also the only one I have an account on) Adultfriendfinder - For SEX. Sadly, a lot of women there are hookers so you might get the occasional "$100 bucks honey" reply but other than that it's good for quick and easy, no strings attached sex. I still say that Match is better for the SAME reasons but at least on AFF everything is out in the open. eHarmony - Marriage - although I heard this is incredibly frustrating especially because you can't talk to whomever you want, only to whom they match you with, it's apparently accounted for 5% of new US marriages. That's huge and it kind of tells you a lot. If that's what you're looking for then this is the site for you. PlentyOfFish - This is free and it is the best free site out there. I strongly recommend PAID sites before free ones simply because if a woman is willing to PAY for this service she will obviously be more interested in what going on, on the site. So, your chances of hooking up are dramatically larger on PAID sites but, if you can't afford them, POF is the best alternative. Facebook - Yes, people use facebook for dating but that's not EXCLUSIVE. I would recommend using any of the specific dating sites for dating as women there are in the MINDSET. Everyone uses facebook but not everyone uses facebook as a dating platform. Just something to think about. Ok, there you have it, now sign up for the one you find fits the best or just sign up to the number 1 site in the world and also my personal favorite - Match.com Ok so as promised, today, I'm also going to go over another important aspect of your online dating skills... your profile content. I'm basically referring to those little boxes in your profile that lists your interests, hobbies, or anything about you. Let me first tell you about one of my friends who just recently took up online dating... I gave him some basic tips... nothing too extraordinary ... and he started making a profile. He messaged three good-looking girls and got three messages back. The good thing is... at least he got replies. I was shocked! I thought he wasn't even going to get that far. The bad thing is... the girls didn't seem all that terribly interested in him. They didn't ask him many questions in the replies... Two girls definitely tried to reciprocate interest, and the other did not at all. So he asked for my help. I took a quick glance at his profile and shook my head. "Dude, totally wrong. Take this *#(& off right now! There are three things wrong with this profile. I'll tell you one of them." I told him that he was giving away way too much information in his profile content - something that you should avoid too. He was basically listing almost everything about him... everything that had to do with his job, how many tattoos he had, all the places he's been in his life... he put down everything. Let's look at his profile from a female perspective. First of all, she has so much crap to read that she doesn't even care about! The details, although they might be interesting, are not to be put on the profile content section. Why? It's far too redundant to read in this context. It may be appropriate for a phone conversation or real-life conversation, but on the internet... people want concise information. The fact that he wrote about his tattoos wasn't THAT bad... but he just went into disgusting detail... no one needed to know that he has a tattoo on his "upper back," his "lower abdominal region," and his "left pinky-toe." (Okay, I'm exaggerating a bit here, but you get the drift... just too much detail!) People just simply don't care about that type of detail at this point... Not only that, but it simply just kills one of the most important aspects of picking up women... MYSTERY! Some men just ruin their chances by giving away way too much and not creating a sufficient level of mystery that keeps women interested. You also eliminate the opportunity for small-talk by giving away too much small-talk information. This is what my friend really did wrong here... he eliminated any amount of small talk that women just seem to love. I'm talking about questions like... So what do you do? Have any tattoos? So where have you traveled to? What are you taking in school? What kind of hobbies do you enjoy? Well, if he addressed all of those issues, there isn't much of a point in asking those questions, is there? There is a certain way to tell your information in such a way that it doesn't destroy the "allure"... the "enigma" ... the "mystery." Don't make the same mistakes all the other guys do on online dating and social networking websites and gain the edge! If you're really serious about improving your online game have a look at: The Online Game System To your success, Uyoboy.Com |
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