I read a story online last week about a man being raped. Also, this morning my friend called to tell me he was about being raped by 2 females. He reported the case to some people and they laughed at him saying he should haved showed them his masculine strength. It has come to my notice that male rape cases are not been taken seriously as the female's. Is it that males are seen as the one who enjoy sex? Or that males don't have the right not to forced into sex? Or males don't need the kind of protection female are getting? There have been people calling themselves feminist fighting for the course of the female gender. I think males also need such too. What do u think?

Are you by any means advocating the rise of masculinists?

Prepare for the battle coming your way.
Because while I was at the bustop waiting for keke coming to nairaland,I saw some feminists and it seemed they were also coming here but their car apparently broke down..
But you won't wait for so long,they would soon be here.

It will be right if we have them around..

That shows that the equal rights movement is fighting for the rights of women only.

Tallesty1:
That shows that the equal rights movement is fighting for the rights of women only.

Word bro...this make d female cheat males on certain occasion

Why is there no delete botton on nl??
Urrrgh!

Masculinists ko, feminist ni!

@Topic I am yet to comprehend it, that's one question I haven't been able answer myself, that is, how it happens the adult male molestation I mean, given the structure and form of the male gender .
And how this process of Molestation takes place perfectly without the hardness of that organ! Without some form of interest that engineers arousal from his loins to effect a successful session of the molestation

OjeriakhiVictor:
I read a story online last week about a man being raped. Also, this morning my friend called to tell me he was about being raped by 2 females. He reported the case to some people and they laughed at him saying he should haved showed them his masculine strength. It has come to my notice that male rape cases are not been taken seriously as the female's. Is it that males are seen as the one who enjoy sex? Or that males don't have the right not to forced into sex? Or males don't need the kind of protection female are getting? There have been people calling themselves feminist fighting for the course of the female gender. I think males also need such too. What do u think?

The issues of guys being raped is becoming rampant & nobody is paying attention. Well, nobody will pay attention because there had been a situation when a guy wore only boxer to a street where it was reported that a guy was raped & he was shouting in the street, i am here girls come & rape me.

OjeriakhiVictor:
I read a story online last week about a man being raped. Also, this morning my friend called to tell me he was about being raped by 2 females. He reported the case to some people and they laughed at him saying he should haved showed them his masculine strength. It has come to my notice that male rape cases are not been taken seriously as the female's. Is it that males are seen as the one who enjoy sex? Or that males don't have the right not to forced into sex? Or males don't need the kind of protection female are getting? There have been people calling themselves feminist fighting for the course of the female gender. I think males also need such too. What do u think?

And your point is?

Don't you think this fetish of yours is unhealthy?

Please someone explain to me how it is possible to ra*pe a man.

carefreewannabe:
Please someone explain to me how it is possible to ra*pe a man.

Especially as he does the "digging".

EfemenaXY:


Especially as he does the "digging".

I really want to know what men on this forum have to say about it.

[size=16pt]Men, is it possible for a female to ra*pe a man? How? [/size]

^^ I need to be schooled on this too.

Why not mention a few names, sometimes, you've got to coax them out of their shells.

erm...

Crackhaus

Njokusboy

SirShymex

5minsmadness

lofty900

and last but not the least, DINACHI!!

Oya, come and school us. We've got a gap in our knowledge...

EfemenaXY:
^^ I need to be schooled on this too.

Why not mention a few names, sometimes, you've got to coax them out of their shells.

erm...

Crackhaus

Njokusboy

SirShymex

5minsmadness

lofty9000

and last but not the least, DINACHI!!

Oya, come and school us. We've got a gap in our knowledge...

Great choice Efe.

I would prefer to ask him EfemenaXY my dear e-friend.

[img]http://totallywould.files./2014/07/600full-manuel-neuer.png%3Fw%3D640[/img]

God, I have a crush on this guy.

I am just watching a documentary about the German national team at World Cup 2014.

7:1

He is a LION.

^^ Lol!

I'm not racist, but I don't / can't / never have had a crush on a non-black dude.

Our brothers with all their madness still do it for me jor.

carefreewannabe:

Great choice Efe.

Now don't you just love Saturdays?

Lol, but the society doesn't even recognise male ra.pe - that's how fvcked up the world is.

Also, it isn't only women that are rap.ing men, even homosexuals are also rap.ing straight men these days.

Ra.pe a man and get away with it, but have consensual sex with a woman under influence and get locked up. What a messed up world!

EfemenaXY:
^^ Lol!

I'm not racist, but I don't / can't / never have had a crush on a non-black dude.

Our brothers with all their madness still do it for me jor.

You are too intelligent to be a racist. You just have a clear preference, I have the choice.

I would marry him INSTANTLY if he wanted me, even though I am not a fan of marriage.

I love him!

Now don't you just love Saturdays?

And I also love Saturdays! I don't know if I love them more than Manuel.

I cleaned the house, made a delicious lunch and in the evening a cheese cake. Now I am on my extra large sofa.

Hope you had a lovely Saturday too.

EfemenaXY:
^^ I need to be schooled on this too.

Why not mention a few names, sometimes, you've got to coax them out of their shells.

erm...

Crackhaus

Njokusboy

SirShymex

5minsmadness

lofty900

and last but not the least, DINACHI!!

Oya, come and school us. We've got a gap in our knowledge...

ur very funny. u r the last person with a gap in ur knowledge

carefreewannabe:


You are too intelligent to be a racist. You just have a clear preference, I have the choice.

I would marry him INSTANTLY if he wanted me, even though I am not a fan of marriage.

I love him!

And I also love Saturdays! I don't know if I love them more than Manuel.

I cleaned the house, made a delicious lunch and in the evening a cheese cake. Now I am on my XXL sofa.

Hope you had a lovely Saturday too.

Lordy Lord!

Carefreewannabe's infatuated! Methinks you'll join the looooooong queue of fans and admirers he's got.

My Saturday is just awesome. Been looking forward to it since Thursday. Now I'm just unwinding and ruffling a few feathers while I can. If no one decides to "bite" I just might turn to Nollywood / African Magic to kill off a few braincells...

.

EfemenaXY:


Lordy Lord!

Carefreewannabe's infatuated! Methinks you'll join the looooooong queue of fans and admirers he's got.

I don't mind. He is a semi-God.

My Saturday is just awesome. Been looking forward to it since Thursday. Now I'm just unwinding and ruffling a few feathers while I can. If no one decides to "bite" I just might turn to Nollywood / African Magic to kill off a few braincells...

I have been watching a series online last month and loved it. Ray Donovan. Check it out. I am sad, I have finished watching all episodes. I am waiting for season three to be released. Not sure, it's what you would enjoy watching but I stopped watching Nollywood some time ago.

SirShymex:
Lol, but the society doesn't even recognise male ra.pe - that's how fvcked up the world is.

Also, it isn't only women that are rap.ing men, even homosexuals are also rap.ing straight men these days.

Ra.pe a man and get away with it, but have consensual sex with a woman under influence and get locked up. What a messed up world!

Not really, Shymex.

Think about it...the underlying concept here is forcing one's self on an unwilling partner. So:

~ A man forcing himself on a woman to have sex with her is a no-brainer. If the woman doesn't consent and tries to fight him off, most times, he succeeds in having his way with her by overpowering her with sheer brute force.

~ Same scenario for men on men. An unwilling partner gets overcome more often than not, by the stronger one.

~ But a woman having her way with an unwilling partner? How does that happen? Most times, the guy is the stronger one so the question of brute force being used here by her is not applicable. Even if she were stronger than him, say she's a world-class body building fitness trainer, she still can't have her way with him if he isn't into her. His "member" wouldn't rise to the occasion. So if it's limp, how then can she have her wicked way with him??

deylookme:
Because it's difficult to see a woman who can pin a man down, close his mouth to prevent him from shouting and still do the deed at the same time. Physically, men are usually stronger than women. You can only rape someone you are stronger than.

Even on the rare occasions where the woman might be stronger, how can she r.ap.e him if his member doesn't stand at attention?

lofty900:
ur very funny. u r the last person with a gap in ur knowledge

Lol!

Not true. Oya explain how it's possible for a woman to sex.u.all.y assault a man.

A man can be raped by a woman, all he has to do is say no when she tries to turn him on - everything that happens after that point makes that woman a rapist.

EfemenaXY, the gap in your knowledge has been bridged.

EfemenaXY:


Even on the rare occasions where the woman might be stronger, how can she r.ap.e him if his member doesn't stand at attention?



Lol!

Not true. Oya explain how it's possible for a woman to sex.u.all.y assault a man.

technically its not possible. reasons 1. a man must be aroused b4 he can penetrate anything.
2. men enjoys s.ex much more than women so a man is always 'ready'
3. men are generally stronger than women so hw can she possibly overpower him .? the guy will be happy to be raped by a woman

EfemenaXY:


Even on the rare occasions where the woman might be stronger, how can she r.ap.e him if his member doesn't stand at attention?

A healthy male organ will always respond to caress whether the owner wants it to or not.

crackhaus:
A man can be raped by a woman, all he has to do is say no when she tries to turn him on - everything that happens after that point makes that woman a rapist.

EfemenaXY, the gap in your knowledge has been bridged.

~ A man needs to be turned on to have sex in the first place.

~ A man whose turned on is excited, and an excited man wants to have sex

~ So how can a man whose turned on say he was forced, knowing fully well he is excited enough to have penetrative sex?

So no, your response has done nothing to bridge that gap.

lofty900:
technically its not possible. reasons 1. a man must be aroused b4 he can penetrate anything.
2. men enjoys s.ex much more than women so a man is always 'ready'
3. men are generally stronger than women so hw can she possibly overpower him .? the guy will be happy to be raped by a woman

Now you've said it.

Technically or not, it's just not possible.

crackhaus:

A healthy male organ will always respond to caress whether the owner wants it to or not.

Really, so you're saying anything can caress the male organ to the point where it get turgid and ready for action?

You're straight, aren't you? Now if your limbs were spread-eagled and straped the the four corners of a bedpost, and a man decides to "go down" on you (0ral sex) and caress your "member" at the same time, you'll cop an erect!0n because you've got "a healthy male organ"?

Oya o all the people efemena has called may una come out o.im here ready to read/listen to whatever you have to say

Lol @ Efe looking for trouble.

Well @ your question, once you understand that the pen*is has a mind of its own , you'll see how it is possible to rape a man. But on a serious note, the pen*is can respond even in a rape scenario and it doesn't mean the se*x was wanted. Just like the vajay can get lubricated during female rape. Some of these things are like reflexes. The body is a complex thing.

EfemenaXY:


~ A man needs to be turned on to have sex in the first place.

~ A man whose turned on is excited, and an excited man wants to have sex

~ So how can a man whose turned on say he was forced, knowing fully well he is excited enough to have penetrative sex?

So no, your response has done nothing to bridge that gap.

Did you not read my comment?

All he has to do is say NO, whatever happens after that makes the woman coercing him a rapist.

Informed consent is one important criteria for determining rape when the victim is a woman, why should it be different for a man?