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Re: Males Been Raped! by Nobody: 10:07pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: If that constitutes consent under duress then marital rape has to be greatest fraud against men since it is both consent under duress and consent by union lool. Alright, let's agree to disagree. However, straight men are facing a double whammy of threats of sexual violence from both women and homoerotic men in today's world. And we all need to be cognizant of these threats and help make male rape a crime punishable by law. |
Re: Males Been Raped! by Nobody: 10:10pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
SirShymex: If a gay man penetrates you without your consent, he will be charged with rape. 3 Likes |
Re: Males Been Raped! by Nobody: 10:10pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Ok, I went to google and there are lots of articles discussing this issue of male arousal during rape. Here's one with a short version of the explanation. The Myths - what's fact and what's fiction? I hope Jenny comes back |
Re: Males Been Raped! by EfemenaXY: 10:12pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
SirShymex: You're not going to pull me into that discussion. I've carefully avoided that thread and I still like my vantage point / view from sitting on the fence. SirShymex: Er...a slight correction there. Living out one's fantasy doesn't qualify as non-consensual. |
Re: Males Been Raped! by okotv(m): 10:13pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
SirShymex:I tell you. I might just pack our of this world and move to Mars at least there won't be any court to judge me there. Well, women always had it easy since the days of Adam but jealousy won't make them see beyond their nostrils. |
Re: Males Been Raped! by EfemenaXY: 10:15pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: Exactly my point. It's a no brainer and shouldn't even come up in this discussion. 2 Likes |
Re: Males Been Raped! by EfemenaXY: 10:26pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
ileobatojo: I hope so too. Her leaving was just too abrupt. She's got a lot of unfinished work here and no-one's given her the permission to retire. Okay, re: the extract above, that's akin to saying anyone who's had sex but didn't enjoy it can have the act classified as r.ape. And that comment about the body naturally responding simply butresses my earlier points / argument. There is nothing natural about a woman bleeding as a result of being sex.uall.y assaulted. Her natural body's response is to produce lubricants to ease penetration, meaning the mind - her mind has given the go ahead that it's what she wants. Same thing goes for a man. A man would only get an erect!on if he's excited and stimulated enough, meaning he's ready and wants to have sex. Wanting to have sex does not qualify as ra.p.e 1 Like |
Re: Males Been Raped! by Nobody: 10:35pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Some people exaggerate, the West this and the West that, hostile to men etc. I am not sure about the UK and the USA but in several other European countries, which I know quite well, white men don't complain like the men on NL. I work with white men only and I have many white friends, and they never complain. When I tell them what I read on NL, they laugh. 2 Likes |
Re: Males Been Raped! by okotv(m): 10:36pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:Lady, I have followed your arguments on the issue of male rape and you seem not to understand how the make organ operates. Male rape is real as female rape. A doctor who specialises in treating rape victims and female confirmed it although its in the minority. Guys need protection a lot this days. From women who can't control their urges to gays. Men, let's forget macho and cry for help or take laws into our hands when confronted .....lol |
Re: Males Been Raped! by Nobody: 10:39pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
okotv: Please explain how a woman can rape a man. |
Re: Males Been Raped! by Nobody: 10:41pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
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Re: Males Been Raped! by okotv(m): 10:41pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:can't explain that but as long as there are victims then it happens. You can read the original poster's writ |
Re: Males Been Raped! by Nobody: 10:45pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
carefreewannabe: I think I already post a link that shows male rape isn't recognised by the law. It is 2015, please learn how to read. Cheers. |
Re: Males Been Raped! by EfemenaXY: 10:45pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Nonso23: Your example is irrelevant to this discourse and doesn't make sense. It's akin to comparing apples to oranges. Question is: why sport an erection in the first place if not to have sex? 1 Like |
Re: Males Been Raped! by Nobody: 10:46pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: @ bolded, no that's not what this is saying. The analogy of being tickled is perfect to describe this issue actually. If you're tickled by someone you're so angry with, you would laugh. But your laughter in this case doesn't mean you're happy, it's just a reflex action to the stimulus your body received. I even came across reports of women having orgasms, multiple orgasms even, during rape. Some even said they had dissociated themselves during the rape, blanked out only to be awakened by their orgasm happening and they certainly did not enjoy the rape. What about minors? Even young children get erect when stimulated, heck just expose their privates to air and it becomes erect. Erection is not 100% under the control of the mind. Same way many women will produce lubricants during rape but it doesn't mean they weren't raped. Justice should be available to all rape victims, male or female. 1 Like |
Re: Males Been Raped! by Nobody: 10:46pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Efemenaxy, you called your teacher for some lessons and argue with him when he tries to school you... How does that work |
Re: Males Been Raped! by EfemenaXY: 10:46pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
SirShymex: Shymex, but she's agreeing with you on this. So am I. Yes, the law doesn't constitute it as r.ape, but it is r.ape. |
Re: Males Been Raped! by Nobody: 10:46pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
okotv: Strange that most men here cannot even explain it, every woman can explain ra*pe even if she was never raped. I understand that a woman can do things to a man that he doesn't want to under certain circumstances like for example touch him or perform oral s*ex on him but can she have s*ex with him against his will? And by the way, if you tie someone up or spike his drink in the West and perform oral s*ex on them, then you will be punished, no matter if the victim is a man or a woman. So men are legally protected. If you penetrate a man, you will be also charged so men are legally protected. I don't know who told you people that men are not protected. I am 100% sure that in such cases, they will be taken more seriously in the West than in Nigeria. 3 Likes |
Re: Males Been Raped! by Nobody: 10:48pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
SirShymex: Where is the link? |
Re: Males Been Raped! by EfemenaXY: 10:49pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
njokusboy: Do you just swallow everything fed to you hook-line-and-sinker? Whatever happened to disagreeing with reasons? I don't believe in cramming for exams, and if I see fit, will always question the "norm" whatever that might be. That's how great minds work - not being afraid to ask questions. Now what your opinion on this topic? Can a man be r.ape.d by a woman? If yes, then how? 1 Like |
Re: Males Been Raped! by Nobody: 10:49pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Me? Agree on what? |
Re: Males Been Raped! by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: That wasn't what she said. She said the culprit would be charged with rape. And to charge anyone with anything, the law has to recognise it as a crime. However it doesn't at the moment. |
Re: Males Been Raped! by okotv(m): 10:54pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:how can we explain when we hardly see men spill out that they have been raped. No publicity from those who speak. Men can be raped cause we have victims. By the way, that guy has mind of its own and can erupt whether you want it or not. If you doubt, men also have wet dreams. |
Re: Males Been Raped! by Nobody: 10:55pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
okotv: So how can they be helped? |
Re: Males Been Raped! by Nobody: 10:57pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
Re: Males Been Raped! by okotv(m): 10:57pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:Answer: because that thing has a mind of its own if the man is healthy |
Re: Males Been Raped! by EfemenaXY: 10:58pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
ileobatojo: Ah! I was just about to add that bit about minors to my initial response to you but you got there before me. ~ Yes, an adult woman having sex with a young boy (minor) is a clear cut case of r.ape. That I will forever be against. ~ A man forcefully penetrated by another male against his will is definitely a ra.pe case. ~ A woman forcefully penetrated by a man is r.ape. However, a woman forcing herself on an adult male, or on another woman is just a joke as far as I'm concerned and is definitely not rape. With the exception of minors, if penetrative sex isn't involved (inclusive of 0ral sex), then it does not qualify as r.ape. Okay, let's put this in perspective. It's easy to prove medically that a woman (or man) was sexually assaulted by a man. So, someone please tell me how it can be medically proven that a man was forced against his will by a woman to have sex with her? Good heavens, this has got to be the joke of the year! |
Re: Males Been Raped! by Nobody: 10:59pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: I saw the link. I said that if a gay man penetrates another man then this will be considered rape and I stand by it. The link does not prove otherwise. All the link says is that it is easier to get away with rape on males because they are less likely to report them and to sue their rapists. Women have fought for legal protection when it comes to rape to be taken more seriously and against people blaming them for having become victims. They have won this fight. If men do not speak up and cannot even explain what constitutes rape on them and for them, how can they be helped? Who do they expect to help them? 2 Likes |
Re: Males Been Raped! by okotv(m): 11:00pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
carefreewannabe:make it a crime against men. For now am not sure it is |
Re: Males Been Raped! by okotv(m): 11:01pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:can a man be proved to be a virgin |
Re: Males Been Raped! by okotv(m): 11:01pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:can a man be proved to be a virgin |
Re: Males Been Raped! by Nobody: 11:02pm On Jan 10, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: @ bolded, only in cases of violent rape. In a case of non violent rape, one will not be able to medically prove it was rape. You can only medically prove there was intercourse. |
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