I've always wondered the steps a guy should take after proposing to a girl and she says she would think about it or that other guys had been asking her hands in marriage.
-Where she says she would think about it, how long should the guy wait before reminding her?
-Where she says other guys had been asking her hands in marriage, should the guy still go ahead proposing, being optimistic she would consider him?

Let the other guys marry her.




I ain't asking again.

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365 days, 22hrs

Before she finish thinking am long gone or even possibly in another r/ship cos I cnt marry who is nt sure of me.

I don't know about y'all but if I got to the proposal stage with her, then it means we both know what we want. Na to call wedding planner remain o!

Don't bring it up again


Allow her to remind you

Where is the time to wait. If you feel me like I feel you date me already.

Why waste valuable time doing some nonsense thinking? How do people think about things like that sef?

Rest 4 the matter...

Infomizer:
I don't know about y'all but if I got to the proposal stage with her, then it means we both know what we want. Na to call wedding planner remain o!

I see truth here. Tell me bro, how long can a lady be kept b4 proposal

So the answer to WILL U MARRY ME? now takes time to think about? I don't Gerrit, ladies do complaints their guys are yet to propose, op does that mean after courting her for God knows how long, she doesn't see U as her husband or doesn't want any future with U? Believe me, some girls won't even wait for U to finish the question, once U've said WILL U... the rest is story, u'll quickly hear YES! YES! YES! I WIN (sorry I will) bcoz of the enthusiasm.

No time for much thinking abeg, this one wey girls don dey learn how to propose to guys, once they finally develop the liver to start proposing to guys, op ur babe or girls like her will wait tire for bus stop bcoz they're wasting time and girls would've proposed to u already .

Samakinr:

I see truth here. Tell me bro, how long can a lady be kept b4 proposal

I'd say for as long as it takes to be 100% sure she's the one..

Infomizer:

I'd say for as long as it takes to be 100% sure she's the one..

Some ladies can be soo impatient. .. But I understand your point bro

Samakinr:

Some ladies can be soo impatient. .. But I understand your point bro

Let her pay her own bride price then...And marry herself!

after dating a lady for some mths n she still has not decided whether u gud enuf to be her hubby. What exactly are u remindin her...you shd have moved to plan B immediately she said she will think abt it.

[size=48]@0p. I think an hour after the proposal [/size]

Dygeasy:
Where is the time to wait. If you feel me like I feel you date me already.

Why waste valuable time doing some nonsense thinking? How do people think about things like that sef?

Exactly bro...wit the numerous single ladies on the streets , there is no time to keep waitin long for a lady to reply back your proposal.

@Op, why exactly do you need to remind her? As husband scarce reach If she needs to think about your proposal and it takes unnecessarily too long then its a NO abi are you a learner? Anywayz in ma church na babes dey propose to guys ooo, once a chick excuses you after service and tells you she had a dream about you where it was raining and she was in the rain when suddenly you came from nowhere and covered her with an umbrella, then you have found your wife

Infomizer:
I don't know about y'all but if I got to the proposal stage with her, then it means we both know what we want. Na to call wedding planner remain o!

What if the situation the guy finds himself is such that after studying the lady from afar, discovers she is a wife - material, and decides to say to her, say, "I've watched you closely, and have seen your qualities. I want to enter a relationship with you which I hope will last for the rest of our lives." Deep down inside the girl, she knows it's proposal. In such a situation, should the guy remind her or just forget about it?

Omimah:

What if the situation the guy finds himself is such that after studying the lady from afar, discovers she is a wife - material, and decides to say to her, say, "I've watched you closely, and have seen your qualities. I want to enter a relationship with you which I hope will last for the rest of our lives." Deep down inside the girl, she knows it's proposal. In such a situation, should the guy remind her or just forget about it?

It depends on her reaction and response to is statement. It's about being sensitive to her vibes. Listening to the things she's not 'saying'.