Hello Nairalanders, i have question for you all and this question is very important cus someone just asked me this question and i was racking my brain...but couldnt figure thIS out .................Nairalanders CAN A GUY AND A LADY BE BEST FRIENDS





WHAT DO U THINK?

NO and please don't ask me why.

Definitely yes...
It depends on maturity and self discipline..

ERCROSS:
Definitely yes...
It depends on maturity and self discipline..

1 point maturity and self discipline

good one bro..

Best Friends?............

My answer is no, we are passed that era. Forget discipline and maturity, feelings will come and because the people of this century are weak, they will fall.

As a guy, a guy will always be your bestfriend, that goes to ladies too.

..Sure.....Mine is a lady....

Yes....I love Rolling wit guys

. . You can have a male as your bestfriend without having a boyfriend . . But once you have a boyfriend,that boyfriend must be your bestfriend.

YES
My best friend in the Uni was a guy.
We were always everywhere together: day and night classes, lunch, room visitation etc .
Despite the fact that i didnt have boyfriend then and our closeness, i didnt have any emotional feeling for him and he never asked me out.
He was more matured and older though

yes!
my gf is my bestest friend!

Yes........Until one person starts falling in love with the other and the other does not feel the same way.

Of course.

This happened mostly among the so-called religious youth, they finds it so difficult expressing their feelings to each other until someone else take their chances... It is true you can have a guy as a close friend but not bestfriend because there is limit of information you can share (e.g. romantic events) with them.

So, how do you call someone your best friend if there are certain issues you can never discuss with him/her?

Yeah.. On mutual benefits

Yes of cause. My best friend is a gal. We bin frnds since we was kids. Now we graduates, still we b besties. Yes d feelins did cum at some point, bt t was jst one of several phases we faced nd conquered. Can't wait for her to get married nd have kids, u go fear big uncle tins na