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Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Nancydearie(f): 5:04am On Oct 21, 2014

Three children abandoned in a boarding school in Abule-Iroko in the Ado-Odo Ota Local Government Area of Ogun State are longing to meet their parents who have abandoned them for eight years.



When PUNCH Metro visited Solid Model College, the children recounted their ordeal, noting that the absence of their parents was affecting their studies.

Seun Adepegba, 14,Seyi, 10 and Titilola, 13, had been severed from parental love and care since infanthood. After waiting for eight years, they seemed to have relinquished all hopes of reuniting with their parents.

It was learnt that their tale of sorrow began in 2007 when their father, Mr Segun Adepegba, who had been separated from their mother, enrolled them in the boarding school because he could not afford to take care of them.

According to the proprietor of the school, Mr Samuel Ayegbusi, Adepegba came to enroll them in his school on September 24, 2007 with a promise to always check on them.

He said, “Mr. Adepegba told me his wife had just left him and that he could not afford to take care of them, being a jobless man. The children were very little. Seyi was two, while Titilola was five.

“Mr Adepegba had pleaded with me to accept them in the boarding school. Mr Adepegba’s sister promised to bear the cost of their upkeep. They paid an initial N150, 000 for the three children for the first term.”

But according to the proprietor, Adepegba never kept his promise. He said after the first term, the school expected him to come and take his children home for holiday but he never showed up until four years later. He said the school had expended over N7m on the upkeep of the children since 2007.

The proprietor said efforts to reach the parents’ families had proved abortive, adding that calls to Adepegba’s phones were not always answered.

He said, “Whenever we called him and he realised who was talking on the phone, he would switch off his phones and for the next two weeks, the numbers would not be available. When the school contacted their father’s sisters, we were told that they had travelled out of the country.

“When we called one of them, we were told that they had sent money to Mr Adepegba to defray the children’s school fees and upkeep. But Mr. Adepegba has never come here to make any payment since the initial deposit he made in 2007.”

According to the proprietor, taking care of the children had further become cumbersome for him as one of them, Titilayo, had started misbehaving. He recounted how Titilayo ran away from the hostel twice without informing the school authority on the excuse that she was going to look for her father.

Ever since she was found, the proprietor said the school had had to keep her in a room, under tight surveillance, because she had vowed to run away to find her father.

He said, “The school is not even bothered by the cost of their upkeep. But anytime the school closed for holiday and parents come around to take their children home, Titilayo would fall into a sober mood and twice, she had run away from the hostel without informing anyone. It was a resident who stopped her and brought her back to the school.

Some of the teachers, who spoke with PUNCH Metro during the visit, said the absence of the children’s parents was seriously affecting their studies. They said the appearance of their parents would boost their academic performance.

While recounting their days with their father, the children said he celebrated birthdays with them. They said they had never met their mother.

Titilayo said, “We do not know who our mother is. We grew up in Yaba, Lagos and all we remember is that there was a woman that washed our clothes and took care of us until we came here. We knew she was not our mother.”

Seyi, the youngest of the trio, however, was an exception as she kept a cheerful look during the visit. Seyi, who told our correspondent her dream was to become a medical doctor said, “Although I have a faint memory of my father, I will like to see him. If he comes today, I will ask him why he left us for so long.”

Seun added, “I don’t care how long he has left us. I just want to see him. I really need to see him.” When PUNCH Metro called Adepegba on Thursday, his phones were switched off.



SOURCE:http://www.punchng.com/news/man-abandons-children-in-boarding-school-for-eight-years/

Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Nobody: 5:46am On Oct 21, 2014
Boarding school,or orphanage home..

The man must be confusing a boarding school to orphanage home..

Some people sha! May God help us.
Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by georjay(m): 6:16am On Oct 21, 2014
omo na my school be dat oooo....its true....i knw dos kids...
Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Nancydearie(f): 7:25am On Oct 21, 2014
Am yet to comprehend why a parent would abandon his own kids ,things dey happen for this our country.
Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by destante(f): 7:38am On Oct 21, 2014
same story.
Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Lovelydaisy(f): 7:51am On Oct 21, 2014
Nancydearie:
Am yet to comprehend why a parent would abandon his own kids ,things dey happen for this our country.
Same here. People all over the world are begging GOD to give them children and this man has the mind to abandon his kids for 8 solid years,unbelievable!! May GOD have mercy on him.
Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by Nancydearie(f): 8:10am On Oct 21, 2014
Lovelydaisy:
Same here. People all over the world are begging GOD to give them children and this man has the mind to abandon his kids for 8 solid years,unbelievable!! May GOD have mercy on him.
@Daisy,the guy's mind no correct at all
Re: Man Abandons Children In Boarding School For Eight Years by 30secs(m): 8:20am On Oct 21, 2014
God dey

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