help guys

i have a guy in my life,

but he has a very hot temper, & i my self i have a hot temper too

a friend advice me 2 leave him after beating me in her present

i love this guy

what do i do

pls ur advice is needed urgently.

The day any man raise up his hand on me, its finished
Can u imagine what it wud be like when u marry him, u will become his punching bag abi
Stop using LOVE as an excuse, its annoying when people do that

Youself should go out of boundary by slapping him first or jabbin d frypan on his clean cut head.

Hey poster u need to provide more info like we need to know how long the relationship has been etc. I don't think any lady shud hang with a guy that batter them. Thats the greatest crime. But una too sabi push person to d wall sha!

thanks, a lot

but i still love him.

Let him continue to punch u jare.

mummysgirl:

thanks, a lot

but i still love him.

lol

Enjoy the loving jare, even the punching is part of it
All those aje-butter girls can keep their opinions to themselves, some girls like the punching, abi?

mummysgirl:

help guys

i have a guy in my life,

but he has a very hot temper, & i my self i have a hot temper too

a friend advice me 2 leave him after beating me in her present

i love this guy

what do i do

please ur advice is needed urgently.

Suffering gladens ur heart,abi?

yicob:

Youself should go out of boundary by slapping him first or jabbin d frypan on his clean cut head.

Buahahahahahahaaha

mummysgirl:

thanks, a lot

but i still love him.

So why excatly did u open this thread when u already know u can't leave him and love him
Enjoy the punches, nothing do u

So ur boy keeps punching u to bed? Na so my babie self dey punch me.

She said she has a bad temper too. Maybe she sef they slap the guy sometimes  

@ Poster abeg, continue in you love jare . .  the punching is only a display of affection  

_{if you cant be sensible enough to walk out of an abusive relationship!!}[s][/s]

come abeg why u dey shout! dnt u have the same problem too. u just said u are hot tempered too, and u dey here to find solution to your
guy hot temper. abeg too of una go pour iced water for una body make una temperature come down.

@ Poster

I was just talking 2 one of my friends last night bout some girl i know:

: Boyfriend used to beat her and she used the say the same thing you're currently writing
: Boyfriend got another girl pregnant
: Boyfriend chased her out and brought the other girl in
: She got her own place and this same boyfriend still used to come to her new place, shag her and go back to his new pregnant babe  --- sometimes she gets her ass whooped in her own place
: She got preganant and boyfriend said the baby is not his --- slapped her a couple of times during the conversation
: She 8 months pregnant, single and boyfriend is no where to be found

Goodluck!!!

yicob:

So u boy keeps punching u to bed? Na so my babie self dey punch me.

U know some people love been beaten before sex, i hear they enjoy it more

mummysgirl:

thanks, a lot

but i still love him.

Isnt lurv blind?

seem yu enjoi hiz beatings. . .  

@ tope, walahi sex dey sweet after beatin. Imagine the guy usin his romantic lip to caress the crying face while his hands hold d shaking waist.

yicob:

@ tope, walahi sex dey sweet after beatin. Imagine the guy usin his romantic lip to caress the crying face while his hands hold d shaking waist.

Roflmao
How u take now?

hello girlfriend, pls get out of the whole shit, its annoying how can someone u love be beating u which kind ye ye   love be that,

forget about d guy before he will beat hell out of ur ass.

tboy1:

@ Poster

I was just talking 2 one of my friends last night bout some girl i know:

: Boyfriend used to beat her and she used the say the same thing you're currently writing
: Boyfriend got another girl pregnant
: Boyfriend chased her out and brought the other girl in
: She got her own place and this same boyfriend still used to come to her new place, shag her and go back to his new pregnant babe  --- sometimes she gets her ass whooped in her own place
: She got preganant and boyfriend said the baby is not his --- slapped her a couple of times during the conversation
: She 8 months pregnant, single and boyfriend is no where to be found

Goodluck!!!

ouch

Mayb no be hand punch the guy dey use punch am. I guess she meant that the guy beats her with his rod. Which woman no go like dat 1 ?

She loves him oh! i guess she too de puch the guy so na do me i do MAN NO GO VESK

nana:

Suffering gladens ur heart,abi?

Learn to control your temper too. I believe, if you can behave yourself and know when to give up the argument especially in the public , he will surely not hit you, better still ,try to accept defeat ,or apologize to him when his temper is very high, you can always prove your point indirectly to him later .
i wish to know if he does apologize for hitting you when he comes to his senses, if the answer is  YES, your relationship can be saved ,if NO  run for your life.

@topic
I believe the best thing to do will be to leave mike tyson your boyfriend 

FYAM! As in, as quickly as possible 

Will 'love' be there to protect you the day he knocks you out cold? 

O maybe 'love' will be the one to do surgery on your face the day you find yourself in hospital 

I don't think so dear 

@ topic

Una pikin go burn!

this ? is so silly what do you expect every one to say STAY WITH HIM? no! everyone woulds say to leave him but still you say no, so if you love him sooooooooooooooooo much let him love you to death then.

Poster

If your boyfriend is too harsh, try Brash!! _{e go be like say dem pour suya pepper inside ur toto}

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MrCrackles:

Poster

If your boyfriend is too harsh, try Brash!! _{e go be like say them pour suya pepper inside ur toto}

hehehehe. . .

ur balami flat liike suya too

MrCrackles:

Poster

If your boyfriend is too harsh, try Brash!! _{e go be like say them pour suya pepper inside ur toto}

ROFLMAO

what we you so?

Girl, listen to me and listen to me good.
Leave him alone.
I'm sure he says things he doesn't mean when he gets angry but they hurt you anyway.
If both of you have hot tempers, one day you will both beat each other up and it won't be nice.
Leave the guy alone abeg

Maybe your guy is a good guy. Maybe he's loving in other ways, that you haven't explained here. We don't know your relationship, i understand that, and I'm sure you have your reasons for loving him.

However, please please please, look at yourself and look at him. With all likelihood you're smaller than him and he can really hurt you physically if he loses control. It's not so much whether he loves you or not, or whether he's sorry afterwards or not. The point is that he doesn't have self-control and one day he can beat you up very badly to death even just because he's out of control only to regret it later.

You need to look after yourself and consider your personal safety. Maybe your temperaments are not compatible and maybe you both need partners who have a calming effect on you. When someone hits you, it's a sign that they don't have control and when that's someone that could seriously hurt you, you need to love yourself and them enough to get out of that situation before you put yourself or your partner in trouble.