njokusboy:


What are you going on about?
I am kinda lost...

Answer my question when you are sure of your stand... the one about the fighting girls, are they in the 16th century too or just being territorial, or just being Nigerians

EfemenaXY:


That, is applicable to men only.

Women don't stake claims nor are we territorial. You'll never catch us pïssïng on trees.

And yes, we've completed our evolution process, so are therefore smarter and more dignified - unlike the menfolk.

My stand has been clear right from the beginning. Let @op go fight the guy and get it out of his system by locking horns with his so-called "friend"

njokusboy:


So the fighting girls are not women shey, they are goats...

Lmao, @ the bolded...... you wish.... You'd count 20 women fighting over one dude before you'd see two dudes fighting for a girl...
Am surprised the op even considered it

slimyem:
I hear guys usually forgive each other these things and move on like nothing happened...??
I think the most important thing is your babe is handling it and you should leave her to conclude it. Confronting the guy about it is unnecessary.

crackhaus:
After doing everything to avoid commenting on this topic, the above comment (by Efemena) just couldn't pass me by

5minsmadness, don't do that.
Confronting him directly will actually make you look like a weakling with no control over his woman. Like someone mentioned in the previous page, if a guy comes to confront me about his chic telling me to stay away from her, imma feel sad for him - that's like telling me you're scared of losing your chic and can't put her in check yourself.

Make friends with the guy and hangout more. You could invite him out for drinks, make sure your girlfriend is present as well.
Remember he doesn't know you know anything yet, you're the one in control and with the power/advantage.

Lol...I'm done typing. Can't be giving this advice to a man on this issue - you should know how to handle your chic and sh1t bro

UjSizzle:
Pinch me, but the image of op beating this guy is very appealing

armyofone:
Beat the hell out of him.
What are you waiting for?
See the difference...if it were to be a gal, she would have taken care of business.

EfemenaXY:
Abeg beat him up and get it out of your system jare.

kilokeys:


unlike u o.. are u serious ?

EfemenaXY:


Uh..huh...

Yeah I am. Why shouldn't I be?

kilokeys:


beating with words or fists..?

EfemenaXY:


For a man - his fists.

C'mon, it's ingrained in your DNA. So it's best to act true to form. Yes?

kilokeys:

if we were in the jungle, yeah.. beating him to pulp would be a good idea..
office, civil setting.. naah.. bad idea o.
i just think he should have talked to him when he called.
or best confront him.
yo dude, whats it with u calling up my lady and talking thrash?...
he would get d message then

EfemenaXY:


Nigeria is a jungle. Abi una more dey do jungle justice?

Okay, if he wanna form gentleman, let them stroll out of the office environs and settle it out on the street. Either way, he's got to unleash his inner beast, else let his frustrations slowly eat him from within.

EfemenaXY:

It's a right turn on, I tell you.
That is eh...
We know how to take charge of our "ish". This guy clearly doesn't. Yet many of these so called men go come here dey claim "head of the relationship", when they are clearly the tail.

EfemenaXY:


That, is applicable to men only.

Women don't stake claims nor are we territorial. You'll never catch us pïssïng on trees.

And yes, we've completed our evolution process, so are therefore smarter and more dignified - unlike the menfolk.

My stand has been clear right from the beginning. Let @op go fight the guy and get it out of his system by locking horns with his so-called "friend"

njokusboy:


So the fighting girls are not women shey, they are goats...

Lmao, @ the bolded...... you wish.... You'd count 20 women fighting over one dude before you'd see two dudes fighting for a girl...
Am surprised the op even considered it

I've tried to be matured about it and forget the matter but seriously anytime he walks by my desk I feel like giving him a serious beating. I'm wondering wether to confront him about it or let it slide. Seriously if it were somebody else I think I would have given good advise but now it's happened to me I'm severely confused.

EfemenaXY:


You won't be the first nor the last to find my comments irresistible but you for try waka pass na...

The bolded bit of your post is the true definition of an absolute weakling. You see someone with hidden intentions, rounding up on your game, going in for the kill...and you advice him to sit back and watch? And while he's at it, to buy the intruder a drink? Like seriously??

Okay o! 5minsmadness, don't worry. Next time you see this "friend" of yours, he'll be on top of her, humping his life away, while you deceive yourself about acting all cool, calm, and collected. You follow crackhause's advice and you'll be the office joker with the "easy" babe. Dey there. Sitdown jejely dey look. Don't move a finger. Infact, which babe wants a guy that can't fight to protect his own?? Mtcheew!

5minsmadness, better man up and handle your shït bro. Be brave and pick up the gauntlet that's been thrown down at your feet. Be a REAL MAN and fight for your own. Prove yourself to your chic and teach that "friend" of yours a hard lesson he'll never forget.

Otherwise, drag your feet make im dey collect for your head. The choice is yours: Tough, hard, guy...or wimp.

Which is it?