God does not destine you/me/us to marry a particular person, We have to search and pray for the right person. is this true/false?

I need answers.

I don't get your question.

Has he or she found a spouse for himself/herself first?

His guidance and direction are always available to us, if we seek His face, but who we decide to choose is up to us.

donogaga:
We have to search and pray for the right person.

@op Absolute truth!
U av to shine ur eyes,search nd pray for d right partner

donogaga:
God does not destine you/me/us to marry a particular person, We have to search and pray for the right person. is this true/false?

I need answers.

You contradicted yourself there. You are right about praying to have or receive the right partner, who do you pray to if not God. My submission about this partner thing is this, God the supreme being has already set for us whom to marry, in other words, there is a man designed for a particular woman and a woman created for a particular man, 陰陽 the issue now lies in finding that right person.

MARKone:


You contradicted yourself there. You are right about praying to have or receive the right partner, who do you pray to if not God. My submission about this partner thing is this, God the supreme being has already set for us whom to marry, in other words, there is a man designed for a particular woman and a woman created for a particular man, 陰陽 the issue now lies in finding that right person.

100% support

Finding the person is the issue. It does not mean you can't marry another if you don't find the person

GOD will not get you a wife o,He That FindetH a wife .,,god has stopped giving man a wife after d genesis saga ,so u look for and ask him to bless it and give u d grace to manage d trouble you have found! lol

I didn't even pray concerning my partner before deciding.

beeevan:
I didn't even pray concerning my partner before deciding.

You really need to stop making me feel like I've a lost twin.

I don't know either, but sometimes I feel life is pre-destined: que sera sera, whatever will be, will be. still don't know if its true or false, but prayer is key

Phema:


You really need to stop making me feel like I've a lost twin.

Phema that's very possible, the doc took you away through that back door usually located in the delivery room, hope they gave you off to one Ibru or Dangote .

beeevan:

Phema that's very possible, the doc took you away through that back door usually located in the delivery room, hope they gave you off to one Ibru or Dangote .

I couldn't make it to Dangote's abode, so I decided to just manage Otedola.

Phema:


I couldn't make it to Dangote's abode, so I decided to just manage Otedola.

MARKone:


You contradicted yourself there. You are right about praying to have or receive the right partner, who do you pray to if not God. My submission about this partner thing is this, God the supreme being has already set for us whom to marry, in other words, there is a man designed for a particular woman and a woman created for a particular man, 陰陽 the issue now lies in finding that right person.

u got it wrong sir. It is not biblical, no bible standard. Read ur bible and undastand it.

There is a perfect person for every man or woman.However,marrying that person depends on if you follow His guidance and direction.
As a human being,you have a free will to choose whoever you want who may not be God's choice for you.

beeevan:
I didn't even pray concerning my partner before deciding.

Do you pray before making major decisions in other areas?
Just asking.

Smh at the sort of backward questions asked here.

Nor be by force to open thread na. @op, what about those married to wife beaters, drug peddlers, 419ers, yahoo-yahoo, Agberos, armed robbers, and other societal ills and even murderers?

Was it God's choosing for them too?

thorpido:
There is a perfect person for every man or woman. However, marrying that person depends on if you follow His guidance and direction.
As a human being, you have a free will to choose whoever you want who may not be God's choice for you.

100% supported

MARKone:


You contradicted yourself there. You are right about praying to have or receive the right partner, who do you pray to if not God. My submission about this partner thing is this, God the supreme being has already set for us whom to marry, in other words, there is a man designed for a particular woman and a woman created for a particular man, 陰陽 the issue now lies in finding that right person.

What if a person's predestined spouse dies before attaining adulthood, does it mean that the other living person will die single or spouseless(if there is any word like that )?

MARKone:


You contradicted yourself there. You are right about praying to have or receive the right partner, who do you pray to if not God. My submission about this partner thing is this, God the supreme being has already set for us whom to marry, in other words, there is a man designed for a particular woman and a woman created for a particular man, 陰陽 the issue now lies in finding that right person.

Well, I have no question that some People benefit from the belief that God predestines your spouse. It inspires many married couples to view their relationship as more than a chance occurrence and to appreciate the hand of God in bringing them together.

OP

You should have posted this in the religion section

pickabeau1:
OP

You should have posted this in the religion section

Ok, Noted.

However, If you are already married, I trust you will find this perspective helpful in counseling others. Have your say!!!

donogaga:


Ok, Noted.

However, If you are already married, I trust you will find this perspective helpful in counseling others. Have your say!!!

All the best

DBestDoc:
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What if a person's predestined spouse dies before attaining adulthood, does it mean that the other living person will die single or spouseless(if there is any word like that )?

95% of married people are not married to who God destined for them

God can even tell you the Musa is your destined husband and you refuse to marry him. He will not force you ke.

There is the perfect fit and good fit. If perfect fit dies, there are still a lot of good fits

DBestDoc:
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What if a person's predestined spouse dies before attaining adulthood, does it mean that the other living person will die single or spouseless(if there is any word like that )?

dont mind him jare. No biblical basis for dis, It is just a church doctrine. One can marry whom he or she love but only in the lord(christian) according to apostle paul.

thorpido:
Do you pray before making major decisions in other areas?
Just asking.

No, I pray if I have a request to make from God, not before decisions, he already gave me a brain to make appropriate decisions.

This is one huge puzzle I have always tried solving and I just concluded from 2 scriptures. 1st do not b equally yoked with an un believer and 2ndly God has given us the right to choose, just choose wisely...

Seriously interesting in dis topic. Am here to read comments

bukatyne:


95% of married people are not married to who God destined for them

God can even tell you the Musa is your destined husband and you refuse to marry him. He will not force you ke.

There is the perfect fit and good fit. If perfect fit dies, there are still a lot of good fits

You're right.

DBestDoc:
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What if a person's predestined spouse dies before attaining adulthood, does it mean that the other living person will die single or spouseless(if there is any word like that )?

Destiny means it will happen.That means the person's spouse will not die until they have met.If a man is destined to graduate from the university,it means he will not die before graduating.

Yossykit:
dont mind him jare. No biblical basis for dis, It is just a church doctrine. One can marry whom he or she love but only in the lord(christian) according to apostle paul.

'Be not conformed to this world but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind that you may prove what is that GOOD and ACCEPTABLE and PERFECT WILL of God(Romans 12:2)'.
Did you notice that there are 3 levels in God:the good,the acceptable and the perfect.If a man makes a choice that is not evil,it's a good choice.Sometimes you can make decisions that are acceptable,God allows you to.
However,the highest level is when you fit into the perfect will.

A good biblical example was when God told Moses to speak to the rock and water will come out.Moses had become angry and instead of speaking,he struck the rock.You know what?Water still came out!
It was not God's perfect will but it was acceptable.

beeevan:




No, I pray if I have a request to make from God, not before decisions, he already gave me a brain to make appropriate decisions.

Okay,I thought you didn't believe in prayer.