These is a thing if great concern because things are only getting worse by the day I pray we can do what's right and perhaps change the trend and get our priorities right and know that we owe future generation a good legacy they can be proud of.
Mathematical equation subject to home training and self training not always applicable: equation that makes a good husband from eyes of most ladies nowadays = Have a good/average job,come from influential/rich background, must have a fat/average back account,must be consistent in sending gifts both cash and kind, must attain a very high academic or business peak all to show off to friends but where is religious, honest,hardworking with future prospects and God fearing in equation? There is God o
Equation that makes good wife from eyes of most men = she must be sexy, good looking, be good in bed, must maintain shape that attracted him to her even after marriage , must be obedient, must be faithful, must not ask questions, must be a good cook, must be self reliant, independent woman for goodness sake where is God fearing, respectful in the equation where is sharing same goals in the equation? Maybe that's why the society is filled with too much falseness, marriages that do not last, relationship that lacks good foundation , too much premarital sex, dating many at the same time, lies to deceive and to get money or get sex respectively. Knowing the truth is half way the solution and I hope after reading these people will turn more to God spiritually, conscience wise and in behavior both hidden and open and be able to do the needful.