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Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by Wisegeek01(m): 9:38am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Bro it's wrong oo o, There are Billions of other cute ladies out there, in diffrent shapes and sizes And it's ur cousin you want to date (possibly marry) and u tryna justify yourself, I know u are problably joking* but if u mean it, nd u still want to go ahead with ur Ideas, u don't need anyone's permission here on NL, Na ur bizness ooo *washes hand* |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by uchennaq(m): 9:39am On Nov 14, 2014 |
ITS VERY UNFORTUNATE THAT MOST PEOPLE HERE DON'T EVEN KNOW WHY SOME UNLEARNED CIVILIZED PEOPLE TEND TO FROWN AT COUSINS MARRIAGE. FOR THOSE THAT DON'T KNOW BELOW IS THE REASON, NOT GOD FORBID OR TUFIAKWA. STOP WALLOWING IN ABJECT IGNORANCE MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS [b]Some people are fixated on the fallacy that cousin couples pose an intolerable risk to their offspring. However it is likely that we are all descendants of cousin marriages. Before civil laws banning cousin marriages, it was preferable to marry a cousin in some communities as it is to this day in many countries. The notion "why marry a stranger" is just as prevalent in many countries as the cousin marriage taboo in America today. There are a wide range of opinions on the subject of cousin marriages. This is fuelled by erroneous information, bigotry, and presumptions. Further we have civil laws and religious creeds based on obsolete information. The facts about cousin marriages are much clearer. Fears of cousins who marry having children with birth defects are exaggerated. Simply marrying within your own race increases the odds of birth defects. Marrying within your own town further increases your chances. Cousin couples have only a slightly higher incidence of birth defects than non-related couples.[/b] |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by uchennaq(m): 9:45am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Wisegeek01: BUT WHAT ARE YOUR REASONS...YOUR JUST TALKING WITHOUT REASONS.... I CAN'T MAKE UP ANYTHING FROM TUFIAKWA OR WASHING OFF HANDS OR GOD FORBID. 3 PASTORS CAN'T BE WRONG ON THIS ISSUE. |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by sibepoc(m): 9:47am On Nov 14, 2014 |
If I and my cousin falls in love with each other, we'll go ahead and marry oo. Nothing concern me. Rules and regulations of this life are too much abeg |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by uchennaq(m): 9:51am On Nov 14, 2014 |
ABI NA COMMUNITY DEY DECIDE FOR UNA. WHAT CONCERNS ME WITH WHAT COMMUNITY IS SAYING. ARE THEY FEEDING ME. THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IS HAPPINESS. |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by Suzyky4u(f): 9:57am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Lankaline: Lol. Good to know. I've been to Amiri like three times sha. 1 Like |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by justmag(m): 10:01am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Oh hell nah!! You will burn in hell real quick for that ishh! You better let the lord guide you to a real woman. All these girls walking around and you wanna date family. |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by rezy15(m): 10:01am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Benard94:no debate blindly. Abraham no marry im sister ? Issac no tym im sister too? |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by uchennaq(m): 10:01am On Nov 14, 2014 |
THESE PEOPLE ARE MORE LEARNED, EDUCATED AND WELL POLISHED THAN AFRICANS. READ THIS. AMERICAN'S ARE NOT ILLITERATES LIKE MOST OF US HERE. IGNORANCE IS A DISEASE THAT IS WHY SOME PEOPLE ARE SHOUTING JONATHAN MUST GO DUE TO IGNORANCE. MOST PEOPLE HERE ARE GRADUATES, WHY DON'T WE MAKE RESEARCH AND SOLVE ISSUE. NO WONDER MOST OF THE YOUTHS THAT FINISHED FROM THE HIGHER INSTITUTIONS DON'T HAVE JOBS, BECAUSE THEY GO TO SCHOOL TO PASS NOT CARRY OUT RESEARCH SO THAT OUR LEVEL OF THINKING WILL IMPROVE. THIS VERY UNFORTUNATE Loving v. Virginia Richard and Mildred Loving were married in 1958 in Washington D.C. because their home state of Virginia still upheld the anti miscegenation law which stated that interracial marriages were illegal. They were married, and then lived together in Caroline County, Virginia. In 1959 they were prosecuted and convicted of violating the state's anti miscegenation law. They were each sentenced one-year in jail, but promised the sentence would be suspended if they agreed to leave the state and not return for 25 years. Forced to move, they returned to Washington D.C. where, in 1963, they initiated a suit challenging the constitutionality of the anti miscegenation law. In March of 1966, the Virginia Supreme Court of Appeals upheld the law, but in June of 1967, the U.S. Supreme Court unanimously ruled the law unconstitutional. Thus, in 1967 the 16 states which still had anti miscegenation laws on their books were forced to erase them. |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by Ballotelle(m): 10:06am On Nov 14, 2014 |
chimerase2:d fact dat u dnt suport it dosent mak it bad,whr in d bible or quran is it a sin, u r myopic in ur thought |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by uchennaq(m): 10:11am On Nov 14, 2014 |
HERE IS ANOTHER THREAD ON NAIRALAND BASED ON IGNORANCE AND NOT FACTS https://www.nairaland.com/1989528/all-health-workers-now-consultants-fg You guys don't know what we want and the agreement with govt you don't become a consultant base on union activities rather you become a consultant base on educational qualification |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by einsteino(m): 10:13am On Nov 14, 2014 |
donroxy: you still dont get it, in the context being indifferent doesnt absolve you. there is no neither wrong nor right in this case. it is like a case of true or false, there is no middle grounds. in logic when you are indifferent in such a scenario it automatically means you are in favour of that which is perceived as the greater evil, it is just how it is. i know that wasnt what you meant, that was why I tried bringing it to your attention what your statement implies in logic. also as to einstein being my moniker, it is actually my legal name i didn't beg for it and like shakespare said "that which is called a rose would still smell as sweet if called by another name". It is amazing how easy it is for people to sit behind a computer and insult someone at the least chance they get, i bet it would be a lot harder to do that if we were having a face to face conversation. i still wonder what was provocative in my previous comment that you had to condescend to such. |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by Misolex(m): 10:33am On Nov 14, 2014 |
To doz wey dey 5n one law to hide unda...its scripturali wrong.... Bt we no no weda we don Nab our cousin b4. Nna ehn....GOD HELP US ALL...SHALL WE CONTINUE IN SIN AND SAY THE GRACE OF GOD SHOULD ABOUND? |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by hzrvip(f): 10:33am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Benard94: nonth |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by Rashdimuh(m): 10:38am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Medically it is not Good if ur family have an history like asthma it keeps on spreadin. |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by Nobody: 10:44am On Nov 14, 2014 |
rollykotex:Check what I posted above .......... One's cousin is not among those forbid by islam for marriage as stated in Qur'an 4 vs 23 thus cousin marrying cousin is allowed in most Islamic oriented cultures those forbidden for marriage are explicitly stated in the qur'an ! In islam you can't marry your nephew/niece neither your aunt/uncle but you can marry the daughter/son of your aunt/uncle i.e Your cousin |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by Nobody: 10:57am On Nov 14, 2014 |
einsteino:I'm so sorry 4 my outburst but do not be so sure about the bolded cuz I would still say what I gatto say and possibly apologise afterward !! There is no point in arguing so far with you and that is why I called your einstein to question : the title of Op is whether cousin marriage is ethical or not now tell me how such is a yes/no question ? How did ethical issues become a yes/no question when a prohibition in a particular society is a norm in another society !! I'm a muslim and a Yoruba man and a social/Management scientist I'd provided opinion regarding my culture, belief and judgement .... How you now come about your logic of me approving it is what baffles me .... I don't see it as right nor wrong .... What is abomination in Igboland might be a norm in America ....... The only reason I will explicitly say NO is if such practice has dire health/philosophical consequences !! |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by omoharry(f): 11:00am On Nov 14, 2014 |
I hope you remember the blood disease that almost wipe out the Royal Family in Europe due to this kind of close blooding line marriage and breeding among family members back in the 19th century. stay clear of this kind of relationship oo. it has its physical and spiritual repercussion. |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by Psalmwise(m): 11:03am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Anytin bad in it well I don't know......can u share same bed wit ur cousin for a month without any tin ape in?? Konji nah bad tin oo |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by WINDSOW(m): 11:12am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Iye mhe! This is a sacrilege! Osanobua!!! OP,u are a caricature of urself.Why should u ask tis abominable question?Am sure u've nt start browsing ur relatives kpekus oo.Else na death ooo. No try am ooo,it's a very BIG TABOO. I've parrotize ooo!!! |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by DAVE5(m): 11:37am On Nov 14, 2014 |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by ATTAHDYE(m): 11:45am On Nov 14, 2014 |
it depends on where you come from and the cultural marriage laws of your people. Here in the north among the fulani's and hausa, cousins are allowed to marry. Note: I didn't say Muslims, only "fulani and hausa" tradition. |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by fuadolawale(m): 11:50am On Nov 14, 2014 |
How can u think of a question like that. This kinda question is not worth answering because yaa cousin is still part of ya family member so don't get it twisted my peeps. |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by Chukskala: 12:45pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
It's incest |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by mcgaius: 12:54pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
Benard94: I think the question should be rephrased like this...Is sister dating ethical?una don comot for gay and lesbians and now na sister and cousin una wan enter.Very soon na daddy and mummy. |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by criuze(m): 1:14pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
Forbidden fruit . On your own brother. Since when you begin Bleep you cousin na today you wan tell us |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by PlutoLA(m): 1:20pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
charlsecy:Read Leviticus 18:6,the bible clearly stars that one must not have sexual relations with a close relative or someone near of kin. Is your cousin not a close relative??! |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by Umennajiego(m): 1:27pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
Forbidden marriage and passages in d bible Between mother and son. (Note that sexual relations between father and daughter are prohibited by Lev. 18:6 and 21:2-3)Leviticus 18:7-8 With stepchildren.Leviticus 18:8, 17 With an aunt.Leviticus 18:12-14 With sister or half-sister.Leviticus 18:9; Deut. 27:22 With half-sister and stepsisters.Leviticus 18:11 With daughter-in-law.Leviticus 18:15 With your sister-in-law.Leviticus 18:16 With your granddaughter.Leviticus 18:10 With your step-granddaughter. #Online research# |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by PlutoLA(m): 1:27pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
rezy15:That was b4 God laid down the new law for the Israelites |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by Umennajiego(m): 1:32pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
We all are gonna learn something here am not the best read neither am I a genius... |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by ugsams(m): 1:40pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
Umennajiego: It seems you have a strong point here but my conscience will not allow me do this. |
Re: Dating Your Cousin: Is It Ethical? by wabbyland(m): 1:50pm On Nov 14, 2014 |
Dear nairalanders, I'm a young man with a girlfriend that's been acting funny recently. It all started when my girlfriend called me in the midnight and complained about her cousin, who's been sharing the same room with her under he dad's roof, that he has been making attempts to have sex with her and give one baseless excuse of having a pain at the lower part of his stomach and he needed to discharge some of his sperm in order to feel alright. One thing led to another and he dad asked her to pack out(cos of her stepmother) and without consulting me, she packed her thing to that cousin's house. Now she's claiming he's a changed person and doesn't ask for sex anymore. Can u sincerely trust that kind of girl? Would u continue with that relationship? |
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