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Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by pelvicky(m): 5:37pm On Dec 05, 2014
G.
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by kilokeys(m): 5:38pm On Dec 05, 2014
Odunharry:
FROM BOYFRIEND ASSOCIATION OF NIGERIA..

All the guys are going on a 2wks warning strike b4 they start d main one which will be end on the 19th february,2015..

5days after election

escaping christmas newyear and valentine gifts... see strategy
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by Nobody: 5:38pm On Dec 05, 2014
ok
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by tobyemmanuel(m): 5:38pm On Dec 05, 2014
Hmmm! Guys still dump ladies in Nigeria? Strange. None of this in France where I schooled
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by AJOT99(m): 5:40pm On Dec 05, 2014
Hmm....
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by toy1980: 5:40pm On Dec 05, 2014
RedEboe:
From a few past experiences,here are some signs that could signal an eventual end to your relationship i.e your A$$ is about to be dumped.

1. You guys used to chat (Whatsapp/BBM) almost everyday even when there was nothing really interesting to chat about. Suddenly he/she stops chatting with you regularly and when a chat does occur you get more of 'one-liner' responses.

2. When he/she decides to go on more night outings without your presence (or consent) with excuses such as, "it's my colleagues Bach eve" or "It's an all girls nite out" or "Are you my father/mother". If this happens just once, fine...if it starts to happen more regularly, it's a sign.

3. When you suddenly start making extra effort to convince him/her to have $ex with you, in spite of the fact that you guys have always had a very $exually active relationship.

4. You lay hands on his/her handset and he/she suddenly becomes apprehensive or suddenly remembers to make an important phone call thereby collecting the phone from you.

5. An important social event takes place in his/her family circle and you were neither informed nor invited with the excuse that it was just a low-key event.

6. He/she decides to travel or relocate abroad,only informing you after Visa and travel documents have been successfully processed.

7. He/she cannot explain exact location the night before and gets mad or upset just because you asked.

8. You've been calling him/her at a particular time during the day but no response,then you get a return call about 6 to 24hours later with several excuses.

9. When you go out on dates he/she starts to shy away from the littlest PDA (Public Display of Affection),which was not the case in the immediate past.

10. You no longer receive random gifts from him/her, and when gifts do come,they are no longer of the same value or quality as the ones he/she got you in the past.



Surely,there are many more signs that have not been captured here; however I really hope that the ten (10) signs already mentioned helps those facing such scenarios as we speak.

Comments and Questions are welcome (till Sunday 16/11/14)
cool

No 6 is the deal breaker. If that happens its a complete breakup.
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by klyn81: 5:41pm On Dec 05, 2014
No 10, gift ke,,,,,
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by holatin(m): 5:59pm On Dec 05, 2014
when he bleep you like when digging a rock for Gold.
when he handle your bosom like 50 naira fufu
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by adedayourt(m): 6:05pm On Dec 05, 2014
You give him/her a call nd he/she be like "could call me back pls"

He/she starts giving you "OK" ans during chat

He/she aint moved when you (un)delibrately flirt with somone else

He/she no longer cares what you think of his/her action.
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by donbrowser(m): 6:07pm On Dec 05, 2014
ireneony:
number 3 is very correct
Talking 4rm Experience

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Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by Tee99(m): 6:09pm On Dec 05, 2014
No.1 is true
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by sexylogan(m): 6:13pm On Dec 05, 2014
TrollMan:
I don't think dudes here will be interested in reading this article because I read a fact that said Naija bebes don't break up with their men when it's two months to any seasonal period. It's a tradition.

... or when its 2 months to their birthday undecided
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by Nobody: 6:16pm On Dec 05, 2014
A Big Shout Out to all
those GIRLS that left
US and said they will
be Getting Married in
2014. They Have Only 4 Saturdays Left....
Its the weekend!!!

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Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by EbiJUNIRO(m): 6:22pm On Dec 05, 2014
it is all abt d money oh... If u dont gat cash, I advice u back off til wen due...

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Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by Sike(m): 6:26pm On Dec 05, 2014
This OP don get the experience die.
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by Orikinla(m): 6:39pm On Dec 05, 2014
OP, you are right.
But for guys like Orikinla and other hot guys, we sometimes pray and wish our present woman leaves to make room for others, because we are lucky to be the attraction of many babes.
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by charlove(m): 6:40pm On Dec 05, 2014
pls dnt post this again.
thanks.
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by Wolexdey(m): 6:43pm On Dec 05, 2014
What is it with u pple abt sex in relationships...Dis is uncalled for.

This dangerous practice u keep encouraging most pple to be a part of is harmful.

Pre-Marital sex is totally wrong nd should not be embraced...When wrongs are gradually overthrowing d right...

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Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by Nobody: 6:56pm On Dec 05, 2014
This is Very true,But for me It's Just Number 1,Once i notice you don't seem Active Talking to me Or You don't reply much or I call and You don't Pick up.I don't even Bother..I automatically delete your Number without saying anything..Lets Face It,In Life Everything is A Two way kind of thing.Loving,Chating,sex,Relationships and Friendship.Thr Moment Someone doesn't want to be In Your Life,No need to disturb yourself about it.Just leave them and Go.I for a Person won't careless If You leave me.There are Lots Of Girls or Friends around in the world..Just a matter of Finding them who actually Care About you that's a all.

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Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by Nobody: 7:07pm On Dec 05, 2014
I hate those signs...awkward moments... I hardly fall in Love ..I walk in love...
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by elijames(m): 7:31pm On Dec 05, 2014
@OP I think you are correct. Some of your points can be argued though. Most guys keep the girls just for the sexual part of the relationship and once the girl realizes that, she zips up.
All the same, great work.
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by teoiz(f): 7:38pm On Dec 05, 2014
So true! I totally agree with the OP
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by ojilepikin(m): 7:43pm On Dec 05, 2014
It is true my dear. I just got dumped by my girl friend. When I saw the signs and complained, she will give me excuse or the other. At this point I knew she had left me even without her saying it.
I am not very surprised anyway. I met her while I was working, but rit now am not working. According to her she has been praying that a new job comes. I take everything in good faith. Just may be at this point the job will come. May be na bc of the s*x God no won bring the job.
Signs numbers 1,2,3 and 4 were the signs in my own case.
Its very painful cos I loved her so so much. She's one in a million in terms of beauty and also got sum character. I will miss her so much. I wish her the very best in her future relationship. I pray she meets a guy who love her they way I do, or even more.

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Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by GboyegaD(m): 7:43pm On Dec 05, 2014
I don't know if I am just weird but most of these signs to me do not really indicate a potential break up is near. For instance, number 3 works opposite for some people. They feel they need to reap their investments and so would prefer to use the other party beyond what they would normally do. Number 8 might not be so true as well as sometimes, people get so engrossed that they might forget to call back and when they do, it could be hours after the call.
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by ojilepikin(m): 7:51pm On Dec 05, 2014
It is true my dear. I just got dumped by my girl friend. When I saw the signs and complained, she will give me one excuse or the other. At this point I knew she had left me even without her saying it.
I am not very surprised anyway. I met her while I was working, but rit now am not working. According to her she has been praying that a new job comes. I take everything in good faith. Just may be at this point the job will come. May be na bc of the s*x God no won bring the job.
Signs numbers 1,2,3 and 4 were the signs in my own case.
Its very painful cos I loved her so so much. She's one in a million in terms of beauty and also got sum character. I will miss her so much. I wish her the very best in her future relationship. I pray she meets a guy who love her they way I do, or even more.
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by overlord77: 7:53pm On Dec 05, 2014
RedEboe:


LOL...u sure about this? I thought such break ups were reserved for Valentine's day? wink

Haha, I once had a colleague that said he'd pick up a quarrel with his gf cos Christmas was close. When he came.to.work on Monday, this conversation ensued

Me: Adams how far with your babe na, he did it go?

Adams: o boy, that girl na winch, everything I do am, the babe.no gree vex

Me: *faints*
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by GodsKate: 8:47pm On Dec 05, 2014
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Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by 100Cents: 9:47pm On Dec 05, 2014
If I stop picking your calls.

RED FLAG
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by Nobody: 10:51pm On Dec 05, 2014
RedEboe:
From a few past experiences,here are some signs that could signal an eventual end to your relationship i.e your A$$ is about to be dumped.

1. You guys used to chat (Whatsapp/BBM) almost everyday even when there was nothing really interesting to chat about. Suddenly he/she stops chatting with you regularly and when a chat does occur you get more of 'one-liner' responses.

2. When he/she decides to go on more night outings without your presence (or consent) with excuses such as, "it's my colleagues Bach eve" or "It's an all girls nite out" or "Are you my father/mother". If this happens just once, fine...if it starts to happen more regularly, it's a sign.

3. When you suddenly start making extra effort to convince him/her to have $ex with you, in spite of the fact that you guys have always had a very $exually active relationship.

4. You lay hands on his/her handset and he/she suddenly becomes apprehensive or suddenly remembers to make an important phone call thereby collecting the phone from you.

5. An important social event takes place in his/her family circle and you were neither informed nor invited with the excuse that it was just a low-key event.

6. He/she decides to travel or relocate abroad,only informing you after Visa and travel documents have been successfully processed.

7. He/she cannot explain exact location the night before and gets mad or upset just because you asked.

8. You've been calling him/her at a particular time during the day but no response,then you get a return call about 6 to 24hours later with several excuses.

9. When you go out on dates he/she starts to shy away from the littlest PDA (Public Display of Affection),which was not the case in the immediate past.

10. You no longer receive random gifts from him/her, and when gifts do come,they are no longer of the same value or quality as the ones he/she got you in the past.



Surely,there are many more signs that have not been captured here; however I really hope that the ten (10) signs already mentioned helps those facing such scenarios as we speak.

Comments and Questions are welcome (till Sunday 16/11/14)
cool
.....lolz grin

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Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by Bethel768891(m): 11:20pm On Dec 05, 2014
Make d person dump naa...life goes on...
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by Nobody: 3:18am On Dec 06, 2014
charitycomment.
Re: 10 Signs That Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Is About To Dump You. by mabeni(m): 4:27am On Dec 06, 2014
tobillionaire:
Naija guls. Don't break up when derez money... If u av money b4 but suddenly became broke just hang boot urself b4 they'll start all dis drama
ur truely right dude. She dumped my ass wen i had problem nd became wrecked.

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