I'm planning to settle down. I've started putting those points in practice since time immemorial . Nice post

Settling Down takes a lot of Commitment.
As for me,i'm never ready to settle down cause i can never be committed to a stranger{the so called wife}all my life.I can never adjust my life or make sacrifise becos of that overated thing called marriage.Mba.
I can be committed to my children/adopted children,but wife?Never!
Children i want,marriage i no want.The best marriage can give me is sex,but i don't dig it.

Hmmmm am scared oooo. #vegatalks#

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moral lesson:guys,God 1st,workhard,prayhard...nd ofcos,marriage aint a bed of roses,u gat bii prepared.....

Dcmg:
Settling Down takes a lot of Commitment.
As for me,i'm never ready to settle down cause i can never be committed to a stranger{the so called wife}all my life.I can never adjust my life or make sacrifise becos of that overated thing called marriage.Mba.
I can be committed to my children/adopted children,but wife?Never!
Children i want,marriage i don't want.Mehn i want to be in peace all my life.
Children i want,marriage i no want.The best marriage can give me is sex,but i don't dig it.

Sex is not the only the marriage can give you. Marriage is not compulsory though but when you meet someone who makes you a better person, brings out the best in you which you may not be able to bring out without her, marrying her will be the only thing on your mind. It's a fact that many of the marriages we saw when growing up were not enticing but with the right information you can make yours a model. If you take your place and the lady take hers, there won't be strife. Marriage is a beautiful thing.

vega84:
Hmmmm am scared oooo. #vegatalks#

You don't have to be scared. Brace yourself and say I'm able and capable

AgapeCharis:
Translation please

AgapeCharis has spoken, the case is finished.

JoeCutie:
AgapeCharis has spoken, the case is finished.

hahahahaha
Was that Latin or French?

AgapeCharis:
For the Guys...

10 THINGS YOU LL REALISE ONCE YOU DECIDE TO SETTLE
DOWN

1). #500 na money

2). Swags, looks and Americana accents don't pay bills. No more need to pretend you have money when you don't. You Have To Have It !!!

3). Love is not all and only thing to consider in choosing a wife, contrary to what we thought.

4). In life, what matters is WHO KNOWS YOU and not, WHOM YOU KNOW.

5). Nothing compares to saving good money in the bank.

6). A lady's beauty is in her brains.

7). Relax!... Having Sex would finally be a 'job' that you ll one day be running away from.

8 ) Girls are plenty but wives are scarce.

9). Acting to impress a girlfriend is as useless as the 'ueue' in 'Queue'.

10). That you need God like never before.

This couldn't have made further sense. Nice stuffs

AgapeCharis:
Sex is not the only the marriage can give you. Marriage is not compulsory though but when you meet someone who makes you a better person, brings out the best in you which you may not be able to bring out without her, marrying her will be the only thing on your mind. It's a fact that many of the marriages we saw when growing up were not enticing but with the right information you can make yours a model. If you take your place and the lady take hers, there won't be strife. Marriage is a beautiful thing.

Ok,seems you don't get it.
Just becos someone brings out the best in me means i should marry her?
Ok,if my guy friend brings out the best in me,should i turn gay?
If she brings out the best in me,maybe i will make her a close friend and nothing more;no romance no intimacy.
All i'm trying to say is "i need space" most days of my life.
Like i'm more of an introvert,i'm at my best when i'm alone.You get me?

Dcmg:
Ok,seems you don't get it.
Just becos someone brings out the best in me means i should marry her?
Ok,if my guy friend brings out the best in me,should i turn gay?
If she brings out the best in me,maybe i will make her a close friend and nothing more;no romance no intimacy.
All i'm trying to say is "i need space" most days of my life.
Like i'm more of an introvert,i'm at my best when i'm alone.You get me?

I get you completely

AgapeCharis:
For the Guys...

10 THINGS YOU LL REALISE ONCE YOU DECIDE TO SETTLE
DOWN

1). #500 na money

2). Swags, looks and Americana accents don't pay bills. No more need to pretend you have money when you don't. You Have To Have It !!!

3). Love is not all and only thing to consider in choosing a wife, contrary to what we thought.

4). In life, what matters is WHO KNOWS YOU and not, WHOM YOU KNOW.

5). Nothing compares to saving good money in the bank.

6). A lady's beauty is in her brains.

7). Relax!... Having Sex would finally be a 'job' that you ll one day be running away from.

8 ) Girls are plenty but wives are scarce.

9). Acting to impress a girlfriend is as useless as the 'ueue' in 'Queue'.

10). That you need God like never before.

impressive. 1-10,all impressive

Straight.

trendiitee:
although I'm not a guy, I just love dat write up.
dose words re words of wisdom.

So true

AgapeCharis:
For the Guys...

10 THINGS YOU LL REALISE ONCE YOU DECIDE TO SETTLE
DOWN

1). #500 na money

2). Swags, looks and Americana accents don't pay bills. No more need to pretend you have money when you don't. You Have To Have It !!!

3). Love is not all and only thing to consider in choosing a wife, contrary to what we thought.

4). In life, what matters is WHO KNOWS YOU and not, WHOM YOU KNOW.

5). Nothing compares to saving good money in the bank.

6). A lady's beauty is in her brains.

7). Relax!... Having Sex would finally be a 'job' that you ll one day be running away from.

8 ) Girls are plenty but wives are scarce.

9). Acting to impress a girlfriend is as useless as the 'ueue' in 'Queue'.

10). That you need God like never before.

Nice one

Samakinr:
Truth. Marriage in the long run is not only about what we call love. It is all about commitment. And if we choose to call it love, then love is a commitment THAT HAS(emphasis intended) to be watered with trust, communication and passion....
Op, i concur with you

I love this. Love is a "CONSCIOUS COMMITMENT" on both sides

AgapeCharis:
You don't have to be scared. Brace yourself and say I'm able and capable

. Am able and capable

vega84:
. Am able and capable

That's the spirit

Blankstare:
I am not married but i know all this stuff, how come?

You are obviously preparing for the task ahead.

good write up. Experience is the best teacher, though

AgapeCharis:
hahahahaha
Was that Latin or French?

Latin.

JoeCutie:
Latin.

Cool. Are you fluent in Latin?

AgapeCharis:
Cool. Are you fluent in Latin?

Kind of, though I wouldn't say fluent. I've a diploma in Latin.

JoeCutie:
Kind of, though I wouldn't say fluent. I've a diploma in Latin.

wow! Diploma in Latin? Hmmmmmm

AgapeCharis:
Lol

I wish you the best bro
Hml in advance

Chai

AgapeCharis:
wow! Diploma in Latin? Hmmmmmm

I'm serious. Both the exam and the certificate came from Urban University, Rome. I got it in 2008.

JoeCutie:
I'm serious. Both the exam and the certificate came from Urban University, Rome. I got it in 2008.

wow! You live there I guess?

AgapeCharis:
For the Guys...

10 THINGS YOU LL REALISE ONCE YOU DECIDE TO SETTLE
DOWN

1). #500 na money

2). Swags, looks and Americana accents don't pay bills. No more need to pretend you have money when you don't. You Have To Have It !!!

3). Love is not all and only thing to consider in choosing a wife, contrary to what we thought.

4). In life, what matters is WHO KNOWS YOU and not, WHOM YOU KNOW.

5). Nothing compares to saving good money in the bank.

6). A lady's beauty is in her brains.

7). Relax!... Having Sex would finally be a 'job' that you ll one day be running away from.

8 ) Girls are plenty but wives are scarce.

9). Acting to impress a girlfriend is as useless as the 'ueue' in 'Queue'.

10). That you need God like never before.

THANK GOD! You are right.

Once again, let me call out Tosyne2much to come and read this thread (even though I'm sure he must've seen it) and Learn what it means to produce a meaningful list and not those craps he floods this forum with.

OP you've done a fantastic job. Thumbs up

KingBish:
Once again, let me call out Tosyne2much to come and read this thread (even though I'm sure he must've seen it) and Learn what it means to produce a meaningful list and not those craps he floods this forum with.

OP you've done a fantastic job. Thumbs up

Hahahaha

No one is an island of knowledge.. I'm learning sha

Thanks

KingBish:
Once again, let me call out Tosyne2much to come and read this thread (even though I'm sure he must've seen it) and Learn what it means to produce a meaningful list and not those craps he floods this forum with.

OP you've done a fantastic job. Thumbs up

Hahaha Thanks

Everyone is unique in his/her own way sha and so is tosyne

He's actually the brain begin any "10 types of..........." you see in this forum