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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by lordmayor4(m): 7:57am On Dec 06, 2014 |
evegran: He means you are BEATFUL... MEANING. You are good to be beaten lmao |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by henrydadon(m): 7:57am On Dec 06, 2014 |
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Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 7:58am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Pls don't talk to your pastor he might not understand this. Talk to a shrink, or a younger marriage counselor someone that understand diz typa tinz. And no no parents. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Elsquidme(m): 7:59am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Blesie, ure the one with the problem. remove ureself from pride and do what a loving and caring wife should do. do not tell anyone (if not u have write it here) even people close to you. only say it to your marriage Councillor if you cannot handle it. Communication is the key, sexuall obligation is yours to fulfill in ur marriage. if there is anything u nid him to know, let him understand you by been nice and diplomatic in ur approach dont show pride, arrogance be simple. but when u show that you wont do as he says thats when you continue having problems. two wise men cant stay under the same roof. be wise and diplomatic. it is only you that can solve ur problem not someone outside. 2 Likes |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by lordmayor4(m): 8:00am On Dec 06, 2014 |
RedBenson: Best comment so far |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 8:00am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Jeeeeeez,I got goose bumps reading this. I don't envy d OP at all. That guy is a beast ,a rapist. Anyone that loves u will not put you thru all that,even seeing u in tears begging without caring. Na wa oh.I once had a boy friend that we used to kiss and smush but no sex. One day he brought out his stuff and said I need to suck. And I told him I won't. He was trying to cajole me by trying to push my head towards it,but I refused,when he saw I wasn't going to do that,he gave up. I still saw that as tending towards rape,so I ran away from him oh, talk less of someone actually forcing u. It's really bad. I can't advice a married woman to divorce her hubby, they say d best advice is d one u giv urself.so I'm sure u know what to do 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 8:00am On Dec 06, 2014 |
lordmayor4: Oh! I thought he either couldnt spell properly or was simply abbrevating. *turns and stares in mirror* I am still BEAUTIFUL! 2 Likes |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by thegoodone2(m): 8:00am On Dec 06, 2014 |
how may time does he have sex with u in a day. u did not tell us. if its not more than 3 time in a day is okay for new marriage .he will reduce it has time go on. he may like sex and u dont like it, two of u will understand each other. when i newly married, i like sex and my wife dont like it but now i have understand her. |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by sucess001(m): 8:01am On Dec 06, 2014 |
All of u saying dis isn't real probably dunno d many bad tins dt happen in marriage. My advise to OP..tell him u want both of u to see a marriage counsellor. If dt doesn't work....park to ur parent's house and serve him divorse papers. Ur ground will be irretrivable breakdown of marriage due to cruelty. Perhaps, dt will correct him. Tell uur pastors...-f possible....video an incident wit a spy camera.... Den if he doesn't change...move on. Ur life's more impt dan ur marriage. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by DECOtech(m): 8:01am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Slonge2:True talk bro! _ Your head dey dia |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by rakish(m): 8:01am On Dec 06, 2014 |
oh pls! Hw did she hurt him? By not agreeing to be his girlfriend in the first place b4 finally succumbing or by abstaining frm sex b4 marriage? I think you should try and get use to the sex positions,even if u dnt enjoy it pretend u do and stop crying. Very soon it wil turn to both of u having sex and nt him having his way,try introduce new methods it wil make him love u more coz it seems his a sex freak and freaks love new things. Sometimes take control,just make him have the impression his nt hurting you anymre,he wil get tired and turn emotional during sex. Also pray fervently,let go any unnecessary pride coz he derives pleasure wen he feast on your pride and it wil hurt u greatly. 2 Likes |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Christbeauty: 8:02am On Dec 06, 2014 |
This is what I think, u re married to him and the fact remains he is trying to do all this to get back at u. If he does all those things and u refuse to show hurt like u use to do , he will get tired. This is what I mean, wen he comes, u should even be d one to draw him closer and make advances to wanna have sex, if possible, suck him, cos I discover most guys like thatm so the earlier u begin to like it, the betterm wen he discovers the things he tries to do u hurt u, u call for them, he will get tired. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by lordmayor4(m): 8:02am On Dec 06, 2014 |
evegran: Hahaha.... when not spelt right, understanding differs and cases arise.... if in doubt, ask the OP lol... meanwhile lemme check out ya pic |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Christbeauty: 8:03am On Dec 06, 2014 |
This is what I think, u re married to him and the fact remains he is trying to do all this to get back at u. If he does all those things and u refuse to show hurt like u use to do , he will get tired. This is what I mean, wen he comes, u should even be d one to draw him closer and make advances to wanna have sex, if possible, suck him, cos I discover most guys like that so the earlier u begin to like it, the better, wen he discovers the things he tries to do u hurt u, u call for them, he will get tired. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by HopeAlive14(m): 8:03am On Dec 06, 2014 |
ITbomb: I disagree with your comments on "sex before marriage". People who call on God should fear, respect and obey Him in all situations. I however agree with you that she should talk to her pastor about the issue. This story may not be true but readers stand to learn one or two things from it and the godly advices that are given. |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Drdonzeez(m): 8:04am On Dec 06, 2014 |
pictures or Adonbilivit |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 8:04am On Dec 06, 2014 |
mayapop: Thanks! You should totally try it sometimes, oh! Low level s&M- we dont wanna get you hurt. ![]() |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by fadamekus(m): 8:04am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Nollywood script i don watch am befor na old film |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Montaque(m): 8:06am On Dec 06, 2014 |
jaybee3:just what I thought. OP's husby has been watching indecency so much he wants to experiment his new sexual orientation. He is practically on a different sexual page with his wife. Its not revenge,dats what he said to enable him ve access,he has a different understanding of sex. That's a plausible arguement for pre marital sex, but it can be circumvented through sincere communication during courtship... @OP, find a way to his heart. 1 Like |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by adaxxy: 8:10am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Divorce his fucking ass cos he will not change |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by ejlee(m): 8:10am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Lessons for the ladies who always play add to get, my dear u will enjoy it have fun n Better still thank your God is not me by now that thin of yours for don they hot after I don take my jehova sharp sharp ![]() |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 8:11am On Dec 06, 2014 |
chimerase2:the morale be two things; 1. Do not do shakara or take advantage of your fiance as a lady and 2. Try to indulge in the act once before marriage.. At least she for don know how big e be and that he likes to have it sucked.. Loool.. Yes have it sucked...! 1 Like |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by contactmorak: 8:12am On Dec 06, 2014 |
evegran:it's my pleasure pls! |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 8:12am On Dec 06, 2014 |
@OP, u denied him of sex, and now u are feigning ignorance, so u don't know that some people love it when their wife suck their diik? I am sure u must be very rude too, hence all the sex he is askin for, just to shut ur mouth up. U will not tell us the things u do at home, u only tell us sex sex sex. Wetin de sex? is it not just to fvck? who doesn't like fvck abi u no get t*t*. Clear road make I de see front. Babes be formin not likin sex since 0001BC 2 Likes |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 8:13am On Dec 06, 2014 |
erocorp01: Bros (or madam), you are one of the few Nigerians with a brain. Wetin concern pastor with this story? Do those advising you expect the pastor to advise him to chop you gently?!! @ OP. Like someone said, you best start enjoying it. He might be acting out his frustrations from while you were dating but conji cannot last forever. He sef will tire one day. Just so you know, It is legally impossible for a man to rape his wife so forget lawyer/ divorce etc. My advice? Take the challenge to him. Before he will ask for it, you start disturbing him for it. Once he comes from work, offer to take a bath together. While doing it, stroke his ego by hailing him (baby you're the best', 'you're so big' etc). You will see the difference.. And yes, you will suck it (sorry).. For those looking for moral, here it is: No make yanga when man dey toast you, cos who dey do anyhow, dey see anyhow... |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 8:13am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by micoloP(m): 8:14am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Marc9:if you continue like this i dont think you'll ever get a husband ma!...its not an insult o..because the op isnt a virgin, she married already and she should also learn to adjust to the husband sex life,if he is aggressive with sex,she should also be aggressive with her sex too,dumping her husband aint a good advice+with the rate of the husbands sex,she should be pregnat by now self(twin) i dont think anything like "rape" exists in a marriage...thanks |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by tconfi: 8:14am On Dec 06, 2014 |
TO START WITH, I WISH TO CONGRATULATE YOU FOR HAVING A MAN THAT WAS ALL OVER YOU AND FINALLY MARRIED YOU. ALSO, THANK GOD BECAUSE HE IS NOT 'OKOBO' (MEANING- IMPOTENT) ASSUMING THE GUY IS IMPOTENT, YOU WOULD HAVE SAID HE IS NOT DOING HIS DUTY WELL! NOW, YOU MUST UNDERSTAND THAT. WE HAVE THREE CATEGORY OF SEX PARTNERS: A. DONT LIKE SEX AT ALL. B. AVERAGE LOVE FOR SEX. C. SEX IS NO 1 PRIORITY. YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND THAT YOURHUSBAND IS INCATEGORY C AND PROBALLY YOU ARE IN CATEGORY A. YOU NEED TO ADJUST. YOUR HUSBAND CANT CHANGE OOO! AT ANY RATE, I SO MUCH APPRECIATE YOUR FICTION(YOU ARE A GOOD WRITER) I AM SURE YOU JUST IMAGINED IT... LET US TALK 2B52E633, I AM ALSO AN AUTHOR! GOD BLESS YOU! |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by Nobody: 8:15am On Dec 06, 2014 |
U gon have to kill that n1gga ![]() Wallahi na so I dey plot my exes,if dem venture marry me pere na fuvk till u die things ![]() NB: just incase una dey nairaland,I like to be sucked |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by lilmax(m): 8:17am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Nairaland is the worst place to get advice |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by jeje123(m): 8:18am On Dec 06, 2014 |
Sorry i believe dis wud serve as a lesson for other ladies that fun of making jess of a man. It will remain only YOU wen it works out d way u dont expect. Sorry once again. |
Re: He Is Punishing Me On Our Honey Moon by EngrUch(m): 8:18am On Dec 06, 2014 |
The title of this article is "THE REVENGE MISSION".I feel he's gona leave after completion. |
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