juliuswizy:
Wanted saying something but since its meant for only ladies, i 'll just sit nd watch....

kristina1:
Because most guys are not matured enough to handle it,they will think you are desperate and cheap,some will even take you for granted.
Btw[b] what if they dnt return the feelings?[/b]

XavierG:


The feeling mustn't always be returned.
Some ladies reject some dude, you know.

You said some truth though

juliuswizy:
Wanted saying something but since its meant for only ladies, i 'll just sit nd watch....

lilmax:
They are afraid of rejection

samflexxy:
[size=50pt]because they are all introvert's[/size]

Intacta:
because when God created Eve, she waited patiently to b noticed by Adam..

kristina1:

It takes a great deal of boldness to disclose such,if at the end of the day,the feeling is not returned,the effect is going to be disastrous.

Intacta:
because when God created Eve, she waited patiently to b noticed by Adam..

kristina1:

Btw,what if they dnt return the feelings??

kristina1:
Because most guys are not matured enough to handle it,they will think you are desperate and cheap,some will even take you for granted.
Btw,what if they dnt return the feelings??

Tonydeeb:

Pishure or...

Zeemoor:
I have a friend who'd walk up to a guy and tell him she likes him if she truly does
I tried it twice but I dare not try it again
The first time wasn't a good experience
I ended up making a fool of myself
~
See, we were taught, right from birth to patiently wait for a man worthy of us
We were even told not to show it if we are really into a guy so as not to appear cheap
My mum's BP would have been over the roof if I told her I walked up to a guy

filani:

@ zeemor

I won't mince words to tell you that I give kudos to that your friend more than you!!!

Why? Because she's a 'go getter'. A wise man once said 'There are 3 kinds of people in this world. Those who make things happen, Those who watch things happen and Those who ask... What happened?'

Your friend is definitely in the first group. She is not waiting for a good thing to fall into her lap, she is grabbing it with both hands but you on the other hand......... Well, I reserve my comment

There is something about a girl who announces that she is waiting for a guy who is 'worthy' of her to come along, the question that always pops into my head is this 'When this guy that you feel is 'worthy' of you comes along .... What makes you think he will automatically believe that YOU are 'worthy' of HIM ?

Have you even thought about that?

filani:


@ kristina1

That's right... It takes a great deal of boldness to put your feelings out there to someone you care about and when that feeling is not returned it leaves a mark on your heart. This is something us guys know a lot about.

Most Gals will give all the excuses in the world about why they can't express themselves to guys they care about but the underlining truth is that they are COWARDS... This is not me bashing gals, this is me calling a spade a spade.

Think about it for a minute... An earlier poster said gals need to step up their game and your defence was the quote above.
You may not realize it but what you have implicitly said is 'It's ok for gals to cowards but at the same time demand that any guy who wants be with her must be BOLD'.
You also imply the following 'It's ok for guys to be subjected to the emotional pain of rejection time and time again but as a Gal i must be accepted automatically because I 'summoned' the liver to smile at a guy !!! If I as a Gal get 'rejected' once then that is proof that Gals should never,ever make the first move !!!

Can you see the double standard us guys are subjected to? What is good for the goose is also good for the gander!

Equal rights means Equal risks as well !!!

Intacta:
udonbilivit.. Wait lemme post them