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Well they don't need to breastfeed they can express the breastmilk into a bottle,you know.

Same thing!!!
The milk sags the breast not the suckling.

Exclusive breastfeeding here i come. 0-6 months. What a way to save money .

~Sauron~:

It is not an easy job and this is why women must go back to the basics and make their homes the first priority.

If i get married and start having kids
Everything else has to be secondary
Period!!!!!

chika98:

Raising a kid in this country no be beans ooh .

I pity alot of women esp the single mothers

DavidDylan:

lets be honest with ourselves. you wont be doing anything of the sort when the time comes.

Why not
I cant just sit and become idle doing nothing

chika98:

Raising a kid in this country no be beans ooh .

true but it can be done. Find a creche close to were u work . . . so u can see ur baby some 2-3 times while at work. Express milk into a bottle that the child can use during the day. Your husband can be more hands on when you both get back from work and you can get some rest.

tope2000:

Why not
I can't just sit and become idle doing nothing

we don hear this kain story before.
Oprah every day.

DavidDylan:

true but it can be done. Find a creche close to were u work . . . so u can see ur baby some 2-3 times while at work. Express milk into a bottle that the child can use during the day. Your husband can be more hands on when you both get back from work and you can get some rest.

Eh no easy. Mothers out there are strong biko. I cannot even imagine having a baby talkless of

Yeah having a helpful husband is a plus as well.

DavidDylan:

we don hear this kain story before.
Oprah every day.

Lol . . . . . . . .
I will prove u wrong

DavidDylan:

true but it can be done. Find a creche close to were u work . . . so u can see ur baby some 2-3 times while at work. Express milk into a bottle that the child can use during the day. Your husband can be more hands on when you both get back from work and you can get some rest.

Its is easy for you to say
I have watched my sis and her husband struggle with 3kids together, now my sis works part-time
You are just saying that because u r not in the position yet or maybe you have witness that kind of situation before
I witness it everyday

Tope: That is why we are allergic to broke remember?? Plus if he looks like the dude in my profile. . e no bad too shey?

tope2000:

Lol . . . . . . . .
I will prove u wrong

Amen . . . ask your husband not to buy Tivo for you.  

tope2000:

Its is easy for you to say
I have watched my sis and her husband struggle with 3kids together, now my sis works part-time
You are just saying that because u r not in the position yet or maybe you have witness that kind of situation before
I witness it everyday

Well to start with you need to make plans when it comes to having kids. Not just have a whole army all at once.
My uncle and aunt did something i will very much like to emulate - wait at least 1-2 yrs after marriage before having kids so you are well prepared for likely changes you will need to make to accomodate the extra job.
Have 1, dont have another until the first kid is at least old enough to take care of him/herself (i say 4-5 yrs old).

Have only 2 kids max.

chika98:

Tope: That is why we are allergic to broke remember?? Plus if he looks like the dude in my profile. . e no bad too shey?

Who is chocolate delight in ur profile, gimme his number
Babe i am allergic to broke negros abeg, i dont want them an inch near me

DavidDylan:

Amen . . . ask your husband not to buy Tivo for you.  

Well to start with you need to make plans when it comes to having kids. Not just have a whole army all at once.
My uncle and aunt did something i will very much like to emulate - wait at least 1-2 years after marriage before having kids so you are well prepared for likely changes you will need to make to accomodate the extra job.
Have 1, don't have another until the first kid is at least old enough to take care of him/herself (i say 4-5 years old).

Have only 2 kids max.

You have said it all. 2 kids is the MAX for me. I ain't pushing more than that. And at least 3yrs before popping them out.

tope2000:


Who is chocolate delight in ur profile, gimme his number
Babe i am allergic to broke negros abeg, i don't want them an inch near me

Go and wait in line! I mean the fineness is something else

DavidDylan:

Amen . . . ask your husband not to buy Tivo for you.  
Well to start with you need to make plans when it comes to having kids. Not just have a whole army all at once.
My uncle and aunt did something i will very much like to emulate - wait at least 1-2 years after marriage before having kids so you are well prepared for likely changes you will need to make to accomodate the extra job.
Have 1, don't have another until the first kid is at least old enough to take care of him/herself (i say 4-5 years old).

Have only 2 kids max.

Lol . . . .u r not serious
I absoutley agree but you gotta think of plan B, what if it doesnt work out like that
I dont want more than two kids anyways, i wud even prefer it if i had twins and that wud be it

chika98:

Go and wait in line! I mean the fineness is something else

For how long na

tope2000:


Who is chocolate delight in ur profile, gimme his number
Babe i am allergic to broke negros abeg, i don't want them an inch near me

we sef we dey allergic to housewives.

DavidDylan:

we sef we dey allergic to housewives.

Lol . . . .i am allergic to davids

tope2000:

For how long na

Until i have him FIRST!

chika98:

Until i have him FIRST!

Lmao . . . . . .
but seriously who is he

chika98:

Tope: That is why we are allergic to broke remember?? Plus if he looks like the dude in my profile. . e no bad too shey?

Chika, allergic to broke u say?? Hmmmmmmmm
Anyways, i am looking for a full house-wife. . . .If u know anyone interested, hit me up.

tope2000:

Lmao . . . . . .  
but seriously who is he

Don't worry. U will find out soonest

~Sauron~:

Chika, allergic to broke u say?? Hmmmmmmmm
Anyways, i am looking for a full house-wife. . . .If u know anyone interested, hit me up.

Yes ooh . Suffer head no dey worry me. Plus he gotta be drop dead handsome too. I ain't asking for too much now am I?

tope2000:

Lol . . . .i am allergic to davids

i pity you. You dey allergic to fine rich men?  
i reject it for you in Jesus name.

DavidDylan:

i pity you. You dey allergic to fine rich men?
i reject it for you in Jesus name.

*DEAD*
Amen

chika98:

Don't worry. U will find out soonest

I op that wont be when u start flashing ur DIAMOND RING

tope2000:

*DEAD*
Amen

I op that wont be when u start flashing ur[b] DIAMOND RING[/b]

Amin Jesu!

chika98:

Yes ooh . Suffer head no dey worry me. Plus he gotta be drop dead handsome too. I ain't asking for too much now am I?

Of course, u ain't asking for too much. . . . .
U haven't said anything about his height, his abs and potency, have you??
If every woman out there can be like you, the world will be a better place to live in.

chika98:

Amin Jesu!

Lmao . . .  . . . . Who no want better thing
[size=4pt]Is he ur man?[/size]

tope2000:

Lmao . . .  . . . . Who no want better thing
[size=4pt]Is he ur man?[/size]

THis girl wan put me for trouble.

~Sauron~:

Of course, u ain't asking for too much. . . . .
U haven't said anything about his height, his abs and potency, have you??
If every woman out there can be like you, the world will be a better place to live in.

I know. Just take a lot at my profile. If he looks and dresses like that. Then the world will be even 10 times better He doesn't need to do anything else. I would wake up every morning just to see his face.

chika98:

THis girl wan put me for trouble.
I know. Just take a lot at my profile. If he looks and dresses like that. Then the world will be even 10 times better He doesn't need to do anything else. I would wake up every morning just to see his face.

Which kain trouble, Abeg claim the Guy
He is urs now and forever more

I am also a sucker for a guy with a great dress sense and smells like ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh . . . . . . 

chika98:

I know. Just take a lot at my profile. If he looks and dresses like that. Then the world will be even 10 times better He doesn't need to do anything else. I would wake up every morning just to see his face.

There are over 50 NL members as good-looking as the guy in your profile.
What do u take this forum for??
Go to the celebrity thread and see classic blokes.

Chika nothing for the guy jare . . .  

~Sauron~:

There are over 50 NL members as good-looking as the guy in your profile.
What do u take this forum for??
Go to the celebrity thread and see classic blokes.

Yeah . . . . . .
Name 3

I went to look thinking the guy would blow me out of the water . . .

JEALOUSY full ground ooh. Awon NL guys fine like that for where?? I never see am ooh.

Tope: U have no idea

DavidDylan:

I went to look thinking the guy would blow me out of the water . . .

David, if u were ugly now i'd have said u were jealous