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Re: I by Nobody: 7:06pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
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Re: I by LewisO: 7:10pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
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Re: I by Nobody: 10:36pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
@O P, The problem is that you can never tell which guys REALLY care about you and which ones just want to be able to say they slept with a virgin. Which is why I’d advise you to keep your mouth shut. Yes, there are men who might be turned off by your lack of experience. But there are also men who might be turned on by it. The best way I see you dealing with this issue is not to make it an issue at all. Go out with men, let them chase you, let them flirt with you, let them kiss you, let them touch you. You can probably go out on a good three or four dates before you actually have to have the “sex” conversation. And at that time, just be honest. Mostly. “I didn’t want to freak you out or make a big deal out of this, but I only want to have sex with someone that I’m in a committed relationship with. For instance, if i am really attracted to you, but until u're sure that we’re going to be boyfriend/ girlfriend, u have to keep saying no. How do you feel about that?” From here, you can gauge if he’s serious about YOU or about SEX, and you don’t even have to “out” yourself as a virgin. If he makes it clear that he wants to be in a relationship with you, you can decide if you like him and trust him enough to be your “first”. And if so, THEN you can tell him that you’ve never had sex before. And if I’m reading this wrong – if you NEVER plan to have sex outside marriage – this is something that can be brought up once the conversation arises organically. The same way that I might really want to have kids, but won’t start discussing baby names on the first date. Good luck finding a guy who makes that first time worthwhile! ONE LOVE ! ! ! 1 Like |
Re: I by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jan 01, 2015 |
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Re: I by cyborg123(m): 10:19am On Aug 11, 2017 |
If you want to, you can. I don't see anything wrong with that. A responsible guy will respond with utmost respect. |
Re: I by izmercy(m): 10:54am On Aug 11, 2017 |
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