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Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by LilNetty(m): 7:26pm On Dec 22, 2014
Hi Nairalander!
Can You Continue Dating your Spouse After you Caught Him/her cheating on you?
Drop Your comment
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by Sunkyphil(m): 7:27pm On Dec 22, 2014
it depends
btw:has he cheated on u
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by honfarouk(m): 7:29pm On Dec 22, 2014
Yes.. done that before
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by Nobody: 7:32pm On Dec 22, 2014
Depends.
If the cheating is big, then no no!
But if its small, then i will forgive(after all everybody deserves a second chance right?) but i wont be able to trust him completelysad
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by folawiyoma(m): 7:37pm On Dec 22, 2014
LilNetty:
Hi Nairalander!
Can You Continue Dating your Spouse After you Caught Him/her cheating on you?
Drop Your comment






You mean caught in the act?

If its that, I will say hell no bc the style he was giving her will always be in my head.lkwd.
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by major466(m): 7:39pm On Dec 22, 2014
What a tough question.
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by Mynd44: 7:57pm On Dec 22, 2014
Unfortunately, cheating is a deal breaker for me. I wont continue, I don't expect her to continue with me if I cheat too
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by Nobody: 8:02pm On Dec 22, 2014
I wl give him benefit of doubt.
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by jmoore(m): 8:10pm On Dec 22, 2014
Dating a spouse? Spouse is for married folks. Why are they dating after wedding?
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by Begonia(m): 8:49pm On Dec 22, 2014
@OP; rephrase your question. It's not possible to date a spouse.
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by chimerase2: 8:51pm On Dec 22, 2014
Yes I forgave her
Cus I luv her can't afford to loose her
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by Abbey2sam(m): 10:11pm On Dec 22, 2014
As a lady if you will break up with your boyfriend each time he cheat .......


Nah Your toto go suffer am
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by omoelu1(m): 11:41pm On Dec 22, 2014
I don't think I can continue such, cause I see no reason why I should be faithful and Fidel and not get same in return.
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by jahbiz: 12:03am On Dec 23, 2014
I always reserve these types in case I need to do away with some overload milk in me.

Anyway who doesn't cheat in one way or the other?

Let him/her cast the first stone...
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by 1one: 12:36am On Dec 23, 2014
No.
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by Les: 12:48am On Dec 23, 2014
Yes, but I won't when my spouse keep lying to me, my reaction will be on reflex and I won't regret because I. Hate lies with passion!!
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by mesoade(m): 3:18am On Dec 23, 2014
EroticAngelina:
Depends.
If the cheating is big, then no no!
But if its small, then i will forgive(after all everybody deserves a second chance right?) but i wont be able to trust him completelysad
if everybody deserves a 2nd chance,why do you have to consider whether it's big or small?
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by mesoade(m): 3:23am On Dec 23, 2014
chimerase2:
Yes I forgave her
Cus I luv her can't afford to loose her
you're forcing yourself on her . . If she loves and respects you,will she cheat on you?? . . Cos if a gal genuinely love a guy ,there's no guy dat can be more better than him,she's take satisfaction in ur 4inches
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by Truckpusher(m): 3:33am On Dec 23, 2014
EroticAngelina:
Depends.
If the cheating is big, then no no!
But if its small, then i will forgive(after all everybody deserves a second chance right?) but i wont be able to trust him completelysad
What qualifies a cheating to be either big or small?
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by Truckpusher(m): 3:35am On Dec 23, 2014
LilNetty:
Hi Nairalander!
Can You Continue Dating your Spouse After you Caught Him/her cheating on you?
Drop Your comment
Do not forgive a cheat ,they'll always cheat.

Instead they would become more sophisticated which would give you extra job if you want to catch them.

Flee from a cheating partner before you end up with an itchy puccy. grin
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by ipleddge: 3:43am On Dec 23, 2014
kristina1:
I wl give him benefit of doubt.
Lie lie...I trust naija girls
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by Jamean(f): 5:25am On Dec 23, 2014
Trust issues!

For me that will be like passing a Camel through a needle's eye. I just pray it doesn't happen. 'Cause I won't cheat on you, so...
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by pawn89(m): 5:58am On Dec 23, 2014
a certain number of us would instantly opt for an answer, but personally, I am sure to know what to do when the situation arises, any other thing to me is just speculation.


PS:
This again is just my opinion...
I know yea... Opinions are like ass_holes everybody has one!
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by Adaeze003(f): 6:31am On Dec 23, 2014
Errm... No.

Date a spouse? Lol...
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by Nobody: 6:39am On Dec 23, 2014
mesoade:
if everybody deserves a 2nd chance,why do you have to consider whether it's big or small?
cos there are just some bad deeds that are so unforgivable! e.g if ur wife/gf kills ur lil bro, will u give her a 2nd chance or even find d heart to forgive her? i doubt.
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by Nobody: 6:41am On Dec 23, 2014
Truckpusher:
What qualifies a cheating to be either big or small?
it depends. What i c as big cheating, myt luk small to u.
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by ideology(m): 6:45am On Dec 23, 2014
Hmmm …
We will talk over it and ensure it doesn't happen again and I will cry o o for a week
but Will forgive her.

I love my wife, it is a choice, my choice

But I sure do know my wife is a responsible lady. She will not do it.
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by Dannylux: 7:12am On Dec 23, 2014
It depends. Does she still have feelings for whoever she cheated me with? To me that's what matters.

If the love she has for me is divided, then, I'll have to call it off. I can't live with that.
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by Fizboy(m): 7:16am On Dec 23, 2014
NO!
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by Nobody: 7:26am On Dec 23, 2014
NO!!!

Edit: Only if it's a lady I ain't legally married to.
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by ShirelleBaby: 7:51am On Dec 23, 2014
NO
I can never tolerate a cheating partner.
If I can be faithful,y can't he?
Re: Can You Continue Dating Your Spouse After You Caught Him/her Cheating On You? by freezyprinzy(m): 7:54am On Dec 23, 2014
[s][/not even if she's dangote daughter]

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