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Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by Joel3(m): 11:10am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Ruq:I am not sayin one should stay back without working hard or doing anything. But they are limit to issue. The world you sees today has already happened. You need to be spiritual enough. |
Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by Ruq: 11:28am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Joel3: If the world we are in has already happened, then our existence is an illusion were we think we control our lives. It just doesn't add up. If I go by that same thought of the world I live in as a replay, I wouldn't stress myself half bit. |
Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by Joel3(m): 11:34am On Dec 27, 2014 |
Ruq:check the account of your lord Jesus. When he was on earth He has no control over is life. But he live to fulfill the account that nature has for him. Everything about him has already happened before he came to earth and the account of his disciples as well. An example is that. now How I wish you have power to see future. you will know or understand what I am talking about. |
Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by Adecephas(m): 1:26pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
I'm sure you're not where you were at the beginning of the year and i want you to know that you can still achieve your goals regardless of your age. There is such a thing as restoration. God has a way of restoring His own. Try to measure success from God's standpoint and not what you see on social media as we all have different paths to thread on in the fulfillment of our destinies. Keep up the faith, do the planting and watering and watch God give the superb increase. |
Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by Etetejake(m): 1:37pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Joel3: U nearly convinced me until u said everything where designed to be the way they are. I have some questions for u 1 If everything ar designed to b the way the ar y is God always angry with his ppl weneva d sin against Him if He designed us to make that mistake? 2 y shouldn't I b agry with God for designing(making) me loose my dad Your advise is misleading. it is just like asking me not to run when been pursued by a mad man with a knife. It's telling me not to struggle to b somebody but to wait on fate to make me whatever I was designed to b. Ar u saying Jonathan wether education or no education he must become a president bkx Destiny said so? The main question now is "what is the gain of playing a match whose score has already been known? Life is nothing without struggling for something. If u wait on anything to make something out of u then u ar as good as nothing. The dreams we have are who we really are but we can't get there without first trying to scale thruogh. without firsttrying to prove we deserve to b there. A lot of ppl have die with there destiny not bkx it was designed to b but bkx maybe they choose the wrong way, they couldn't have patience,they were at the wrong place ay the wrong time or bkx the dark one knows that their destiny may bring about his failure. There are countless forces fighting against our destiny and that is y we can't achieve so easily. The greater the. destiny the greater the evil forces. I dream to b somewhere tomorrow and i know I will b there if only I hold patience my side, I keep beeng loyal to God and daily improving and filling myself with determination.lastly, not loosing hope and knowing that some discouragments are ment to scare u away from your set goals. Just know this. thw devil never want us to achieve anything no matter ho small. And that u can't gain anything from God without proving how faithful u are to Him. Jesus suffered pains that we. may blv. So u will pass thru lota pain that u may receive. |
Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by Etetejake(m): 1:49pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
red101: It is got to compare. Healthy comparison help motivates u. every disappointment is a blxn. the fear of failure made many to be successful. It takes a successful man to make another. When I was in secondary school, it is only the fear to make a second position that helped me hold on to first till I was out of secondary school. I took extra measures to achieve that. So my friend, move on and never loose hope. we will all get there. Just blv in God, yourself and your dreams. Know this, that all this our successful men and women don't have two heads just that the height they attain wasn't by a sudden flight but by blv in what will make their dreams come true. in themselves and God. It is never easy to b somebady and anything that come easy is nothing bkx even a blind man can get it. much luv. 1 Like |
Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by Nobody: 6:52pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
This time last year,I had this year scripted out. But here I'm in a totally different situation. Most of my thoughts and wishes blacked out. But today,this hour,I am thankful for any condition. Again this year,this day,I tried proposing how next year would be. But I gave up because whatever I propose would not be if it is'nt meant to be. My fingers are crossed. The remaining of 2014 numbered. Waiting for next year, so I can just sit and watch events unfold themselves. THE LORD BE OUR STRENGTH. |
Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by Nobody: 7:25pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Veralaw: This has inspired my last for the year. |
Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by Nobody: 7:55pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Scrypt: Danke ![]() Dance and sing, Rejoice and swing. There's more to be greatful for, It wasn't like this before. If what I wish for didn't come,then it's not because I didn't deserve it,but because I deserved better and that's why his thoughts are of good and not otherwise.. Like you would say,cheers. |
Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by ohaleoghene(f): 8:18pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
going through the thread,I weep. well I am not where I have always wished to be,but I thank God...my case is different, i made a silly mistake,is like starting all over. I have faith still that I will be that person I want to be. I have my head up high,taking risk and asking Jesus to drive! even when we trust God, we still have to plan and only hope ...God is still in the business of changing lives,and mine definitely will be great. nairalanders,pray for me. 1 Like |
Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by red101(f): 10:41pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Veralaw: Yes, my dear.. in fact, one of the reasons i made this topic is because i recently made a career/financial/academic goal plan for 2015-2017. in reflecting on this plan, i just suddenly became a bit depressed and anxious knowing that there is a chance that my plans will not come to fruition especially since where i am today is not where i had planned few yrs ago but i can't afford to just sit and watch. i have to try my best to follow through with my plans, stay prayerful and come up with a plan B just in case plan A doesn't work perfectly. i have received a lot of encouragement from you guys and i'm sure we are all encouraging each other. |
Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by addictiv(m): 10:46pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Joel3:Why aim for first lady when she can be the president. If she sets her mind to it. And diligently work towards her goal by taking consistent daily action. There is nothing that would stop her, even the almighty would crown her efforts. We tend to underestimate ourselves and our capabilities. All you need to succeed is unwavering belief that you can be successful backed up with a plan and consistent action towards achieving your dream. 2 Likes |
Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by red101(f): 10:46pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
Etetejake: hmm...true words. i remember we used to recite that saying every morning many years ago in primary school: "the height that great men reached and kept were not attained by sudden flight but they, while their companions slept, were toiling upwards in the night." i didn't even know what it really meant back then. so much inspiration and encouragement on this thread. i just feel rejuvinated. |
Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by kelvinmuffins3(m): 10:56pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
It is not how far but how well. Op! We human are meant to have difficult times and nobody as ever had a smooth journey to success or to life. Believe in yourself and all you want will come to pass even if it takes much time to accomplish it. Faith is all you need to get higher in life with great wings. 1 Like |
Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by Nobody: 11:06pm On Dec 27, 2014 |
At age 25 I had achieved none of my life goals instead I was: 1. Diagnosed with a terminal disease ( I survived) 2. I was earning less than N20,000 ( the season passed) 3. My long term relationship was falling to pieces before my very eyes ( It was for the best) I was depressed and felt hopeless. My mates were getting on well, most had bank jobs, I chose to be a poor social worker. Most were getting married and having kids, I couldnt even understand why a relations I had nutured which everyone including I assumed would end in a fairy tale was becoming a nightmare Career wise I was stagnant I was hurt, pained and cried to God " Have I offended you God? Have I not done all you asked me to do?" "I make mistakes but am I the worst sinner?" God must have been laughing at me then because he knew what he was doing with my life through these challenges. Things didnt even pick up till years later, when ever I tried to give up God will carry me through somehow. More broken relationships, more difficult financial moments, reoccuring illneSs but God has turned my ashes to beauty today. Through my pain I have learned uncountable life lessons, I have learned God made me strong and didnt make me to break, If none of that could break me NOTHING CAN OR WILL. Life is not a 100 meters dash, sometimes you are ahead sometimes you are behind, focus on your own race never loose track. Be honest, be diligent, if you are religious trust God and not man, Man even so called men of God may decieve and fail you, study your bible or Quaran by yourself, meditate on it. The finest gold goes through the hottest fire 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by Nobody: 6:37am On Dec 28, 2014 |
Like someone said - I just live. It's okay to live, to just be. It's okay to feel joy and feel hurt, to be fully present in both. It's okay to have dreams and expectations that have died or waned prematurely. It's okay to succeed and fail, to rise and fall. It's okay. My humanity, My Divinity. They go hand in hand. I may not have it all. I may feel like I'm missing out on so many things, but I'll keep on anyway. His sovereign hand always guides, even where my feet may fail. |
Re: Guys And Ladies In Your Mid To Late 20s. by MOG6670(m): 7:27pm On Apr 04 |
Yes I know and I'm praying for a better 2015.well! It's about 9yrs now, how is the journey so far? |
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