@delishpot, it amazes me how much confidence some people have when typing rubbish.

Chai! since I join nairaland 4d first time wer I md it 2 FP.......na die I dey...ooo, smile n laugh 1 burst my cheek....oooo, dancin shoki since 1840 AD

delishpot:
Many Naija men, dont sexually satisfy their wives. Unfortunately many men believe that women can cope without sex and society dictates such.
In naija marriages where they have sex 2ce in a month or less, its the woman that is really the sex starved partner cos if you look well, many men get more than enough from their babes then return home tired and not in the mood for more action so the wife is left hanging.

u r right dear

dnt xpect me to read all dose stuff cos Its 2 lenghy n I mbmt in d mood. plx anoda post!!!!!★★★★★★★★

I understand he knows more about sex...must be an authority from his experience..but will it not be better if men or people of God stick more to spiritual things

4 all of u routing 4d coup plotting, semi illiterate, vengeanc laden, double faced, terrorist Pa Buhari, pls ask urself; assuming younger brother or sister was killed in '11 elections, would u stil support d same mastermind of d murder, Pa Bokohhari?

FrancisTony:
Sex! Sex!!! Sex!!!

This shìt is OVERATED.

It's not just the sex. It's the intimacy that comes with it. Not screwing your wife is a sin

FrancisTony:
Sex! Sex!!! Sex!!!

This shìt is OVERATED.

Thats becos you dont know SHIIT about it

Make him write about the biggest problem in Nigeria - CORRUPTION and not SEX.

Nice one OP
So some people only mash 111 out of 300 something days Chai!!
Speaking to my married Sisters these tips will keep the fire hot!

Make sure you stay in shape and fresh. Working out will boost your drive and gives you energy to perform wonders and miracles.
Send him sexy provocative photos during the day to keep you on his mind.
Read books and explore to learn new tricks and techniques they have some cool literature from India.
These and more can be utilized to keep your man mesmerized and your life pleasurable because honestly we all know is nothing like an ultimate heavenly feeling

This shit is really overrated, i just finished having sex with a stranger i met on facebook now, that's hw i concluded 2014, the girl is gone and i'm here regretting cheating on my fiancée. Everything about SE x is bullshit unless is coming from a legal union called marriage.

Nice.

delishpot:
Many Naija men, dont sexually satisfy their wives. Unfortunately many men believe that women can cope without sex and society dictates such.
In naija marriages where they have sex 2ce in a month or less, its the woman that is really the sex starved partner cos if you look well, many men get more than enough from their babes then return home tired and not in the mood for more action so the wife is left hanging.

have a friend the husband hasn't touched in 4 yrs . Kept complaining about stress, she tried everything all kinds of seduction but the guys dick will never stand . At a point she thought d guy was gay and just used her until she discovered a series of messages and packs of magnum condons .some empty packets n some still sealed na when she know say she has been fooled . The guy starved the girl , still didn't let her hang out d friends but wAs busy helping other lady scratch their itch. The lady now has a boyfriend n I don't blame her .

onadana:
I understand he knows more about sex...must be an authority from his experience..but will it not be better if men or people of God stick more to spiritual things

Sex was created by God , there's no one better to teach people about Gods purpose for sex and help to address sexual problems in marriages than a Pastor. He is giving his advise based on Godly wisdom which is far better than the sexual immorality that the world teaches. Sex is a big factor in a marriage and it is one if the biggest reasons why marriages unfortunately crash so yet it is important for our a pastors to address the issue and advise married couples.

biafranqueen:
Nice one OP
So some people only mash 111 out of 300 something days Chai!!
Speaking to my married Sisters these tips will keep the fire hot!

Make sure you stay in shape and fresh. Working out will boost your drive and gives you energy to perform wonders and miracles.
Send him sexy provocative photos during the day to keep you on his mind.
Read books and explore to learn new tricks and techniques they have some cool literature from India.
These and more can be utilized to keep your man mesmerized and your life pleasurable because honestly we all know is nothing like an ultimate heavenly feeling story ! If you like hand on the moon n do him , if he is tired he is tired

story for the gods ! If you like hang on the moon , if he is tired he is tired

devour129:
have a friend the husband hasn't touched in 4 yrs . Kept complaining about stress, she tried everything all kinds of seduction but the guys dick will never stand . At a point she thought d guy was gay and just used her until she discovered a series of messages and packs of magnum condons .some empty packets n some still sealed na when she know say she has been fooled . The guy starved the girl , still didn't let her hang out d friends but wAs busy helping other lady scratch their itch. The lady now has a boyfriend n I don't blame her .

Na so some of them lives be. Even on nairaland, most men claim to be banging women outside their marriages. Tell me what energy they have left to bang their wives? Wife expects 3 rounds oga does 1 cos he already did 2 with his mistress some hours ago They will be happy to face the wall as soon as the wife does small shakara for them.

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bamidele029:


Sex was created by God , there's no one better to teach people about Gods purpose for sex and help to address sexual problems in marriages than a Pastor. He is giving his advise based on Godly wisdom which is far better than the sexual immorality that the world teaches. Sex is a big factor in a marriage and it is one if the biggest reasons why marriages unfortunately crash so yet it is important for our a pastors to address the issue and advise married couples.

I agree with you.

chidooh1:
This shit is really overrated, i just finished having sex with a stranger i met on facebook now, that's hw i concluded 2014, the girl is gone and i'm here regretting cheating on my fiancée. Everything about SE x is bullshit unless is coming from a legal union called marriage.

Chei brossss, na so you want take thank God for this year wey you don nearly end so?

FrancisTony:
Sex! Sex!!! Sex!!!

This shìt is OVERATED.

sorry for u guy

delishpot:


Na so some of them lives be. Even on nairaland, most men claim to be banging women outside their marriages. Tell me what energy they have left to bang their wives? Wife expects 3 rounds oga does 1 cos he already did 2 with his mistress some hours ago They will be happy to face the wall as soon as the wife does small shakara for them.

you are so funny and so right . Av had a little counsel with a lot of ladies and believe most problems faced in marriages can traced back to sex and most times lack of it. Most ladies have given up , now they have made up their minds to find it whenever it presents itself . And women can do worse , they will go ten rounds with boyfriend n give hubby 15 rounds that way he never suspects . In the north they have some things these Hausa ladies mix for them to drink , it can keep a lady wet the whole . Giving men tips now , Bleep your wives ooooooooo and she will feel you have only eyes for her , don't n she will think you have someone outside and if she gives up on you then you are just living with a rattle snake

Nice post

I will love my wife to death. No cheating

SEX! Oh what a fun play! I like SEX

delishpot:
Many Naija men, dont sexually satisfy their wives. Unfortunately many men believe that women can cope without sex and society dictates such.
In naija marriages where they have sex 2ce in a month or less, its the woman that is really the sex starved partner cos if you look well, many men get more than enough from their babes then return home tired and not in the mood for more action so the wife is left hanging.

many Wife avoid sex because of flenzy excuse .some so shy to initiate sex.some when man initiate it they don’t contribute, just ly down like bag of akpu. little offence they suspend sex activity. a woman complained that for two months her husband has not her, i ask her have try touch him?.her said no. sometimes man may not be in mood you can arouse him.

The percentage of cheating husband to wives is closing. I know married men sleeping with other married women and finding it hard to sleep with their own wives. Sex in marriages is so important. Men with 4 or more wives can't satisfy all the women and so they are forced to look outside. I have been approached severally by married women. One rich one in Lekki even offered me 2million naira and said I could repay her anytime. I turned it down cos am not doing badly at all. Makes half of that every month. It a crazy world out there. God help us all with our various decisions.

uprightman:
many Wife avoid sex because of flenzy excuse .some so shy to initiate sex.some when man initiate it they don’t contribute, just ly down like bag of akpu. little offence they suspend sex activity. a woman complained that for two months her husband has not her, i ask her have try touch him?.her said no. sometimes man may not be in mood you can arouse him.

Yes. I guess women have roles to play too. If the man is okay with them making the frst move, then they should.
I understand that many women want to maintane the shy disposition they had towards sex when they were dating their men. I think naija men are too judgemental towards women that is why the women are ashamed to transform from the shy/ avoiding sex woman to a sex demanding wife. Many men will start saying ahhh women can pretend o. My woman was always forced to have sex before now shevis always demanding it. That means she was not telling the truth before.
Most sexless marriages are the ones between quiet girls who were kinda preserving their morality those ones that did not enjoy indulging in pre marital sex but did it just to please their men( there are plenty of girls like this) when they finnaly marry the guys, they become too shy to innitiate sex and the guy may wonder how she became someone that demands sex.
Some women view sex as an act done when they want babies only and so avoid it once they have had kids.
Some cant stand the mans tempo in bed.
All in all sha, they have to call a meeting and talk things over.

delishpot:
Many Naija men, dont sexually satisfy their wives.

truth!!..very true..infact,a lot naija men are selfish and do not care about how their patners feel about the poor s.ex they give them.

delishpot:

Unfortunately many men believe that women can cope without sex and society dictates such.

here,you won't blame the society and men who believes that way.
Naija women pretends a lot and that's the problem..a naija woman who is married to a man that doesn't satisfy her will always pretend as if all is well and the husband will think he's doing a great job..but most of these women will be having affairs outside their marraige to seek se.xual satisfaction..instead of them to siyt and discuss with their hubbies on how to make things work...but because of their pretences,many men will think women are actually ok without s.ex.some men will travel and live far away from their wives for months/yrs and still believe that their wives are coping without knowing another man is doing the job back home.

delishpot:


In naija marriages where they have sex 2ce in a month or less, its the woman that is really the sex starved partner cos if you look well, many men get more than enough from their babes then return home tired and not in the mood for more action so the wife is left hanging.

this is still because women doesn't let the truth come out!
If your hubby isn't doint a good job,why don't you complain?..but many will rather keep mute..
And who told you the wife is left hanging? Because that's what she told you?..a lot of them has a man they are seeing too,but they won't talk truth cos of the problem it may lead to...they'll just keep pretending all is well but that's because they have an alternative.

chibic:
truth!!..very true..infact,a lot naija men are selfish and do not care about how their patners feel about the poor s.ex they give them.


here,you won't blame the society and men who believes that way.
Naija women pretends a lot and that's the problem..a naija woman who is married to a man that doesn't satisfy her will always pretend as if all is well and the husband will think he's doing a great job..but most of these women will be having affairs outside their marraige to seek se.xual satisfaction..instead of them to siyt and discuss with their hubbies on how to make things work...but because of their pretences,many men will think women are actually ok without s.ex.some men will travel and live far away from their wives for months/yrs and still believe that their wives are coping without knowing another man is doing the job back home.

this is still because women doesn't let the truth come out!
If your hubby isn't doint a good job,why don't you complain?..but many will rather keep mute..
And who told you the wife is left hanging? Because that's what she told you?..a lot of them has a man they are seeing too,but they won't talk truth cos of the problem it may lead to...they'll just keep pretending all is well but that's because they have an alternative.

True talk. I think a lot of them had to pretend about sex while they were dating and after the marriage, they cant come out clean as people who love sex.

devour129:
The lady now has a boyfriend n I don't blame her .

Now this is what I'm talking about!...and how old is this boyfriend? Cos I believe that the worst thing a man can do to himself is to be used by a married woman as a se.x machine..well,most times,these guys are jobless and men with low self esteem.

devour129:
you are so funny and so right . Av had a little counsel with a lot of ladies and believe most problems faced in marriages can traced back to sex and most times lack of it. Most ladies have given up , now they have made up their minds to find it whenever it presents itself . And women can do worse , they will go ten rounds with boyfriend n give hubby 15 rounds that way he never suspects . In the north they have some things these Hausa ladies mix for them to drink , it can keep a lady wet the whole . Giving men tips now , Bleep your wives ooooooooo and she will feel you have only eyes for her , don't n she will think you have someone outside and if she gives up on you then you are just living with a rattle snake

giving men tips doesn't count!!...you think lack of s.ex is the only thing that will make a woman sleep around?..what if the hubby is not that rich and she meets a rich man who is ready to spend on her juust to lay her?..a hoe is a hoe!!...she may bang her colleagues,boss etc...a man whose wife will never sleep around is a man that is married to a born again or a woman with strong self control and a woman who is not a s.ex freak..because,if not one of these,even if hubby satisfy her se.xually..by the time he travels for a weak/month, she will ffuck the gateman,driver etc..

I know a girl whose bf ffucks properly,the guy is a s.ex freak and he gives it to her everyday...but she still sneak out once ina while to ffuck another guy..abegi,no excuse is enough to commit adultery but the problem with naija women is that they don't open up..they keep pretending while they are sleeping around too and putting the blames on men..
As for your friends that do it,its a matter of time before they'lll be caught and sent home.nobody will want to hear the reason why they did it..another woman will gladly take her place..then who lost?

devour129:

they will go ten rounds with boyfriend n give hubby 15 rounds that way he never suspects .

if a woman can give the hubby 15rounds..smh..why the complain on lack of s.ex?..

Ologunjude:
The percentage of cheating husband to wives is closing. I know married men sleeping with other married women and finding it hard to sleep with their own wives. Sex in marriages is so important. Men with 4 or more wives can't satisfy all the women and so they are forced to look outside. I have been approached severally by married women. One rich one in Lekki even offered me 2million naira and said I could repay her anytime. I turned it down cos am not doing badly at all. Makes half of that every month. It a crazy world out there. God help us all with our various decisions.

The world has gone mad