Child abuse has become like a norm in Nigeria.2 out of every 5 children has been subjected to abuse. And the government needs to stand up and implement harsh laws and capital punishment to people caught in the act of child abuse or soliciting child pornography.

(To Ngozi)... Nooooo! Don't touch me there! #my pocket is off limit.

Nice one but I think we also need a book on dressing code, bcoz the girls are dressing now, hmm...

Many... So many things happening in the world today.

A thread was opened here two days ago speaking about how a paedophile molested a 6 year old child or so from Enugu ...A lot of people here were putting the blame on the paedophile, I quickly said: I BLAME THE PARENTS.

Most parents are ignorant about this.
They go about their jobs and leave their children at the mercy of neighbors, even with relatives is risky- They must protect THE GIRL CHILD.

It's not just I cover my child with the blood of Jesus. Nah!
Cover her also with Knowledge!

All those male and female home lesson teachers, watch out!

All those house girls and house boys, WATCH OUT!

All those neighbour's children, watch out!

Many learned mothers are just ignorant in this aspect. They watch home videos all day and despise to seek what their teenage daughter is going through. She wants to talk to mummy, but she's busy then she goes to talk a boy who in turn defile her. #deep sigh #


# PROTECT THE GIRL CHILD#

I recommend this book by the OP.

Highly educative...

I wish these can be inculcated in our primary school curriculum to by Guidance and counselling teachers to create early awareness....

I would kill any muda fvvcka who tries dat with my sister let alone my daughter...

Timely piece of information for this time.

Don't forget dangers of early exposure. In Russia Putin made it illegal for adults teaching younger ones dangers in homosexuality, he doesn't even want kids knowing homosexuality exists.

This raging paedophile menace is one reason i dont wanna have female children o

Abbey2sam:
I was abused when i was like 9....and the memory is still there



nice one op

Its alright dear..get past it OK.my bestfriend was abused by her brother's friend at age 7..the guy died 6months after he was hit by a bus when he got drunk..it will b fine

This is the type of post that will benefit us all not the useless post like " TONTO DIKE and INI EDO who rocked the dress better "

I was a victim, and the memories then left me, at by age I have Neva had a serious relationship, I kept fleeing. I guess its tym to speak up.

But why is this directed towards female kids alone, does that mean male kid don't get molested? Pls, stop this double standard and educate your male kids about sex!

Interesting read

Medinat20:

Its alright dear..get past it OK.my bestfriend was abused by her brother's friend at age 7..the guy died 6months after he was hit by a bus when he got drunk..it will b fine

thanks

This is wht Nigerians hardly do. Thanks for dis gr8t write up. I wil tell my younger n teach my kids when I get 1.

Homar:
This is the type of post that will benefit us all not the useless post like " TONTO DIKE and INI EDO who rocked the dress better "

Sometimes I wonder what people really gain from those topics?

tbaba1234:
This is a very important piece, sexual education must start early and moved up as kids age.

Parents must create an atmosphere that makes kids comfortable and able to communicate with them. Parents must actively listen to their children and must not be dismissive of their statements.

When I was much younger, one of my ex neighbour used to 'touch' his house maid in public areas when he thought the coast was clear. She was like 10-13 and just developing. He was caught a few times. This man was married.

Mothers have an important role to play because they are usually closer to the kids.

Fathers can be close to. (CAN)

This is inspiring..

Karleb:
But why is this directed towards female kids alone, does that mean male kid don't get molested? Pls, stop this double standard and educate your male kids about sex!

No sir. The book is directed at both. Even on the book cover, there are pictures of a male and a female child.

You will notice that the OP even started her introduction with the story of a male child protecting his privates.

Male children get molested too.
Ayamlaykorn

very good piece i must say, shout ot the op and famnily secction have gotten some tips that would help me be a good husband and Daddy when the time comes

there is this dark short swimming instructor at Rita-Lori surulere who is of the habit of fondl.ing girls in the pool, regardless of the age.
he tried it recently with my little sister of about 16 yrs old, i did not know until we got home and she told me that's why she left the water permanently. I wish she had told me right there and she would have been the last girl he would ever touch.
cant remember his name

nice 1, gr8 info. Everyone needs to be on Nairaland because information is power.

so parents didn't know all that before this book?


the only way for these abuses to reduce is for victims to speak out .period

slightlyMad:
there is this dark short swimming instructor at Rita-Lori surulere who is of the habit of fondl.ing girls in the pool, regardless of the age.
he tried it recently with my little sister of about 16 yrs old, i did not know until we got home and she told me that's why she left the water permanently. I wish she had told me right there and she would have been the last girl he would ever touch.
cant remember his name

If you're sure it's his habit, people need to take action against him. Report him to the people that employed him please. Please do something about it.
Ayamlaykorn

laykorn:

If you're sure it's his habit, people need to take action against him. Report him to the people that employed him please. Please do something about it.
Ayamlaykorn

i will create time to visit the place with a crazy friend. and watch what happens

So the time i spent reading this, about a hundred persons have commented already
Lordmykel ar you a learner?


mostly male abusing female, the girl child is always at risk.
Thank God i'm male.

And to all the male with female monikers on Nairaland and a fake (f) beside his name should be careful,
he could be abused

Now i know almost every female has been abused. Once again i thank God i'm male.

About 90% of boys/man (male) who comment on this thread have abused someone sexually in one way or the other.

Thank God I'm a shy boy, i dont even have the courage to approach a girl. Atleast this is the only sin i have not commited for now.

Who knows tomorrow?

Please. Don't. Stop. That's the real thing

Abused @ 8, by d son of d person i was staying with, reported 2 d mum who says nothing dan 2 keep queit abt it,nd adding dats her son is old enough 2 get sumone impregnanted, imagine ooo.... Relations cant even be trusted @ all, even uncles, dnt allow ur child sit on dere laps be careful

I love this piece. Let's protect the coming generation as we weren't protected

Beautiful! This is very insightful, I wish illiterates mothers could get to read this. Child abuse is a menace to our society.

Rem den 2 in my sec days, girls dats has breast were abused by our den bussiness teacher of j1, he will call u nd asked wats is in ur breast pocket, u says nothing, he will reply lets me see, den dips his hands in ur pocket uses d pocket d medium 2 reach 4 ur breast nd press it.... Untill he is satify. He will den says truely dere is nufin dey omase oooo