sexual predators are either

mentally impaired

covetous

self gratifying

greedy

and ultimately lacks self control.

please protect your child

#SaveTheFutureGeneration!

The mistake any parent will make is to turn a blind eye to the evils of molestation and cover your kids with 'the blood of jesus' Parents, you can never protect your kids enough, molestation comes from anywhere,the best you can do is teach your children and always be there for them.

children abuse children too #fact.

Very interesting piece, I will definitely be ordering the book for my young niece and even nephews because we have so many cases of older men abusing young boys.

I know in Nigeria we like to stick our heads under the sand and pretend nothing bad happens but it's not only in the western world all these things happen. They happen everywhere because we have evil people all over the world so it I a important we are all enlightened and educated to protect our children.

Saying God forbid alone will not work.

hapiness44:
This is my tale and I just shared it for the first time,My hands are shaking as I type this, the hurt is still there.
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a like and a share from me. Your short story is very touching.

#onecharitycomment

Klare:
Rem den 2 in my sec days, girls dats has breast were abused by our den bussiness teacher of j1, he will call u nd asked wats is in ur breast pocket, u says nothing, he will reply lets me see, den dips his hands in ur pocket uses d pocket d medium 2 reach 4 ur breast nd press it.... Untill he is satify. He will den says truely dere is nufin dey omase oooo

Why didn't anyone report him to the authorities
Ayamlaykorn

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I was born and bred in Zaria, we stayed close to some EDO guys who wia schooling in ABU as of den. My mum entrusted me to dem cos she saw them to be very innocent and they could trach me physics and mathematics which wia my week points back in secondary school. This was about 2001.
When ever I got into dia room, a Porn video would be played instead and am been thought how to ve sex centrally to what mum warned about, "boy, when u touch a woman in the hand, she gets pregnant and dats d end of ur dream" this fear of mumies words kept me away from things dey thought. I kept on asking my self unanswered questions. My next assignments was to press enough Breast of my neighbour's children as much as I could, it will make me feel happy and prove am a man which I did, they always leave a pinch of dia door or window open anytime a female visits so we watch the doing it we watched and dey re happy. Dey thought me how to masturbate if I can't sermon courage to do d main tin and I was indulged, dis cos dey said am half a man, dat real men get a coloured urine wen excited and watched neighbour's bathing as well. I was able to hold my self together till my university days before I could touch a woman. Dey re no more part of my life at the moment but what they injected into me re still dia cos it's very difficult to let go. I ve stopped a lot my d regret will keep hunting me. Thanks op, bet kids around me and my unborn children would ve a better life in dis aspect as am educating my sisters children on having just family as friends and telling mum and dan what ever strange tin dey come across. This my own side of the story.

Ecobidi:
Child abuse has become like a norm in Nigeria.2 out of every 5 children has been subjected to abuse. And the government needs to stand up and implement harsh laws and capital punishment to people caught in the act of child abuse or soliciting child pornography.

Re u kidding me?
They ve to finish training them selves on how to jump fence and gates before thinking of u. I wish I can change my mind about Nigeria politics.

Indeed this is serious. Really serious.

Ours is a society that gas REFUSED to try to understand the challenges and needs of others.

We really pretend like nothing is happening when actually a lot of water is passing under the bridge.

Thanks for this article. I will have to read it again, and possibly discuss this matter with my wife.

All in all, I think the main blame falls at the feet of the parents; we're not close to our kids enough for them to trust and confide in us.

This is a serious matter. Child abuse is indeed now very rampant; there's hardly a week passing without one reading one of these sad stories.

Lovely.

Mrbigman1:
I was born and bred in Zaria, we stayed close to some EDO guys who wia schooling in ABU as of den. My mum entrusted me to dem cos she saw them to be very innocent and they could trach me physics and mathematics which wia my week points back in secondary school. This was about 2001.
When ever I got into dia room, a Porn video would be played instead and am been thought how to ve sex centrally to what mum warned about, "boy, when u touch a woman in the hand, she gets pregnant and dats d end of ur dream" this fear of mumies words kept me away from things dey thought. I kept on asking my self unanswered questions. My next assignments was to press enough Breast of my neighbour's children as much as I could, it will make me feel happy and prove am a man which I did, they always leave a pinch of dia door or window open anytime a female visits so we watch the doing it we watched and dey re happy. Dey thought me how to masturbate if I can't sermon courage to do d main tin and I was indulged, dis cos dey said am half a man, dat real men get a coloured urine wen excited and watched neighbour's bathing as well. I was able to hold my self together till my university days before I could touch a woman. Dey re no more part of my life at the moment but what they injected into me re still dia cos it's very difficult to let go. I ve stopped a lot my d regret will keep hunting me. Thanks op, bet kids around me and my unborn children would ve a better life in dis aspect as am educating my sisters children on having just family as friends and telling mum and dan what ever strange tin dey come across. This my own side of the story.

#anothercharitycomment..

Wey that book sef, i wan buy like 50 copies for this guy family

hapiness44:
When I was 5, A family friend that I call 'uncle' took me inside their house, and did unspeakable things to me.
When I was 7, my brother molested me for months, and it all started when we were both loosing mum's hair, it started right behind her, what an irony! I remember vividly how he held a vaseline container in his hand,and told me to follow him inside the bathroom,these memories will hunt me forever.
The only solace I could find was in a neighbors older female child,she was 16, I ran to her, thinking I was safe from my brother,only for her to introduce me to a new form of abuse.
At age 9, I was the predator in my class, I abused all my female classmates,I introduced them to this same act.
At age 13, my brother continued,creeping to my bed at night, the only way I will know he came that night, will be the smell of vaseline and dampness between my thighs.but this time I was ready to stab him to death I was way gone with anger and hatred , guess he realized this and stopped finally.
You will ask me why I didn't tell my mum, a million times I wanted to tell her, but I felt dirty, I felt I was not strong enough to say No, and I feared she will accuse me of 'enjoying' it..
This is my tale and I just shared it for the first time,My hands are shaking as I type this, the hurt is still there.
The mistake any parent will make is to turn a blind eye to the evils of molestation and cover your kids with 'the blood of jesus' Parents, you can never protect your kids enough, molestation comes from anywhere,the best you can do is teach your children and always be there for them.

Dear, your story is still shocking to me. I feel both sorry and sad at the same time.

hapiness44:

so Sorry about that dear. #hugs her#

Now, you have to make sure it never happens to other kids.
Kids abuse themselves.

P.s. You might want to edit your post later. There are lots of heartless e-diots on nairaland...talking from experience sis.

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dein77:


Dear, your story is still shocking to me. I feel both sorry and sad at the same time.

Shocking?? Really?

That's because it's like a taboo to speak up or talk about it even years later.

Roughly 90% of women/teenage girls in Nigeria today have been molested at some point in their lives in one way or the other.
But no one talks about it.

Kids abuse each other, brothers and sisters do, twins do, relatives, house helps and neighbours.

Am ordering this book!

Meanwhile Leme share this link with everyone I know.

reaky:
I should read it abi

Next time summariz

Another traffic for konga

Bros try read that stuff o. Never thought I could finish it too but now thanking God I did.

I just can't say what my eyes have seen. As I am typing I am weeping. !.
God knows I don't want to have female children. Just male. Obinrin o ri aye wa. Omase o. Been exposed to immorality at an early age can damage u and every other thing that makes you human. Please if there are married people here wiv female kids. Be warned ooooooooo

Cellytones:


Bros try read that stuff o. Never thought I could finish it too but now thanking God I did.

Am happy I now did
But long story shaa

That book go mke sense o...u fit create d pdf format?

great post,children should know bout thisis,if they do,u can never touch them cuz you would be scared about what they might say to their parents,not every child can be strong to say No but many can be strong to tell their parents so as to help handle the psychological trauma that comes with child abuse

Av got a lot of stories concerning diz act, but am not saying a dine.

McyoungStarboy:
Av got a lot of stories concerning diz act, but am not saying a dine.

Then don't comment on this post, a lot of survivors have struggled to tell their stories.. This is not a thread for snide comments.

And please it is not only female kids that are being molested although I feel it's more for females. Male kids also are being molested. A lot of guys lost their virginity to their female aunties and house helps. . My friend in secondary school was always molested by a boy the father brought from the east to serve under him till he gets his freedom. This boy will come to school and tell me how this guy will be rubbing his stuff on his own and try to insert it into his hole. I was young then. I didn't even no the advise I gave him because I was also battling wiv grown up problems.

Anyway my friend is in Jand now and he is gay. We don't even talk anymore cus I don't no where the discussion will start from.

One has to be extra careful ...as a kid I was just lucky and I really thank God, cos as kids we could play from house to house. ..and I had a lot of uncles around..and aunties yes....girls abuse girls vice versa. ...had this mallam who used to sell sweets. ..hed give me double of what ever I wanted..was so much fun, one day he asked me to come into his small house, with gluey and curious eyes I followed him , I was just 9 and boy I was curious and sharp mouthed. ..at the entrance the mumu bluntly asked if I can Bleep...and I screamed ..I ran out and I told all the kids in the neighborhood. ..but funny enough I didnt tell my mum...and I can't figure why...kids need to be spoken to on a daily basis. ..

many people are dying in silence.....what a lovely piece

Is it possible for Child/Sexual abuse to be taught in Primary and Secondary Schools

This is because alot of kids pay attention to what they learn in school

This should be taken seriously, trust nobody. The first men that made me aware of myself
were close relatives,uncles etc....even some fathers are sick need i say incest is on the rise.

Airpure:
Is it possible for Child/Sexual abuse to be taught in Primary and Secondary Schools

This is because alot of kids pay attention to what they learn in school

I believe it can be pushed for. Yes it can be taught.
Ayamlaykorn

What I can't get past is how relatives can be so predatory. Why? Why? He's only a little boy and you have guys that you run your paroles with but you can't keep your hands off him. Why nau?

elantraceey:
Beautiful .



They need to be educated abour these.

seconded