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Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by CuteEmma(f): 10:49pm On Jan 10, 2015
Is it right for your partner to take your calls or read your messages?

I find it okay to allow my boyfriend pick my calls, mostly when it's from a guy I barely know. But he always get jealous and upset when he reads my messages. So that's why I often lock my phone with passwords.

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Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by Nobody: 10:56pm On Jan 10, 2015
Depends on the type of relationship you both have...
Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by CuteEmma(f): 10:59pm On Jan 10, 2015
protegesol:
Depends on the type of relationship you both have...
would you allow your girlfriend to take your calls, even without seeing the number calling? Or read your messages?
Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by ronald4lif(m): 11:02pm On Jan 10, 2015
Why should someone else take one's call? People's privacy should be respected, whether married or not

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Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by Nobody: 11:03pm On Jan 10, 2015
CuteEmma:
would you allow your girlfriend to take your calls, even without seeing the number calling? Or read your messages?
Yes, maybe my business calls so long she knows about what I'm doing.
I'll still keep a line for private use tho and that would be personal to me.
I'm an open person and still won't be scared to share that with her if need be.
Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by lyrical(m): 11:05pm On Jan 10, 2015
nay........all man to himself
Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by TrishaP(f): 11:34pm On Jan 10, 2015
The last time he did, it escalated to a bigger issue and he regretted even tho I wasn't hiding anything.
To avoid further headache and save him the stress of taking things at heart I do lock my phone. So IMO is a no.
Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by jahbiz: 11:44pm On Jan 10, 2015
Y should my girl do that unless I

permit her to do such on my

behave. And if she wants to

have a real headache that will

last her days, she should read

my chats.

She may end up in the hospital

b4 saying goodbye, but in the

long run she may have to say

sorry on her knees.
Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by mirexxx(f): 11:49pm On Jan 10, 2015
jahbiz:
Y should my girl do that unless I

permit her to do such on my

behave. And if she wants to

have a real headache that will

last her days, she should read

my chats.

She may end up in the hospital

b4 saying goodbye, but in the

long run she may have to say

sorry on her knees.
ok
Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by jahbiz: 11:55pm On Jan 10, 2015
mirexxx:
ok
Whats ok?

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Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by Mynd44: 4:47am On Jan 11, 2015
If you read the messages in my phone you are likely to either laugh yourself to death or grab a pen as it will feel like a psychology class.

That said, the only thing I do on people's phones is go through their music folder or pictures. Or if I am hunting for a good game.

Everything else bores me

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Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by Nobody: 5:01am On Jan 11, 2015
D only messages I receive in my fone r d ones frm mtn nd I hardly get callss so yh she can b I'm charge of my fone as long as she wants
Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by Spidermon: 5:48am On Jan 11, 2015
She dey craze? Shey na she register my sim card for me?? Why she go pick my call?

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Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by CuteEmma(f): 11:18am On Jan 11, 2015
Spidermon:
She dey craze? Shey na she register my sim card for me?? Why she go pick my call?
would you take her calls, if you're with her phone and she's not around?
Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by Spidermon: 11:33am On Jan 11, 2015
CuteEmma:
would you take her calls, if you're with her phone and she's not around?
I won't pick her calls unless she asks me to. Besides, what I don't know won't hurt me.
Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by Monicasque(f): 11:33am On Jan 11, 2015
It wud b nice and ideal for couples to have unlimited excess to each other's phones, but in today's world, fones r one of the reasons couples fight. So my answe wud b a big no. Lets nt even pretend abt it. There r somethings which u wudn't want yo spouse to knw or see. M nt talking abt u flirting wit ada ppl, bt m talking abt things like e.g: yo family problems etc, which are the things u might b keeping on your fone. I knw ppl shud b transparent in relationships, bt i always say, there r other things which are better left unknown. Never let your partner know everything, coz one day, dat little bit of knowledge cud b used against u

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Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by Spidermon: 11:50am On Jan 11, 2015
Monicasque:
It wud b nice and ideal for couples to have unlimited excess to each other's phones, but in today's world, fones r one of the reasons couples fight. So my answe wud b a big no. Lets nt even pretend abt it. There r somethings which u wudn't want yo spouse to knw or see. M nt talking abt u flirting wit ada ppl, bt m talking abt things like e.g: yo family problems etc, which are the things u might b keeping on your fone. I knw ppl shud b transparent in relationships, bt i always say, there r other things which are better left unknown. Never let your partner know everything, coz one day, dat little bit of knowledge cud b used against u

True
Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by tosyne2much(m): 11:55am On Jan 11, 2015
Personally, I don't see anything wrong in that if she picks my call in my absence and asks the person to call back.. What I wouldn't want to hear is picking my calls and raising flirting allegations against me me afterwards


On the contrary, courtesy demands she shouldn't pick my calls in my presence unless she's told to do so. This same issue has resulted into a fight between my elder broda and his gf.. She picked the call of an unknown lady & start accused him of cheating afterwards
Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by Dotwillis1(m): 12:14pm On Jan 11, 2015
Ki lo fe fa
Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by princeogbeide1(m): 12:45pm On Jan 11, 2015
Two partners cannot shear a tooth brush, even though the other partner is not around, they still keep off from the tooth brush because it's a personal belonging . This is also applicable for a phone tale. Please oohhh my fone is my personal belonging, my partner ought not to use it nor pick my calls / read my messages unless I ask her to kindly bring the phone for me" secret is respect"

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Re: Is It Okay For Your Partner To Read Your Messages Or Even Pick Your Calls? by 2SWT(f): 5:21pm On Jan 11, 2015
Yea


but unfortunately my boyfriend has no time for that


he hardly touch my phone and if he ever does all he checks are my pics and music....nothing else

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