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Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by Mayor88(m): 9:29am On Jan 13, 2015 |
Wtf! Capital wrong |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by dljbd1(m): 9:29am On Jan 13, 2015 |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by hensben(m): 9:31am On Jan 13, 2015 |
Dekonjay:who liked this post huh |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by jpphilips(m): 9:32am On Jan 13, 2015 |
hayoakins: That is what most people will answer but you need to see my friend's face when one village champion who thought her daughter is quarter to Agbani asked him that question, your countenance and body language alone would force him to change the subject. At some point, when the "inlaw in chief regalia" ![]() His fellow village dumbos started clapping at the sound of the grammar, her useless oldest brother who at 37 was still living in his father's house was shinning his eyes, whispered to the father that a big car doesn't mean one has money after all, men borrow cars to impress inlaws, guess what; the "big car" was a lousy 2009 Toyota corolla that my friend don't even take seriously, the car became an option due to fuel efficiency, his office knock about car, chei! laugh nearly killed me. It became clearer the level of poverty and braggadocio he was getting involved in, the girl actually told him that her father is a chief, not knowing that some traditional stools are inherited ![]() ![]() My guy ran faster than Usain. |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by Nobody: 9:32am On Jan 13, 2015 |
Could be you got them worried with the way you were looking ![]() |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by Nobody: 9:33am On Jan 13, 2015 |
jnrbayano:On a second thought, it all depends on the motive behind d question. Oftentimes, such questions are asked for d following reasons: • To mock d man • To emasculate him • A polite way of saying find ur class. It's all aimed at insulting d guy's personality. We only see rare occasions where such questions are asked out of a concerned heart maybe come in and render assistance in d best way they can. |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by 9jatatafo(m): 9:33am On Jan 13, 2015 |
Absolutely wrong |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by penzino(m): 9:34am On Jan 13, 2015 |
dljbd1:Oya straight to whatsapp. |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by dammywapes(m): 9:35am On Jan 13, 2015 |
You know one thing , is not right for them to know. You and your fiance is another family. This is where "bukata" started to come in for the man before you know it, go and meet your sis husband he will give you. Tho you can help them out. |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by jpphilips(m): 9:36am On Jan 13, 2015 |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by woky: 9:36am On Jan 13, 2015 |
VickyyB:abeg talk jor |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by freecocoa(f): 9:36am On Jan 13, 2015 |
justi4jesu:1 out of 10? C'mon you don't mean that. Are you trying to say there aren't wealthy men who started on their own, whose wives are idle? |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by ArabianPrince: 9:37am On Jan 13, 2015 |
As far as am concerned, there is nothing wrong in asking how much the person earns. It's only the proud low wage earner that will find it offensive. They should be concerned about the welfare of their daughter. If it is ok to ask about job...then it is Ok to ask about salary. Probably some in-laws do help to get a better paying job. I bet if they allocate millions of Naira to assist the couples in settling down despite having a good job...people saying its rude won't find it rude or annoying receiving funds. Hypocrisy. Please don't quote me. ![]() |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by jnrbayano(m): 9:37am On Jan 13, 2015 |
AgapeCharis: Yes and those motives shouldn't be your business. What should be your business is your answer to them and your reactions subsequently. |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by Mega72(m): 9:38am On Jan 13, 2015 |
Very wrong ooooh! |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by justi4jesu(f): 9:39am On Jan 13, 2015 |
freecocoa: I beg to differ! |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by Nobody: 9:39am On Jan 13, 2015 |
VickyyB: Makes sense. kid. |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by dljbd1(m): 9:39am On Jan 13, 2015 |
penzino: ![]() |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by Nobody: 9:45am On Jan 13, 2015 |
jnrbayano:right. Now, let me ask u this. How will you react to such question if asked by the parents of your fiance? |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by freecocoa(f): 9:46am On Jan 13, 2015 |
justi4jesu:You are allowed to think differently my dear, still doesn't change the fact that there are, I know that I know some, at best, these women just spend the money for the man and the man doesn't mind. |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by Nobody: 9:48am On Jan 13, 2015 |
freecocoa: lol , but where's the due respect in that statement. Been a while freecocoa |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by Nobody: 9:48am On Jan 13, 2015 |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by Nobody: 9:49am On Jan 13, 2015 |
Very wrong. |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by Alvison(m): 9:51am On Jan 13, 2015 |
wrong but we do them anyway |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by jpphilips(m): 9:52am On Jan 13, 2015 |
eph12: Are you saying that a grown arse old man is too dumb not to know what a career keeps on the table? if he cant figure it out, his grey hair counts for nothing. Let me ask you a direct question; Can you call your father in march 2015 that you got a teaching job, then Dec. 2015, return home with a Range Vogue, what would your father do? |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by Sunkyphil(m): 9:53am On Jan 13, 2015 |
its totally not acceptable |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by freecocoa(f): 9:53am On Jan 13, 2015 |
neoapocalypse:The due respect there is me not saying "where are your manners as old as you are, never ask me such rude/ irrelevant question again" ![]() You were the one MIA, I've been around. |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by jnrbayano(m): 9:54am On Jan 13, 2015 |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by freecocoa(f): 9:56am On Jan 13, 2015 |
VickyyB:If you believe this then you can believe anything, like they can pull their resources together and get duped, duh! |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by freecocoa(f): 9:58am On Jan 13, 2015 |
daey118:Say what now? |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by Nobody: 10:03am On Jan 13, 2015 |
whether i make 350k or 35k a month, its none of their motherfucking business. |
Re: Is It Wrong For Your Fiancee's Parents To Ask You This Question? by Edusouls(m): 10:04am On Jan 13, 2015 |
kai na golddigger parents dey m be ooo, dey run in time ooo.. |
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