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Try Being Attractive, Beauty May Not Be Enough by milestonejnr(m): 12:02am On Jan 14, 2015
Beauty is having qualities that are pleasant to the eyes. Everybody is beautiful in their own unique way. Obviously, some people are more beautiful than the other.
it is not all about being beautiful, attractiveness also matters. There are some girls that think they are beautiful but still, the relationship they always dream about isn't coming forth... Don't you think there is a problem?

Having the right attitude can make you the person people will like to associate with. Every human
being needs to be attractive, whether you are single or married. If you are single, you need to attract the right people and if you are married, you need to keep looking attractive to your spouse, and even if you are just a business man, you need to be attractive enough to be able to present and market yourself well. so, everybody needs to develop a level of attractiveness.

TIPS

1. When it comes to the game of relationship, please, DO NOT BE DESPERATE. The more desperate you are the less the chances you attract the right people. It is hard to make a sound decision in desperation. You can ask Esau in the bible who sold his birthright just because of porridge( most incredible deal ever negotiated). Being desperate can drive people away from you; everybody feels somehow when you come strong on them, it makes them wonder what you want.

2. DON'T BE TEMPTED TO GO NAKED.
Years back, fashion was about what you wear, but now, fashion is about what you are not wearing. Don't open everything in your body and then leave nothing to the imagination. You may think you are attractive because of your exposed body parts... NO, you are not... you can't even attract real men like that, you can only attract dogs. I think you know what it is like to marry a dog. When they see your sister, friend or anyone that opens more than you, he will go. The sad news remains that that exposed body won't be like that forever.

3. DON'T COME PRETENDING.
Many in the bid to attract the right persons(partners) start pretending to be something that they are not. You must be yourself and truthful to yourself. Don't put in so much effort to change who you are, unless you have the worse kind of attitude. Know you are good the way you are. I don't think you've seen the best actors in Nigeria until you see a woman that is desperate to marry, they begin to act out everything. When you do a lot of pretending before marriage, eventually, it will be difficult to keep pretending and that's why true colour comes out after marriage. I think there is need to be real.

4. HAVE A HEALTHY SELF ESTEEM.
People will see you the way you see yourself. Being attractive starts from the way you place yourself. The price you pay for a thing determines its value. Some girls are now as cheap as anything you can imagine.
Someone may jilt you, but that doesn't mean you are less special than you are. You were fearfully and wonderfully made, you're a masterpiece of God's creation, you are not a mistake. You were handcrafted by God, he didn't assign the angels to make you; he made you himself. You were not made in china but heaven, so don't allow anybody put you down.

5. GET A PURPOSE FOR YOUR LIFE.
Try to perfect your God-given gifts and talents. A purposeful person is always more attractive than a purposeless person because purpose releases passion, attractiveness, creativity etc. The average young girl in this part of the world-Nigeria- maybe purposeless. Their only dream is to marry, bear children, look after the children, and look after their children children.
You can even meet your spouse faster when you work on purpose. Learn something and try and perfect in it. When you don't have a dream, your abuse is inevitable and that's why they will call you to come and shake your bum in a music video. If you were to be purposeful, you cant be that cheap. Don't be lazy, be industrious

6. MAINTAIN A JOYFUL ATTITUDE.
Know that worries won't render any solution to your problem. Even when in an unpleasant situation, try your best to approach your problem with joy. Don't allow anyone condemn you, so, maintain a joyful attitude.

7. It isn't everybody that comes into your life that you will marry, some are just supposed to be your friends. You marry the person that understands you, that you don't need to pose for or brag to.

SOURCE: http://emekaani..com/2014/12/try-being-attractive-beauty-may-not-be.html
Re: Try Being Attractive, Beauty May Not Be Enough by ijobaooorun(m): 12:05am On Jan 14, 2015
Very 9yc article.... got to send this to ♍Ɣ female friends
But A̶̲̥̅̊♏ gonna remove no 2 grin grin grin








ℓ̊ gbadun OP for the first tym undecided undecided
Re: Try Being Attractive, Beauty May Not Be Enough by iceberylin(m): 12:06am On Jan 14, 2015
Cool undecided

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Re: Try Being Attractive, Beauty May Not Be Enough by Oluwatosean(m): 12:09am On Jan 14, 2015
Hmmm, nice 1
Re: Try Being Attractive, Beauty May Not Be Enough by Ezibless: 12:16am On Jan 14, 2015
Reminds me of a sermon titled ''Attractiveness''


BTW,

you forgot number

8. TRY TO BE NEAT: Practice good hygiene,government should give free sponge so that u can take your bath at least once a day to reduce global warminggrin
Re: Try Being Attractive, Beauty May Not Be Enough by milestonejnr(m): 12:22am On Jan 14, 2015
ijobaooorun:
Very 9yc article.... got to send this to ♍Ɣ female friends
But A̶̲̥̅̊♏ gonna remove no 2 grin grin grin








ℓ̊ gbadun OP for the first tym undecided undecided

Lol... the number 2 is included
Re: Try Being Attractive, Beauty May Not Be Enough by milestonejnr(m): 12:23am On Jan 14, 2015
Ezibless:
Reminds me of a sermon titled ''Attractiveness''


BTW,

you forgot number

8. TRY TO BE NEAT: Practice good hygiene,government should give free sponge so that u can take your bath at least once a day to reduce global warminggrin

Yes, you are right.
Re: Try Being Attractive, Beauty May Not Be Enough by eunisam: 12:26am On Jan 14, 2015
In other news. Vote GEJ 2015-2017. The devil u know is...
Re: Try Being Attractive, Beauty May Not Be Enough by Nobody: 12:34am On Jan 14, 2015
ijobaooorun:
Very 9yc article.... got to send this to ♍Ɣ female friends
But A̶̲̥̅̊♏ gonna remove no 2 grin grin grin








ℓ̊ gbadun OP for the first tym undecided undecided
badt guy,why not include 2,there won't movies for u at d cinema grin
Re: Try Being Attractive, Beauty May Not Be Enough by bosschinalu(m): 1:21am On Jan 14, 2015
wonderful write up....weldone

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Re: Try Being Attractive, Beauty May Not Be Enough by dechandel(f): 1:33am On Jan 14, 2015
Nice one

And when girls try sticking to number 7. They blast them for friendzoning

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Re: Try Being Attractive, Beauty May Not Be Enough by Nobody: 12:22pm On Jan 14, 2015
I like this.

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Re: Try Being Attractive, Beauty May Not Be Enough by mhyra(f): 1:04pm On Jan 14, 2015
beaurriifull... me likey cheesy

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