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Am I Heading For Divorce? by brown4: 4:39pm On Dec 19, 2008 |
Re: Am I Heading For Divorce? by sistawoman: 9:10pm On Dec 19, 2008 |
Background: I've been married for about 3 years with my Nigerian but American born wife. Everything has been fine so far. This is what I said: You have to make a list. What is this oyinbo woman offering you that your wife is not? Has your wife been faithful to you? If so is this how you reward her by cheating, because emontional cheating is just as bad as physical cheating. How would your wife feel if she read this or found out about this? Is everything that you have at home worth this oyinbo woman? Are you willing to give up what you have for her? Is what she offers something you can ask your wife to do? Are you emotionally satisfied in your relationship at home and if not have you addressed this with your wife? If you have children, how will your children react to finding this out? Only you can answer the questions above, only you can know what to do. All I ask is that you think very carefully about what you are giving up to be with this oyinbo. Remember the 80-20 rule. In marriage we get 80% of what we want but sometimes we give up that 80% in search for that missing 20% only to realize after we get that 20% just what we gave up. I am sure your wife deserves better. What do you say? |
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