Blackett:
So why did you leave him?

zaragal:


I didn't leave him, is mother frustrated our love becos am akwaibom and he was warri, dey don't want akwaibom gal, she has false orientation abt us

I'm touched. . . So sorry.

Blackett:
I'm touched. . . So sorry.

MissWanted:
His name is Blackett. & his diffrnt, so I started Havn sum fillins 4 him, but I CNT tell him so I went luk cheap. Did is my alternate moniker bcus he dsnt Rily giv me attention on my main aknt. Am scared of his rejection, BT I just went to tell him DAT I luv him and not every gel is d same, he sounds lyk he as bin hurt BT I can heal his wounds if given d chance

zaragal:


Thnx..

Blackett:
can I ask something tho?

zaragal:


Yes

Blackett:
Why did you two allow his mom to come inbetween?

zaragal:


I can't force myself into the family nah, y ll I want to come in between mother and child..he on the other hand is still dependent on his mum so u cnt expect him to turn against his family..u could only hope d future brings us back together but now I hav to let him go

Blackett:
I see where the problem is. Hmm. Future. You still love him I guess?

zaragal:


Honestly....i dp , ll I say he is my first love but not the first gal I dated

Blackett:
Guy or gal?

zaragal:


Guy hav corrected myself

Blackett:
Well, if you really love him, you won't let him be. Right now he needs your encouragement. He needs to know you believe in him. It'll make him work harder and be his own man, able to take decisions like choosing his life partner. . . So that when that future comes, his mind will still be on you.

There's a very thin line between you saying you left him, and him thinking you abandoned him.

zaragal:


Honestly??...I don't want to go back to him....reasons best knwn to me...enough abt me we hav already derailed the thread

Blackett:
Now you've said your mind. And I think I know why tho.

zaragal:


Lolzzzzz....sometimes it's not all abt love, wen u marry someone u marry the family as well, u cnt force urself intofamily dat doesnt want u, most esp wen it has to do wit the mother, dere re many implications....i ll snappy out of dat family and see a better guy, one advantage...."am pretty"..lolzz

Blackett:
Lol. Most akwa ibom girls are pretty. They are homely, neat and God, they can cook. Damn!

Yeah it's not only about love. The guy showed that he'll let his family interfere with his marriage. I know that puts a lot of ladies off, and I don't blame them. No one wants a sissy husband. And also, forcing thru with marriage with a family that doesn't want you means you'll get blamed for any bad thing that happens to the guy. I understand your decision.

retalee3:
@blackett. All she did was tell u her feelings,
All you needed to say in reply was yes i will or no i wont.
Call her jobless for creating this thread shows no maturity.
Going off on other users for one reason or the other also shows your lack of maturity.
and finally
male-females all like, love and want to be associated with money,just that some love it more than others including you.
Why the gold digger label on all female.dont forget the sayn that those who live in glass house shouldn't throw stones.cos i believe u have females in your family.