it is very wrong of you to live in the same house with someone that is not married to you.so think about what you family and relatives would say or do if they happen to hear that you are living with a guy in school. be wise dear.

It has nothing to do with dumping or no dumping. My gf had an accommodation problem in school when we were in 2nd year. I, therefore, had to accommodate her and we got so used to each other that we lived together till graduation. She just finished her NYSC program in Ilorin while I still have some months to round-off here in Abuja. I tell you, we are still together and by God's grace will be getting married soon.

The break-up thing really depends on the people involved. Besides, it's generally not too good to date for too long a time as most long relationships don't end up with marriage. Many others do though.

The only disadvantage is that no matter how intelligent you are, your boyfriend will have to study for you both. Because, he'll have to do both your assignment as well as his. Not that you can't do it yourself but he'll always offer to do it and with time, you'll definitely get used to him doing it. Consequently, he may stop doing well in his own department due to a divided attention while you the girl will end up being dull.

I read Ind. Maths while my Girlfriend read Ind. Chemistry. She made a 2[1] while I made 2[2]. You know what, I know both Maths and Chemistry and still know the chemistry more than she does.

I believe you can advice yourself now. Goodluck! (not Jonathan)lol

sbm4real: gem87, i beg you in the name of God,dont move in with him.i am a guy and i know what all this is about.please.if you have your house,he could come see u anytime but staying with a man you are not married to is not advisable. i am sure your parents wont be happy to hear that.protect your integerity for God's sake.i wish you the best

. Gem87 I like your comment youare so real and that is the truth of the matter!

Man_pikin!:
It has nothing to do with dumping or no dumping. My gf had an accommodation problem in school when we were in 2nd year. I, therefore, had to accommodate her and we got so used to each other that we lived together till graduation. She just finished her NYSC program in Ilorin while I still have some months to round-off here in Abuja. I tell you, we are still together and by God's grace will be getting married soon.

The break-up thing really depends on the people involved. Besides, it's generally not too good to date for too long a time as most long relationships don't end up with marriage. Many others do though.

The only disadvantage is that no matter how intelligent you are, your boyfriend will have to study for you both. Because, he'll have to do both your assignment as well as his. Not that you can't do it yourself but he'll always offer to do it and with time, you'll definitely get used to him doing it. Consequently, he may stop doing well in his own department due to a divided attention while you the girl will end up being dull.

I read Ind. Maths while my Girlfriend read Ind. Chemistry. She made a 2[1] while I made 2[2]. You know what, I know both Maths and Chemistry and still know the chemistry more than she does.

I believe you can advice yourself now. Goodluck! (not Jonathan)lol

. Well you are right in your on your own side.

My dear kindly stay on your own the fact that you live with him doesn't make you his favourite girl or the one he ll want to marry.......stay on your own and when he puts a ring on your finger you ll have a lifetime with each other. E no dey run

gem87: we've been goin out 4 a little over 3 yrs now and everything is really fine
for some reason he wnts 2 cum 2 d same uni as me and him being him would definitely wnt 4 us 2 stay together

wht do u guys think?

very foolish move!If ‎u start giving ur boyfriend d services of a wife dis early then trust me he wouldn't marry ‎u cos ‎​dat would be like marriage where other hidden characters emerge which in marriage would be dealt with as for better for worse but in dis case he won't deal wit Į̸̸̨ƭ as for better for worse he will simply kick ‎u back τ̲̅ȍ d kerb where ‎u belong,"AWAITING MARRIAGE"!