hi everyone,just curious and seeking your opinion.me and my boyfriend have been dating for more than a year now. everything is usually ok but of recnt things seem dull.cant really explain but there does not seem to be any real spark left.its almost like we are used to each other,sex life initially was very steamy,still is but once in a while.i get the feeling he wants to sleep outside,i may feel the same too who knows, question is,we love eachother and i doubt breaking up will solve anything,so the men please tell me what i can do as a chic to turn him  on again so that we can supposedly fall in love and relight that spark.

Truphie

The key is to find DIFFERENT things to do together.

Look eh my sister. I would pay for the answer to that question. That is how I have moved through different relationships as once the spark is gone, there is nothing there to hold me.  It can really become a problem as you are getting older as you do not learn how to hang on to something good and you find that there are so many betta people in your past you could've had a fantastic life with,

Sadly Nairalanders prefer to comment on topics like "Me and the housegirl had a party with my sister's husband, "

the only way to bring the spark back is to introduce variety into your sex life - try get someone by the side, while he also gets someone by the side - if you arent used to anal sex, try letting him fok your butt hole, if you are not used to MouthAction, let him suck the wee bit out of your pussie - and also , suck the skin out of his moda foking dik - if he like missionary style - make sure you fok him heads down, pussie up, while he pokes his dik inside - if you don't like sucking his balls - baby, u getto learn and learn quick, all these will bring variety back into your love life, and before yah both know it, yah both gon be riding on a moda foking roller coaster to ding dong paradise - u feel me?

bronx dog,i have done all those things u mentioned oh.i have sexy outfits,iv given oil masseges,i suck his dick often incl his balls so i mean im making efforts,infact he is used to blowjobs n regular sexy outfits,if i tell him hey,got a surprise for u,he knows its an outfit.perhaps i should deprive him of all these n maybe he would miss it.

truphie:

bronx dog,i have done all those things u mentioned oh.i have sexy outfits,iv given oil masseges,i suck his privates often incl his balls so i mean I'm making efforts,infact he is used to blowjobs n regular sexy outfits,if i tell him hey,got a surprise for u,he knows its an outfit.perhaps i should deprive him of all these n maybe he would miss it.

Deprive him of it and he'll go looking elsewhere. U need 2 strike a balance between that and him craving more from u. The bitter truth is that u have nothing else to offer to him. U need to let him know that there is more to u that meets the eye and that u have a lot more 2 offer. How u go about it, only u can figure that out cos u know his likes,dislikes highs, lows etc.

bronx_dog:

the only way to bring the spark back is to introduce variety into your sex life - try get someone by the side, while he also gets someone by the side - if you arent used to anal sex, try letting him fok your butt hole, if you are not used to MouthAction, let him suck the wee bit out of your pussie - and also , suck the skin out of his moda foking dik - if he like missionary style - make sure you fok him heads down, pussie up, while he pokes his dik inside - if you don't like sucking his balls - baby, u getto learn and learn quick, all these will bring variety back into your love life, and before yah both know it, yah both gon be riding on a moda foking roller coaster to ding dong paradise - u feel me?

Tumfulu . . There's hardly any advice from you that doesn't concern sex.

bronx_dog:

the only way to bring the spark back is to introduce variety into your sex life - try get someone by the side, while he also gets someone by the side - if you arent used to anal sex, try letting him fok your butt hole, if you are not used to MouthAction, let him suck the wee bit out of your pussie - and also , suck the skin out of his moda foking dik - if he like missionary style - make sure you fok him heads down, pussie up, while he pokes his dik inside - if you don't like sucking his balls - baby, u getto learn and learn quick, all these will bring variety back into your love life, and before yah both know it, yah both gon be riding on a moda foking roller coaster to ding dong paradise - u feel me?

LMAO

truphie:

bronx dog,i have done all those things u mentioned oh.i have sexy outfits,iv given oil masseges,i suck his privates often incl his balls so i mean I'm making efforts,infact he is used to blowjobs n regular sexy outfits,if i tell him hey,got a surprise for u,he knows its an outfit.perhaps i should deprive him of all these n maybe he would miss it.

Yep, too much off everything is not good

Missy B:

Tumfulu . . There's hardly any advice from you that doesn't concern sex.

sup missyb?

Missy B:

Tumfulu . . There's hardly any advice from you that doesn't concern sex.

thats hw u kno a genuine advice

tboy1:

sup missyb?

I'm doing great!!
You? It's been a while.

idupaul:


thats hw u kno a genuine advice

Even you??
Don't tell me you are with Tumfulu on that.

@Truphie

Ok - if all else fails - my dik is lurking round the corner.

@ Topic

Try spending sometime away from one another . . . . . cos they say absence makes the heart grow fonder

and then its important u both not forget what it was that got ur attention in each other, do fun and romantic things

every once in a while and hopefully things will pan out,

Good luck to u both tho,

Toyosi,

You sound too knowledgeable for a novice. I might have to start screening your friends!!!

dayokanu:

Toyosi,

You sound too knowledgeable for a novice. I might have to start screening your friends!!!

ROFLMGBO!!!!!!!!!!!

Bro, no naa, it aint like that oo,

Just saying it like it needs to be done naa,

How do you know what needs to be done?

Like you have been in such situations before.

NB: _{I am now very single}

dayokanu:

How do you know what needs to be done?

Like you have been in such situations before.

NB: _{I am now very single}

Eyahh, congrats to Big Bro, i say u single and ready to mingle,

Yeah single and ready to mingle but what there to congratulate me about?

Oda I take back ma congrats, u sounded happy naa,

hence the congrats, and if u ask me i say u should be happy, more fun for ya too,

I am happy and sad too Because you warned me not to go into it

@Topic:

I will not lye to you at all. B'cos you are just boy friend and girl friend, nothing can be done! I would have tell you what you could do if he was your husband. But b'cos it is boy friend and girl friend thing, there is really nothing anyone can tell you that will work. That boy head is not in any home. And you both are in the street. If you where home, then I will have adverse for you both the will keep your home clean and save for you both to dwell. What I would have tell you will be for nothing now b'cos it will not work now.

dayokanu:

I am happy and sad too Because you warned me not to go into it

Awww Bro e peye oo. . . .

I say u hit da clubs hard this weekend, and drink yourself to stupor like a sailor, 

dayokanu:

I am happy and sad too Because you warned me not to go into it

Lol, you dey report me?

I told you I don marry na

TOYOSI, no mind am jare iyawo oniyawo lo fe gbe

@ Nike

Its all good he'll be fine I'll keep ma Bro in ma prayers oo,

TOYOSI20:

@ Nike

Its all good he'll be fine I'll keep ma Bro in ma prayers oo,

I don offer am simibrasil, e no want.

e dey complain say she don slack like worn out rubber band. what does he expect from a s***?

Dayo, simi is selling herself for half a dollar, make u take advantage of the offer

*Toyinrayo:

I don offer am simibrasil, e no want.

e dey complain say she don slack like worn out rubber band. what does he expect from a s***?

Dayo, simi is selling herself for half a dollar, make u take advantage of he offer

ROFL!!!!!

he will have to fight her love-vendor hard for her oo

Big bro u ready,. . . . . .

trolley welcome back he don tey wen i see u

I say u hit da clubs hard this weekend, and drink yourself to stupor like a sailor

Would you go with me?

Lol, you dey report me?
I told you I don marry na
TOYOSI, no mind am jare iyawo oniyawo lo fe gbe

Mo ti fi iyawo oniyawo sile oh. Mi o fe assasins on my trail.

I don offer am simibrasil, e no want.
e dey complain say she don slack like worn out rubber band. what does he expect from a s***?
Dayo, simi is selling herself for half a dollar, make u take advantage of he offer

Simi for wetin? Mo daran lowo awon omode yi!!!Na wa o. Na so you like me reach?
I now understand The kind of love a dog has for bones
I only trust Toyosi and I believe she would work out something for me
Toyosi ma fun mi ni enikan

tRoOE:

@topic
Too much sex kills relationship
My advice

Thanks for the tip

Ma Bro

Unfortunately they wouldn't quite let mi into the clubs yet so I'm sorry i cant,

As for finding someone for u, tell me exactly what u looking for, just maybe then i can pull some strings for ya

Not a promise oo, but I'll try,

Tall slim pretty girl How do i describe here. Maybe YIM or watcha think?