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Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by JoeCutie(m): 6:55am On Mar 05, 2015 |
ayocool:Nothing should be added to this, you've said it all. Nice one, bro. 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by XBLadez: 6:56am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Beverlyjean:You just keep confusing urself, that's why the guy used the 'olosho in the making' remark. How can u claim u love someone when u still have a side attraction? And how would u feel if u find out ur bf abroad is flirting with another girl there? Na wa o. The love you're SHIARRING. . .DIARISGOD o! 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by groundnutoil(m): 6:57am On Mar 05, 2015 |
girls sha but ma own na go with d second guy cus if u luved ur porposed bf u wudnt have had a second 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by zaralady: 6:57am On Mar 05, 2015 |
JoeCutie: Am Soorrry to burst ur bubbles sugar...common sense is common buut d "use" of common sense is not common, everybody has sense...dat is y it "common" bt not every one knws hw to use it, like the oda guy...it's obvious his brain need factory reset , am jokin oooo 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by HIHMAZA: 6:58am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Na only you be virgin I Abeg my Dog nna. Virgin |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by XBLadez: 6:59am On Mar 05, 2015 |
OREMUSSANCTUS:Picture of hymen mad man!!! 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 7:02am On Mar 05, 2015 |
[size=20pt] One major thing you need to do before making any decision.[/size] Have an indepth discussion with the two guys. Know their plans for the future and where and how they place you in that future. When you do so, you'll know the one to stick with. 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by cutiepie01(f): 7:06am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Beverlyjean:Ok |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 7:07am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Lol! What kinda Virgins roam Naija When I was 20 year old virgin no man had seen my naked body. I couldn't look men in the eyes and you're dating and handling two men. Let me cll it Bull.Shi! Anyway you cheated. You boyfriend should leave you. Lastly you don't love your boyfriend because you upgraded your mumu. All_The_Ladies #put your hands up! Try single life and self respect 2 Likes |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by AndyMolarAllwel(m): 7:08am On Mar 05, 2015 |
*****WISDOM***** my dear i undstd ur plight coz u ar a novice in d LOVE-MAKING. le me condemn both first: UR BF: ur bf stays abroad most tyms & u still trust him like God, well, Its possible shall, it cud be true u trust him if u hv smart device monitoring him with full GPRS lol. This guy is 23 & u ar 21 (hahahah) I laf in sakwoto. THE NEW GUY: it cud be true dat dis new guy wants to sacrifice all he has to make love with a virgin. *be careful with him** THE TRUTH FRM MY UNDSTDING. u still love ur bf bcoz he is d first man in ur life. with time u will get to appreciate d importance of ATTENTION IN R/SHIP. for me, a bird in hand (new guy) worth more than thousands in d bush(ur bf), frm experience. Only if u ar not yet ready for marriage for atleast in d nxt 5yrs u can remain with him (bird in d bush). if u ar not.....(bird @hand). Reason bcoz he (new guy) may hv immediate intention for u looking at his age & hw serious he is. ISSUE OF TELLING U TO LEAVE UR BF. i undstd, almost 90% of men will tell u dat, & d truth remains d truth (bcoz u hv divided Love attention datz y u ar yet to love him d way u ought to). taking note of his caring&attention, datz wat evry woman enjoy both in r/ship & marital life. Coz of much story, dnt let d second guy GO coz he possess d quality of a serious man at FIRST SITE, take time & study him like ur degree project work, i think he is more preferable. gudluck dear... 2 Likes |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by fuckerholic(m): 7:08am On Mar 05, 2015 |
ZedX6: Are you a psychologist,sociologist or lawyer ? |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by fuckerholic(m): 7:09am On Mar 05, 2015 |
For me I will advise you leave both guys..be very angry with them for coming at once to confuse you. 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Jok3r(m): 7:11am On Mar 05, 2015 |
My dear u av d ans 2 ur qstns. Its al arnd u. U av d greata power 2 dcid 4 urself falconey: |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by XBLadez: 7:13am On Mar 05, 2015 |
zaralady:My dear, the new guy is ready to settle down. A guy who has nothing good in his mind for a girl won't take her to meet the parents! That's just one secret about men that u may not know. Granted, the parents of the mature guy likes the confused virgin and call her 'daughter'. Don't u understand what that means? It means they accept her! The other one is abroad, schooling. What's the possibility that after graduation he would still love his 'Naija babe'? And don't forget he hasn't taken her to meet the parents yet, and nobody can say they'd accept her if he eventually does. Their age is close and their educational difference is wide. These are factors too 2 Likes |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by olajosy: 7:14am On Mar 05, 2015 |
My dear virgin Mary, do u think u can eat ur cake and av it? My candid advice is 4u 2repent 4rm double dating cos d kingdom of God is @hand. U can continue if u think u can kill 2birds wit a stone ooo cos no1 knows d advise u'll 4low after d end of dis season film we're featuring... U don't realy knows wat u av now until u lose it 2a serious, uncheatable and reliable lady... |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by ibnquasale(m): 7:14am On Mar 05, 2015 |
At your age you are already double dating. Thunder wey go fire you and your advisers ( including those on this thread) is presently under studying Amadioha You come dey use virginity dey deceive people for here |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by VivaLaFrans: 7:14am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Please ooo Beverlyjean, follow your head, your boyfriend is still a boy because he is not yet a working class. Or is he an Enterpreneur? Get married ooo, or you may regret it.... Better start loving the second guy who is READY to take you to the altar. Tosyne2much you were right. 3 Likes |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by XBLadez: 7:15am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Dimples192:*spits*!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Jennifer89(f): 7:16am On Mar 05, 2015 |
forget that your young boyfriend he may break ur heart any moment. 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 7:18am On Mar 05, 2015 |
naijaboiy: at op, congratulations to you. your first post (as beverlyjean) on nairaland made the front page. this quoted post is the best advice you can get from a matured mind. especially from a married man. u are still young (21), your first boyfriend (23) is also young. trust me, he doesn't really know what relationship is all about and d probability of dumping u in future is so high. d new guy(30) is what i call ready for marriage. no matter how he pretends, study the parents when you are with them, their relationship together (and with your new guy) will give you an idea how you will be treated if you follow your head. the way you also met is a sign that he might just be d one for u. talking from experience. my wife also had a similar issue. we are now married for 6 years with 2 lovely kids and everyday she is happy she went with the new guy i hope you are not pitying the first guy 2 Likes |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by JoeCutie(m): 7:18am On Mar 05, 2015 |
zaralady:I get your point, it's absolutely spot on. But then, that "use" of the common sense is actually what we see as the common sense itself. Unlike what the name suggests, it's not common at all. I think 'common sense' is not common. But you're wicked sha. 3 Likes |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by fuckerholic(m): 7:18am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Beverlyjean: Go ask a prophet for authentic information because all these advices her are all speculations which is dicey..if not I will ask you what is your point ? Do you just need someone to get married to or someone to hang with as in mere love affair ? If the former I will advice you you discharge both but if the later,thengo with you BF..all the same, go ask IFA ! |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by XBLadez: 7:18am On Mar 05, 2015 |
AreaFada2:Hahahahahahaha!! this dude is funny! |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by marketoro(m): 7:20am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Beverly my candid advice for u in a tym like dis is for u to pray to God to direct u to make d ryt decision....Since u are a virgin as u claimed I bliv ur prayers will be highly n quickly answered...Mean while Love comes from d heart n not head, if ur heart is with ur bf stay with him..my dear love is not all about showering of gifts but d intent of the guy showering d gifts..he might be doing dos tinx just to lure u to bed n afterward dump u...U need God now my Dear, just pray |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by drtwist(m): 7:21am On Mar 05, 2015 |
I took my time to read all comment ahead b4 commenting. Gal I think @ 21, a graduate u are old enough 4 marriage( ur choice). Though u love ur BF, but there is no guaranty that u will like to settle with him because he his still young and as time move further his taste of lady will improve from ur standard to someone else reason being he still have time. Also don't make the mistake of letting ur present guy knws u don't love him it shld b inside u(maturity). because even when u finally fall in love with him he will still b having that dout about u which will leta put u @ ur own risk. So and b mature girl. 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by drtwist(m): 7:21am On Mar 05, 2015 |
I took my time to read all comment ahead b4 commenting. Gal I think @ 21, a graduate u are old enough 4 marriage( ur choice). Though u love ur BF, but there is no guaranty that u will like to settle with him because he his still young and as time move further his taste of lady will improve from ur standard to someone else reason being he still have time. Also don't make the mistake of letting ur present guy knws u don't love him it shld b inside u(maturity). because even when u finally fall in love with him he will still b having that dout about u which will leta put u @ ur own risk. So try b mature girl. |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 7:22am On Mar 05, 2015 |
XBLadez:Yuk You uncivilised baboon |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Eberex(m): 7:22am On Mar 05, 2015 |
PRAY! PRAY!! PRAY !!! Or better still talk this through with your mother. And if you think you are too scared to seek her advice then i suggest you seek your spiritual director's advise. You should have a pastor or priest who you can pour your heart to than coming to Nairaland where you have both the good, the bad and the ugly. |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by kelvinnn(m): 7:23am On Mar 05, 2015 |
Wait for ur first love...he is matured enuf to take care of u....this other guy of 23yrs is still very young....hv patience, let the guy from abroad come back and stick to ur love. *surulere* |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by Nobody: 7:23am On Mar 05, 2015 |
naijaboiy:super mixed with classic...u nailed it! 1 Like |
Re: In Need Of An Experienced Advice Pls!!! Should I Follow My Head Or Heart by XBLadez: 7:25am On Mar 05, 2015 |
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