First of all i thank God for bbb he gave me.after my wife delivery my wife decide to visit home.On my little budget i decide to buy four wrappers(<strong>high target ) for #10000.one each for my Wife, my mother,my mother Inlaw and for woman that help my wife to bath new born baby.I decided to inform my wife about my plan. But my wife said she need judge that worth #6000,brouse that worth #1500,and #1000 to sew the brouse. This got me confused .The problem here is that i don't have enough money to do that because expenses during omugwo.Please advice me what to do.Please i need good advice not bashing.

Your wife should know your present financial ability, so discuss with her. It is well

First of all, BIG CONGRATULATIONS on the delivery of your Bouncing Baby Boy! Fatherhood is a thing of joy. I feel you bro.

Now to the issue on hand. If I may ask, is your wife well at all? Yes she can and has the right to demand ANYTHING considering what she passed through during childbirth BUT she should be in the best position to know your present financial status. It's selfish of her to make those demands!

My only advice is for you to calmly, I repeat, calmly explain to her the present circumstances and how impossible it is for you to afford those stuffs for now. However, promise her that you will give her the money as soon as possible AND PLEASE mean it.

E go better...

My brother, next time buy what was within your budget and give it to her. If she doesn't like it, she will only sulk and be moody for 2weeks at most.

But if you go ahead telling her before you buy it, you will have some headache and might even regret the good will plan you have in mind. For now do what she asked and look for something else and get for your in law/ your mom. The mistake has been made already.

Congratulates on your new arrival bro and say hi to your wife for me.

Wetin be the question again?

timbros:
First of all, BIG CONGRATULATIONS on the delivery of your Bouncing Baby Boy! Fatherhood is a thing of joy. I feel you bro.

Now to the issue on hand. If I may ask, is your wife well at all? Yes she can and has the right to demand ANYTHING considering what she passed through during childbirth BUT she should be in the best position to know your present financial status. It's selfish of her to make those demands!

My only advice is for you to calmly, I repeat, calmly explain to her the present circumstances and how impossible it is for you to afford those stuffs for now. However, promise her that you will give her the money as soon as possible AND PLEASE mean it.

E go better...

Thank you very much. Happy to know there is still knowlegable people on NL again.

uprightman:
Thank you very much. Happy to know there is still knowlegable people on NL again.

Anytime bro