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Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by cacali(f): 2:45pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
iamNotAlone:My dear first of all, u must understand that there is no ideal man and no ideal woman. These are just perceptions we have of what a life partner shld be. U said that the men currently interested in u r not ur ideal men, so what makes u so sure that u r the ideal woman for the guys in ur office. Who knows they may be looking for the exact opposite of ur features. Be a little more open minded and don't limit itself to ur office. Who knows ur man maybe waiting for u in the church, ur street, in the market etc. Funny enough he might even be somebody u currently don't like (happened to me). So my candid advice to u is to ask God to put u in the path of that man that he has chosen for u. And really let him do d choosing. All the best dear. To find life partner no easy. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by MizMyColi(f): 2:46pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
iamNotAlone: Truly Bae, I can relate with all you wrote up there. I wonder why they won't just make a move! ![]() They keep assuming till their names become Assumpta. Meanwhile we're free like over-sized boxers ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Well, I've learnt that there should be no rushing in these things. If it ought to be, then it will be. Who knows...... Those times when we feel so lonely, it's prolly best for us. And when all the guys avoid us for fear that we're taken.....that could also be the Universe's way of prunning the nogooders and outright bad ones from our lives. So, until we experience that miracle that is without compare (Being in True Love with that special someone) I say we just keep living and learning. Getting better, for ourselves, the man we'd love and our world as we know it. While purposing in our hearts to be at state of equilibrium, inner joy and peace --- at every twist and turn. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Nobody: 2:46pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
iamNotAlone: I am not oooo. I'm being pragmatic |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by liminister: 2:47pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
always be good, caring, respectful, and a litle bit quiet an clean. this'll attract me as a guy. |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Odunharry(m): 2:49pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
prettythicksme:how you take know? you are wrong.... so if a guy doesn't approach a babe means he is bad mouthing her? Na wah o 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by fitinwell: 2:49pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
The hairy parts might need to do the needful.. Shave dos public areas and leave d private... For more secured bizness. |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by humilitypays(m): 2:50pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
@Iamnotalone, I am going to be honest with u based on experience as a guy, so read and make amendment where necessary. 1st: guys hate and avoid any lady who hardly smile and always forming busy and serious- try and be putting up friendly smile and look, loosen up...be free, interact with guys not just in your workplace but in your environment. Note: pls be mindful of going into a relationship with guys working in same company with u, it rarely end well. Secondly, be informed too that single guys don't easily approach ladies who always dress too flashy/flambuoyant like she's going for a stage performance...sometimes dress simple and casual...if not single guys will only be admiring u from afar without making move while married men & playboys with lots of experience and confidence when it comes to wooing ladies will be the majority of guys coming to woo u. Lastly, you need to also watch your attitude and lifestyle as regards to pride and arrogance towards people around u, this always scare good men with good intention away from a lady. Don't also forget the spiritual factor- pray to God...don't tell pastor or afar, talk to your maker and stop worrying, the right person will soon come, have faith n believe. Wish u the best. 3 Likes |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Nobody: 2:50pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Go to church. Or marry a man from your village 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Eluwilussit(m): 2:50pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
iamord: You don't think so? Ask Hilary Clinton or all the other top celebs. Everybody, men and women, can do irresponsible stuff at one point or the other. The degree and frequency of irresponsibility is what separates one from another. Nobody is 100% irresponsible and no one is 100% responsible in every aspect of life. Life is a mixture of everything. My opinion. |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Nobody: 2:50pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
You can always make the first move. It's 21st century ma'am. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Nobody: 2:51pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Odunharry:oh u mean say dem no get liver that is y none of them havent approach her or what? |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Kianiabene: 2:51pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Ok call or send whom to have excellent joy with you 08138437539. Happy to hearing from you. |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Jennifer89(f): 2:52pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
op it is not yet your time. how long have you been single? |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by DAIL(m): 2:53pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
sinaj:coach |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by DAIL(m): 2:57pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
iamNotAlone:my candid advice f**k every dude that comes ur way until they make u a permanent resident. ..trust me this work: that y all d bad gals r getting married 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Odunharry(m): 2:58pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
see ladies viewing the thread.. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by IsaacBuchi(m): 2:58pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
iamNotAlone: @iamnotalone, wat is all dis? pick one guy on this thread, fall in love and let's end this trauma. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by frenjopete: 2:59pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
I will like to know your definition of an ideal man... |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by richidinho(m): 3:00pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
iamNotAlone: Pishure ......or idonbilivit |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Odunharry(m): 3:00pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
prettythicksme:they are taken or married Jare....make she check herself jo 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by 1miccza: 3:01pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
iamNotAlone: Maybe your demeanour says that, have you Op by any means told any of them such when they tried to approach you?? |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by humilitypays(m): 3:03pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
cacali:God bless you cacall. You nailed it. We humans do act selfish- we want Mr. Or Mrs Right but we don't ever bother to check ourselves if we are Mr. Or Miss Right to compliment the other person. And I have also noticed this: ladies always limit themselves to their immediate environment without giving men in other environment an opportunity. Her Mr. Right might be waiting for her in her hometown, maternal home, church, a friend's street, in a public bus, or any strange place but she has already configured her mind to believe that her Mr. Right should be in her workplace...and therefore any other guy coming to approach her from a different environment is wasting time because he is not coming from her workplace. Many single ladies make this same mistake- they underrate guys they meet in certain environment or location who maybe their Mr. Right while giving utmost priority to some guys in their choice environment or location who maybe their Mr. Wrong! So op, open your mind...good men are everywhere, not just in your workplace, abi na Shell ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by profstar(m): 3:03pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Skillfullulu: stop sugaring it, SHE DEFINATELY HAS PRIDE, i am 100% sure of it. 2 Likes |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by 1miccza: 3:04pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Eluwilussit: So being irresponsible at one point or the other is something that must happen to everyone isn't it ![]() |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Nobody: 3:04pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
go to the man you want and take him by force. simple 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Ferguson7(m): 3:08pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Remove Pride & socialize 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by iykedare(m): 3:11pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
MizMyColi: You can be the one to make the move. There is absolutely nothing wrong if you do that. Give the guy some nasty `green light`. Getting such from my place of work and I will ........ 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by ladyabadi(f): 3:11pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
I once worked in an office where all the males saw me as unapproachable and too hard.it got to a point that they where even debating on whether I know how to cook. Anyway, I did my home work by just being me, more friendly and attentive to pple around me and their problems.maybe you dress too sophisticated and carry yourself in a way that passes the wrong message.my advice....pay attention to the pple around you. For me, sometimes I do not remember names but I make you feel I know you so well especially the junior staff. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Ajinoride(m): 3:12pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
iamNotAlone:BE A RESPOSIBLE GIRL, LEARN TO BE OF HELP TO ELDERLY COUPLES. ANF YOUR OWN WILL COME. ABOVE ALL... GIVE YOUR LIFE TO CHRIST |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Nobody: 3:13pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Just relax, but Make sure U smile always... Make sure Your DENTITION has a good sanitation. I just met a young pretty Lady, few weeks ago. Feel in Love with her, though I have been MONITORING her for sometime now. She has a Nice set of DENTITION and INFECTIOUS smile.. We are great friends now. She is prudent, charismatic, beautiful, elegant, with profound decorum, talks less, dresses well, good family background. My people ,just loved her at first sight. So READ through and FIX yourself where necessary. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by richidinho(m): 3:13pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
[b][/b]Prophet Iginla: there is a lady in this church, a gentleman proposed to him last week, but she threw the ring away and advise the guy to try next door come out let me talk to u The lady cam out Lady: am the one sir Prophet Iginla: what happened? Lady: I don't just like the guy for anything, he can't take care of me Prophet Iginla: that was a very big mistake u made there, u need to call him and apologize immediately u get home bc he is not only ur perfect man, his future is very bright, in fact I see him in a convoy Lady: (rolling on the floor with tears) thank you sir 1 Like |
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