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Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Patented: 3:14pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
simple, be a responsible and approachable woman. Be more accessible without becoming cheap. if u got any airs about yourself, drop them |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by solihu(m): 3:16pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
![]() ![]() ![]() I take God beg u get a shaving stick! Particularly when u are on navel revealing top ![]() Perhaps this is what the OP meant by being hairy too ![]() ![]() Lord knows a nigga can lace 'em hairs ![]() RollySexy: |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Dronedude(m): 3:18pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Actually dear you are not fine or you have a serious problem that reduces your ego and trust. Honestly, a girl your description should be worried of how to disperse the lots of guys wooing her and how she can spot the right one. You Need Help Bae...You Fvcking do!!! 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Nobody: 3:21pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
It is not enough to be beautiful and hairy like you mentioned, do you attract the right people? Do you have a good character? Do you value people? Do you insult men or talk bad against them? you really need to work on yourself. iamNotAlone: 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Eluwilussit(m): 3:24pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
1miccza: It is part of life. Nobody has it all figured out all the time. We would be Angels if we did. Humans are prone to Bleep ups. Everyone. As long as you know how to clean up and move ahead and not get stuck on the same shit all the time. Life is imperfect. We must live in it imperfectly. What you might call irresponsible in your clime, may not be so in another. We all do irresponsible things every now and then. Even apostle Paul, said so himself. He lamented that he was doing everything he wasn't supposed to do, while neglecting all the things he should do. He even bemoaned himself for that. I like to see the good side of everyone. Actually, what you look for, will determine what you see. Everyone is a mixture of virtues and vices. It is natural. |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by ELGREF(m): 3:25pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Can we talk on phone? |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Hazardd(m): 3:26pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
debolly:so, is only a guy is meant to do the approach first? *Smh to your mentality* 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Acekidc4(m): 3:26pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Tallesty1: Your Post is what we call Story of My Life!! Arrrghhhh!!! So Boring!!! 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by sinaj(f): 3:27pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
DAIL:boss |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by sinaj(f): 3:28pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Adamsynox:i dnt undastnd u boss. |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by mentorandfriend(m): 3:29pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
vfactor:Lol!!! |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by collarfreak(m): 3:29pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
iamNotAlone:we share similar experience..amready for marriage if you don't mind let chat on wattaspp.08068145415.thx for adding me up God bless |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Acekidc4(m): 3:29pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
rokiatu: See who is giving Advice oh!! God of Mercy!! Are u friendly yourself?? Nonsense!! 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by MizMyColi(f): 3:31pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
iykedare: Last I checked..... This is Africa....Nigeria. Our beliefs affects our DNA. There is a deeply ingrained mentality that has been passed down from centuries of generations. It is Okay to do the green lighty stuff.... But never ask a man out, never make the boldest move. Let it be his decision to make. Let him be the one who comes for you. It is good for his and your "pride" (However they interpreted it back then). With all my "emancipation" from religion and our so-called "BackWard" thinking....... There are iotas of truths in that statement, however it is presented. It might work for others, but not for me. And I am not discouraging anyone who wants to do so......I'm prolly just being overly conservative. I have tried it before.......I almost got burned, NO. I got burned. It is not my place to go after a man. If the feeling is mutual........... ![]() ![]() ![]() Well, he knows what to do. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Nobody: 3:31pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Lol I hearote author=solihu post=31521321] ![]() ![]() ![]() I take God beg u get a shaving stick! Particularly when u are on navel revealing top ![]() Perhaps this is what the OP meant by being hairy too ![]() ![]() Lord knows a nigga can lace 'em hairs ![]() |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Acekidc4(m): 3:32pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
farano: Hey Farano I ve sinned against U, 4give me. Now dat's wat I call a good Advice!! |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by MzQueen(f): 3:32pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
True rokiatu: |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by CONTROLi(m): 3:38pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Be Yourself or Dont Be Yourself Is Not Necessarily The Case Becoz I Think No Woman Is Unaware Of Herself, Nor Her Impact.. Secondly I Think No Serious Man Follows A Woman For Her Beauty, Becoz Beauty Is The Door, Not The House.. But dat hairy thing dey scatter my head well well hahaha, difficult to find such babes hmmm.. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Acekidc4(m): 3:38pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
PunkyOh: This more like a Sellout!! Are u actually advising her to sell out her Ego? Cmon datz Gross!! She should just be herself Finish, d right guy will come by sooner dan she expected!! Adios sister!!! |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by CaptPlanet(m): 3:40pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by 1miccza: 3:43pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Eluwilussit: You know you are sort of giving a free gate pass to irresponsibility i believe as individuals we might have some momentary vices not necessarily sex but others but giving it a free pass and making examples with people like the ones you've quoted makes it look like it's a normal life which shouldn't be it isn't normal.... |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by PrinceBYC: 3:45pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Dear OP, I want to assume you've got a proper definition of your "Ideal" man. Some of the advises/steps provided above would help you 'attract' the man. However, I wish to add that you need to do even more to RETAIN him. You need the right attitude and character to achieve this. I pray that God will settle and perfect all that concerns you this year! Amen. |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Nobody: 3:46pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
![]() Patience gal Appear approachable... Dont just say hi and end the talk Ask further, create an atmosphere for longer talks. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by CaptPlanet(m): 3:46pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Smile. Show that green light esp to the guy you're more interested in. Give the brothers some encouragement. |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Josephamstrong1(m): 3:47pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
...So simple swtie, juz turn in2 bee. |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Nobody: 3:54pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Be ursef....Smile, be polite.. |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
chidyhels: [b]SIMPLE!!! Nice one dear, u sound like a keeper... ![]() |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Tino86(m): 3:56pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
humilitypays:GBAM!! BEST ADVICE EVER ON THIS THREAD. like seriously @ op u gat to read and adhere strictly to this. 1 Like |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by vega84(m): 3:57pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Hazardd: |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Eluwilussit(m): 4:00pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
1miccza: I know what you mean. Unfortunately, at the state of nature, we are all like that. That's why we made laws and rules to guide us. We are perpetually striving to achieve goodness. Life on its own, is full of crap. Crappier than you would imagine. Man is not a finished product. Ours is a life of struggle. Struggle between what's right and what's wrong. That's what separates us from all other animals. Sometimes, some people get it right, while others fail. But be rest assured, nobody, and I mean nobody, has it all together. We only assume from a distance, that the other person is better or cooler. All we need to do is to appreciate what we have and who we are. Be tolerant of others. Don't judge harshly. People have the right to make mistakes. Some learn from them, others don't. As per Bleep up, even the bible says that the righteous falls 7 times and yet he will rise each time. If the bible recognizes that even the righteous will fall, then we need to forgive people of their stupidity. I am not endorsing irresponsible acts, but there's no man or woman alive, that doesn't do something irresponsible once in a while. It is beyond man to be perfect. Yet, we must strive towards perfection daily. |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by oluwadamilolah(f): 4:02pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
VenusBetty:yea, u are right, men doesn't like women that are too independent. But how did u know she's independent |
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by chillingbabe: 4:03pm On Mar 11, 2015 |
Girl you're not alone..Most men just see me and assume i'm taken....It aint easy, Loll ![]() ![]() |
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