I don't know if I'm the only one that have noticed this

When some guys spend on ladies, it gives them massive boast of confidence to initiate sex afterwards

When many of them have not spent a penny on you, they try to be gentlemen but as soon as they provide your needs or settle your bills, it increases their ego and they exhibit nothing-goes-for-nothing character

Note: I'm not trying to say every guy does this cos it will be silly of me to generalize

Bashers and derailers are all welcomed


Please air your views

Because no one knows tomorrow.

It makes sense to eat wot u cld before the lady carry her yeye body to give another person wey she think is worthy of it...

Girls are known to like free things and deride the one who even fed them fat...

Now, thats the case.

it depends on d relationship u av wid d guy...

The same reason the ladies allowed themselves to be spent on, is the reason the guy want himself to feel the bleep.

Unless you come from Venus, nothing goes for nothing- action and reaction and reaction- equal and opposite forces.

Its cos that's what they wanted all along. They feel spending some money will justify the sex (if they get it). More like paying for sex ; a lot of ladies actually get paid (directly or indirectly) for sex. So its disappointing for some guys when they spend a whole lot of cash and get no cookie in return; a peck/French-kiss/smooch won't even cut it.
A lot of ladies know this tho

When its not as if I begged to b spent on,,


At the end_its still a mans world

ivyT:
When its not as if I begged to b spent on,,


At the end_its still a mans world

That's it

Because we think sex can be bought wit money.

No, ladies don't beg to be spent on. They're not beggars. What they do is say that "I need this...." or "I need that...." or "I'm broke", or tell some story that appeals to pity.....ultimately implying that they want money. If the guys doesn't give, they'll politely move on to the next.
(Note: not all ladies do this tho )

dharay99:


ur head dey dia...

My head dey there because I tok say _ its a mans world abi?



*searches for my ak47*

ivyT:



My head dey there because I tok say _ its a mans world abi?



*searches for my ak47*

oya na, yhu sabi run...

.

WTF is all this he wants sex this he wants sex that, can't two people have sex with no string attached and do their normal business? I hate sentimental minded folks

to avoid been a mugu to avoid been a mugu

we all pay for sex. either u pay for it immediately as those ladies in brotels wud or u do so in form of recharge cards, shopping, ice cream or what have u.

if u as a chic know u dont want to give a guy sex, dont collect his money.

does he look like father christmas to u.

even in 9ja bf u go see father christmas u go drop get fee.

when u "invest" is it wrong to expect dividens

even in free-town ,there is no free lunch

They (girls) make it so. When you hear things like; "He wants osho for free abi". You start to think otherwise.

Who doesn't want to reap whats he/she sows...??

If a nigga is spending on you and you have no prior friendship, be ready to give up that poo-c. If you ain't ready gonna give it up, don't collect. It's all transactional baby.

MissAdeife:
most guys believe in money for hand ,back for ground

nice butts

MissAdeife:
most guys believe in money for hand ,back for ground

Oh yeah. If this is really you on DP, I think you are Okay.

Meanwhile your reiteration of that cliche adage doesn't fit the personality on the dp.

maybe he feels he is collecting what he paid for...

[color=#000099][/color]I will say not all guy who Spend on girl need any thing in return depend on the mind set of of the guy some guy are like natureally while some guy are not like that I will say not all guy who Spend on girl need any thing in return depend on the mind set of of the guy some guy are like natureally while some guy are not like that