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Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 10:19am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Sophyrocks:courts in Nigeria can't do much oh...they work on what the guy is willing to share or part with... why are women going into marriages with poverty? 1 Like |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 10:20am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Emaprince: There are many women who have adopted. Many peple have used sperm donors. It wont be a big deal if all of men stay away from marriage. we women will take as the norm and adjust accordingly. We will only be concerned about kids and not you men. So No problem. Since you've gt it all figured out, why is this topic burning you up? |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Busuyib(f): 10:21am On Mar 30, 2015 |
ferdimako:ladies dat marries rich guys cos of money, na dem sabi. Am married 2 my heartbeat. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 10:26am On Mar 30, 2015 |
ferdimako: Ask the women in poverty and yourselves too. Why do you men marry women from poverty stricken homes? 1 Like |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 10:26am On Mar 30, 2015 |
nortcentrallord: If you look. The amount of poverty is high in Nigeria and the affected people is mostly the women. Can you imagine this., I have to divide my hard earn money. Which I and I alone work for it. NIGERIA WOMEN AND THERE MENTALIY, ALWAYS THINKING Of WAY TO SUCK MEN DRY. 2 Likes |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 10:29am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Busuyib:Good for you. If he misbehaves in the future and u want a judgement...u head to court and not that who didn't do a registry marriage isn't allowed to sue. Anybody can sue or be sued. |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 10:33am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Sophyrocks:To help them...if they say rich guys should marry rich women only...omo eh...Oso ataa! But u can't dictate the tune when u are just the Piper. |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 10:43am On Mar 30, 2015 |
ferdimako: So why the crying out in the end if these same women are to claim your properties? The men flash all these riches at their faces so why cry foul? |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 10:48am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Sophyrocks:flash? u come in and see riches...how can a rich guy flash his wealth on a poor soul?...u were just overwhelmed and now want to call the tune. That is not fair! 1 Like |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 10:55am On Mar 30, 2015 |
ferdimako: How will a woman come in if she didnt see the riches flashed at her face. All men with ego who have money flaunt it. He will flaunt it anywhere he goes. dnt pretend men dnt have their roles they play. Money is worshipped in nigeria. What do you mean by call the tune? Men who make money, who have they been making it for? is it not for women and children? why has it suddenly become a crime for your wife and kids to have a share from your properties? That means your making money has been in vain. If thats the case, let all men carry their money to the grave or dnt bother working at all to render themselves useless.. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Sleekyshuga(f): 11:16am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Sunnypar:Chineke .. I didn't even see this ! Brother, why choose my thread to advertise your topic, biko kwanu ? What I asked was for your humble opinion on the issue @ hand, and not some research on why not to get married.. Pls, make use of the 'Create A Topic' Handle.. Twill suit you better.. God bless.. |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 11:23am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Sophyrocks:Haha...she must have seen the wealth ahead and concluded marrying even before the proposal. Anyway...rich men take care of their wives and kids. Even poor or not-so-rich husbands try their best. Wives can't remind men what is good but wives want to take over the wealth...that's the thing. Enjoy what u get or go make more if u are discontented. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Sleekyshuga(f): 11:30am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Sophyrocks:Or they should kiss marriage goodbye.. Btw, it isn't meant for everyone.. If trusting the one lady you'll live your life for isn't worth it, then, don't bother going in.. I asked a question which no one has answered. Going by possession (since that's the part most men here are trolling), what if the lady/woman/wife is wealthier?? |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 11:35am On Mar 30, 2015 |
ferdimako: I am telling you that there is no man with ego who has riches that doesnt flaunt it in the presence of women especially if he is a womanizer. so i will take it that you cnt accept the truth. Wives do not strive to take over wealth for they know that parts of it are to go to the kids. In fact, thats the major concern of every woman except she is just a golddigger. But whose fault is it that a man ends up with a gold digger? Its no one but his. Only a f00lish man whoo gets carried away with beauty, b00bs and a$$ fall into the traps of golddiggers. Its left for you men to look well before leaping. Make good choices of wives. shikena!! |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 11:35am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Sleekyshuga:Hardly u see women coming in with their wealth. From where sef? Anyway if she has she will be looking for a rich guy. I don't think a guy will sue his wife for the sole aim of getting her wealth. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 11:37am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Sophyrocks:Men get all the blame all the time. Rich men don't marry real wives...that is the prize they pay. 1 Like |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 11:41am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Sleekyshuga: Exactly. Marriage is nt by force. It isnt doorway to the kingdom of God. Its nt everybody that is well suited for marriage so if they see that they cnt share any of their possessions, they should remain single. Dnt mind them. They have forgotten there are many women who earn more than their husbands. I guess to them its a sin for a woman to be richer. |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 11:45am On Mar 30, 2015 |
ferdimako: Gbam. So nobody should cry foul. Men get women who could stand by them when they had nothing. Things start getting rosy and the men decide their women are too old or not their class. then they end up with gold diggers. They forget their riches attract gold diggers. If they are married, they start cheating and spending millions on wh0res. And when they die, the same wh0res upgraded to baby mamas have shares in their wealth. So you see. You men make your money for women. I wonder why you men bother so much about women taking your wealth when you chase these same women everyday. |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Sleekyshuga(f): 11:48am On Mar 30, 2015 |
ferdimako:Hardly, you say? Funny you!! I have loads and loads of examples.. Presently, my kid sis course mate (a boy) will be getting married by April (next month). Sponsor: Girl + her parents. Another is coming up by June.. Sponsor: The lady and her parents.. @ Boldened: The younger guys jump @ that option @ every given chance that surfaces.. Ever asked yourself why would a young boy settle down for a 70 years old woman? Still rare ?? |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 11:49am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Sophyrocks:The wiser men don't want it and the women can't understand. All men are not the same. |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 11:55am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Sleekyshuga:For papers if it is abroad...the ladies here must be old...no option for now.They divorce later though. |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Sleekyshuga(f): 11:56am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Sophyrocks:Dad will always tell us: The way ladies chase after all-ready made men is the same way men chase after all-ready made women.. Gone are the days when men settle for liabilities, and vice versa.. A lady should be a product of who she represent; wealth, knowledge, ideas etc. My dad gave lots of examples of ladies who made their men (now husbands) who they are today.. |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 11:59am On Mar 30, 2015 |
Sleekyshuga:We appreciate when ladies are bright and educated..if those translate to wealth..fine. But is the talent only to make men? Few men are gold diggers but the women involved must have been old with some sort of milk cow. Not necessarily her cow. |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Sleekyshuga(f): 12:01pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
ferdimako:And the old lady has no possession? Just the paper? No, Sir.. Ooogh!!! They divorce, still ? So, why are you getting pissed @ the ladies? Sometimes, you meet your kind of people.. A greedy man entangles with a greedy lady.. |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Sleekyshuga(f): 12:04pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
ferdimako:A bright lady's idea can help her husband's venture.. A bright lady's success rubs on her soul mate (which is her husband), and kids.. A bright lady's connection can uplift her man.. A bright lady succeeds... Her husband succeeds.. |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 12:04pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
Sleekyshuga:Most guys who marry 70-yr-olds do that abroad and largely for papers. I'm not pissed at ladies..I want the type for building the house together and that is what I will have or... 1 Like |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 12:07pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
Sleekyshuga:Let it transcend in monetary values if u worry on his finances most. That is my point! Not you are educated and he must be rich follows...go get d cash too. Rubbing off on the kids, we see that and appreciate..not what to sue sb for. |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Sleekyshuga(f): 12:08pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
ferdimako:The papers + her wealth inclusive .. Then, work towards it .. |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 12:08pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
Sleekyshuga: Thank God you brought these examples. I have an uncle whose wife made him a manager in a bank by her connections. I even see how men are now hammering on marrying ladies who have jobs. No more liabilities. so what do these men making noise here have to say about that? In cases where both husbands and wives share properties together and even contribute equally financially, you wont see all these grammer peeps are blowing here. You would even be surprised that men who have women feeding them are here making noise. Gold digging is in men as much as it is in women jare. |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Sleekyshuga(f): 12:16pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
ferdimako:Where you get my point(s) wrong.. I was never of the opinion that an educated lady must marry a very wealthy man.. "Every lady to your own". I was more concerned with ladies who are wealthier, though few but they still do exist. Btw, marriage comes with its own blessing.. |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 12:17pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
Sleekyshuga:No that was before... I'm marrying a Nigerian here in Nigeria. Not for her wealth but for the fact she's learned and willing to start a union with muah. |
Re: Would You Agree To A Court Marriage? by Nobody: 12:19pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
Sleekyshuga:OK...I was talking abt those who get educated and bleach up..then start making list of demands. |
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