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Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by MrCrackles(m): 1:02am On Jan 28, 2009 |
spoilt: It is barbaric isnt it! ![]() |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by osisi2(f): 1:03am On Jan 28, 2009 |
spoilt: and then in a survey,the woman tells you she deserved it. that's worse in my opinion. I think the women are even more stupid than their abusers I guess they've already been whipped into shape |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by chika98: 1:03am On Jan 28, 2009 |
MrCrackles:Good for you! ![]() spoilt:Is this news?? I swear Nigerian mentality is so backwards |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by 4Play(m): 1:05am On Jan 28, 2009 |
spoilt: Yes, 4% say they were flogged. I remember when we were in secondary school, one guy said his dad had a cane he uses for whipping his mother. He wasn't speaking metaphorically. Sisi Jinx: Leave am, make im dey jealous our mutual love. See as Morenike and I kiss and make up already? ![]() |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by spoilt(f): 1:06am On Jan 28, 2009 |
Havent these women heard of arsenic? ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by osisi2(f): 1:07am On Jan 28, 2009 |
The main issue of the thread IMHO is why these individuals would say that they deserved these ill treatments That is the main issue that ought to be addressed. we already know some men act like wild animals |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by chika98: 1:08am On Jan 28, 2009 |
spoilt:lmao! |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by 4Play(m): 1:08am On Jan 28, 2009 |
Apparently, in-laws are responsible for a quarter of the beatings. |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by SisiJinx: 1:09am On Jan 28, 2009 |
HeatFusion: Sadly physical abuse not only leaves visible scars on the body, it also wrecks the psyche. You'd be surprised to know how many abused women (no matter how educated) sincerely believe they deserve to be beaten. It's their way of dealing with the fact that someone who claims to LOVE them takes pleasure in hurting them. This is why removing a woman from the abusive environment is just the beginning, intense Psychological treatment has to follow. . . unfortunately it is not available in Nigeria. |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by chika98: 1:09am On Jan 28, 2009 |
4 Play:how so? |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by Nobody: 1:10am On Jan 28, 2009 |
**osisi:exactly!! Maybe they were thought that their husband is always right, no matter what. And 4Play, my question remains unanswered. How many of these pregnant women were surveyed and does the survey specified their region? |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by osisi2(f): 1:10am On Jan 28, 2009 |
spoilt: afterall they are the ones cooking and serving the meals there must be some barks of trees in Zaria that have strong otapiapia |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by Nobody: 1:15am On Jan 28, 2009 |
Sisi Jinx:1. LOLOL!!! Love, such nonsense. Do you think some of these women are in a polygamous family? Trying to console themselves that they did something wrong and that their husband still loves them? 2. It indeed is a sad thing when in Nigeria, even the parent of the woman finds it okay for their son-in-law to "teach" his wife for misbehaving. Just so he wouldn't send her packing, disgracing their family name. |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by SisiJinx: 1:17am On Jan 28, 2009 |
There are abused White and Black women here in the US and UK who will tell you their abuse is their own doing. I made him angry, I spoke too loud, I put too much salt, I didn't get out of his way quickly enough. . . excuses after excuses for why their husbands gave them a black eye or broke their ribs and the last I checked, these women where not affiliated to a certain religion or group. PHYSICAL ABUSE OF WOMEN IS NOT PECULIAR TO A CERTAIN TRIBE OR RELIGION and any attempt to make it so is just taking away from the real issue hand. |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by SisiJinx: 1:20am On Jan 28, 2009 |
HeatFusion: Very sad indeed and often times these women aren't from Polygamous homes. |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by Nobody: 1:24am On Jan 28, 2009 |
Sisi Jinx:And as you see it, you think these women's common sense might be hindered by the four letter word *whispers* L.O.V.E. I agree, somewhat. cheiiii, Ile aiye ti baje. Lol, must love be so painful. Then I guess, it indeed is blind ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by SisiJinx: 1:43am On Jan 28, 2009 |
Spouse abuse: Physician guidelines to identification, diagnosis, and management in the uniformed services Read more here HERE Please don't misunderstand me. . . I am not justifying abuse with this, I'm only attempting to show that the Psychological effects is universal, regardless of RACE, RELIGION, TRIBE, SIZE, HAIR COLOR OR LENGTH OF FINGER NAILS. |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by SisiJinx: 1:46am On Jan 28, 2009 |
HeatFusion: Bwahahahaha! My Aunt always says "Aaaaah! Ko baje fun Love". ![]() ![]() She is a family and marriage counselor . . . so she hears Osirisiri Stories. |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by Moonstone(f): 2:03am On Jan 28, 2009 |
Where's that arse-anal fan called debosky. i am not with 4play o! You ppl cannot break my happy home for me. Heatfusion - thank you jare. Please remind that arse to stop calling me that horrible name. @ Topic, most women are submissive because of their kids or because of society, not out of choice. Most women see it as an option to a happy home. |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by KarmaMod(f): 2:11am On Jan 28, 2009 |
Seeing that they are told from birth that merely being a female is enough for them to burn in hell, why wouldnt they agree with the beatings |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by JustGood(m): 2:09pm On Jan 28, 2009 |
Karma, come inside the house for your daily portion of flogging now. I'll make love to you after I have flogged you. Every woman deserves the kind of man she gets and vice versa. If you are unable to find a man willing to truly love you, it is because you are the kind that doesn't deserve it! karma, oya enter now now be4 I double the number of strokes you will recieve today ![]() |
Re: Who Said Naija Women Aren't Submissive? by TOYOSI20(f): 5:57am On Jan 29, 2009 |
@ Topic The Nigerian woman can be submissive, it essentially depends on the context. . . .what the situation is, the environment and the individual herself. . . .her level of education, and how much self esteem she packing so to speak. . . . .but personally i don't like the use of the word submissive. . . . cos in this context it seems they are being described as being submissive to a fault, which generally isn't the case!! |
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