See stress? I just came across this "super story" today in "the guardian" and I wuz hoping to get the reactions of most people about what their advice would be if they had the chance To advice either the guy or the girl! 1st check out the mindblowing story.............................
"I have been in love for the past
year with a wonderful lady and i recently proposed to her after 10 years of
me being " secretly bisexual" (though I had more female partners
than male) and we were to get married this summer. I was happy, excited and in love. She just
introduced me to her parents 3 months ago but unfortunately her father and I recognised each other from
a local gay cruising website of which we both used to use for hook ups. Her dad and I have been intimate on
about 3 or 4 occasions and we never expected to meet again or for this to happen. He has recently made secret
contact with me and asked me to tell his daughter (my fiancée)
about my sexuality but not our past. I asked him also if his wife knew
about his own, and now we have reached something of an
impasse. He has since taken screenshots of old
photos of me which he showed me For proof and I have also found some of his which I won't hesitate to show his wife too! Sadly my parents who my fiancee have met(and they loved her) also are not aware of this aspect of my life so this is also another problem I would encounter
if it all comes out!
Should I just walk away from the woman of my
dreams or hope that my to her honesty will save our love?
Lol! There u have it my people! Papa,mama, daughter, son in law, father and mother in law all in one big pot of soup! Ladies and gentlemen add your own maggi to this "sweet soup"!!!

What a weird, disgusting story.

all these lies you guys are sharing................Diaris god o!

u had sex wit ur babe's dad?..chai!op,dats rily bad...u beta don't tell ha o...because she z gonna feel very sad if she hears it!!

ginawest:
u had sex wit ur babe's dad?..chai!op,dats rily bad...u beta don't tell ha o...because she z gonna feel very sad if she hears it!!

Its not a new thing babe.

Bros, if you're going to tell her (like your would-be-inlaw adviced) then tell her EVERYTHING! I mean everything, including what you and her dad ever did, since that's what he wants. And I tell you, that 'might' really be your saving grace, because she 'might' consider the fact that she can't hate her dad (forever after all) and if she can forgive her dad, she 'might' as well find it easy to forgive you too (since she can't forgive one and leave the other) if she doesn't want to be a hypocrite.
Meanwhile, please repent and embrace only your woman. Women are always 'sweeter' for God's sakes! Haa! #wetin even dey sweet for fellow man body sef? #ayanma!
Go and sin no more jare! #I dey vex for dis kind tinz

BrainnewsNg:


Its not a new thing babe.

so ur bf normally av sex wit ur dad ryt?

ginawest:
u had sex wit ur babe's dad?..chai!op,dats rily bad...u beta don't tell ha o...because she z gonna feel very sad if she hears it!!

.....erm madam! Can't u read? I said its an article from "THE GUARDIAN" online! Or do you have a hangover? Then try to drink lots of water before posting tripe again!

Ok na. Gay this gay that. @ops, na them sabi jare.

Well in my opinion this guy should just tell the babe the WHOLE tale and also blow up her fathers spot because the man seems to be trying to protect his reputation and save his daughter @ the same time! And as for the babe she should cut out before the guy go lash their son one day by mistake! Break up!

Its funny how the girl's dad wants dis guy to tell his girlfriend, bt he is not want his own part to be disclosed, and surely it wil ruin his marriage if dis came out, bt bcoz he is already married, it might b easy for him to get his wife back, bt it might b hard for the guy to get his girl back coz dey r nt married. So i suggest he does nt tell his girl, bt bag de father to keep this a secrete forever. Some truths r just nt worth it

.....erm madam! Can't u read? I said its an article from "THE GUARDIAN" online! Or do you have a hangover? Then try to drink lots of water before posting tripe again! Lolz na wa o

Is this not that movies muna obiekwe and tontolet starred in?.... good one I must say

U chop pikin,chop papa,small time u go chop mama n d siblings













U are a strong man

He should tell his fiancée ASAP, because withholding the truth is a recipe for disaster. It's gon' blow up in his face when the truth later comes out. He's in a catch-22 position, but coming out with the truth will save him a lot of stress in future. The truth can't be hidden for too long. So the best thing to do is to confess to his fiancée and let her decide whether to forgive him or not and whether to carry on with marriage or not. Anything less than this is walking on a land mine.

denrele comes to mind.

POTATOES > BI SEXUALS

Fake stories. Too many gay stories on nairaland.

It's a ploy to make Nigerians comfortable with the concept.

DBlackCeazer:
denrele comes to mind.

so true...

anyway, I think the guy should tell the girl everything,including how her dad is gay too..God,what this world is turning into

This is disgusting.

O.Y.O(on your own). very disgusting. live a clean life some people say NO.

funlord:
Well in my opinion this guy should just tell the babe the WHOLE tale and also blow up her fathers spot because the man seems to be trying to protect his reputation and save his daughter @ the same time! And as for the babe she should cut out before the guy go lash their son one day by mistake! Break up!

Dumb post. You musn't comment.

The dude is gay not a paedophile.

With your pepper soup logic, it's safe to say that you might lash your female child/teenager one day?.

Vickybee:

Dumb post. You musn't comment.

The dude is gay not a paedophile.

With your pepper soup logic, it's safe to say that you might lash your female child/teenager one day?.

...who is this dunce?..obviously you must be a down syndrome afflicted monkey! But unfortunately I don't waste keystrokes on poo brained olodos like u! So please take your sad, lonely, feel among dumb posts 2 the ape section! Your being missed over there! Jegudujera!

....Lol!