hi all,

please i need ur advice on this.

how can i love some1?

i find it hard to do so.

i just prefer having casual relationship with ladies, i mean just friendship.


many of my female friend want to date me, but i always get it wrong.

they make moves but i turn them down. i always get annoyed with any lady that make a move to me. and i want to stop it but finding it hard to do.


i can feel tyhe love they shw me, but i was not giving them a chance to take it to the next level.

its like my heart is strong.

go to warri, u'll find a stonehearted lady that matches ur kind.

its either you are trying to show off ow u attract the ladies or just to selfish to settle wit one date.but either way thank you stars since so many pple want to be in your shoes, gud luk

@ amebo, lol, wow~ u said it best!

lol

@poster, the question is are you really ready to start a relationship, or you just want to do so so as not to feel left out? As a guy, i assume you know what you are looking for in a partner. If all those girls don't meet up with what you want, then so be it (though there is room for flexibility). Just don't go down on your standards to please anybody, you'll only end up being miserable. and lastly remember that Love is a decision and not a feeling. When the right person comes your way, you'll know

thanks for your advice and am ready for real.. add yours

I am not sure if you have problem with love, I think you only desire friendship with your female friends and you don't have desire to have relationship with them. May be that explains why when they make a move on you, you are not able to take it to the next level because you don't want to ruin the friendship with them.

http://www.self-help-sexuality.com/falling-in-love.html

Love is not something you force. If its not coming dnt give urself a headache over it. When it happens u will be surprised. For now just have fun hanging with ur female friends